Grey's Anatomy Spoiler Watch: More MerDer Trouble? Comments (Page 2)
49 Comments
Shari
October 25th, 2007 8:35 PM
I'm fine with the reality that Meredith needs to overcome her "dark and twisty" issues, but why does Shonda have to bring in a love interest for Derek? Remember when his sister Nancy visited and made the comment that Derek had never been alone? Well, why can't he work things out with Mark and do "guy" things in addition to supporting Meredith. I am so sick of this emotional roller coaster. I know, I know, it's just a TV show; but there are so few happy, healthy, sexy relationships depicted on television and this married mom would love to see Derek and Meredith together permanently.
I get that Shonda said she has no interest in MerDer "apart, apart" but bringing another woman into the picture after Mer's dad abandoned her and the Addison thing...what is she thinking?! This will help Meredith grow HOW?
Ok, I'm done. I am just extremely frustrated with my favorite couple's storyline. Wait, one last thing...Derek says I'll wait for you and then with no other interaction (for us to
andi
October 25th, 2007 2:43 PM
ANOTHER WOMAN?
WHY?
isnt igt enough with all the troubles he has with mer? shouldnt they first work out their issues before another girl comes in the map and besides its kind of stupid derek has been in love with mer since like forever... so if they pretend they could make us believe that from one day to another he will just be interest in other girl and be even thinking of leaving mer for someone else they are fooling with us... totally dumb
meder fan
October 24th, 2007 6:08 PM
if meredith and derek were not together , i will not watch the show anymore.....
SCGreysFan
October 24th, 2007 2:57 PM
I think we easily forget that Mer poored her heart out to him in the OR scrub room - pick me, choose me and then he chooses Addison. So she tries to move on and along comes adorable Finn. Then Derek comes back with the I chose wrong when I had to choose. So Mer gives him another chance, but it's kind of always with an ultimatum i.e. the great speech last week - I want to marry you, have kids, live to be 110 and I'll wait, but what if while I'm waiting someone else comes along. I'm sure we'd probably all say yes, if McDreamy asked us to marry him, but this is Mer and she is dark & twisty and keeps getting more twisty with all of what happened in season 3. Derek acts likes he gets it, when he talks to Mark about how Mer thinks these things don't work out - her best friend just got left at the altar. But then he doesn't give her much time to figure everything out. She just needs some room to grow, but it would be nice if he could let her grow with the confidence that he loves h
Sam
October 24th, 2007 2:07 PM
where did the at least in the short run.come from?
Debs
October 24th, 2007 2:03 PM
can i just say i agree with everyone accept Hafsa for once. Sorry Hafsa i useally i agree with you but this time.
Vio
October 24th, 2007 1:52 PM
I love you all, the people posting here (and even the ones just reading the comments). You are the proof that I'm not crazy for still watching GA. I'm a dreamer and a romantic just like you, and I want good things to happen to Meredith, Derek and the rest, but all this drama brought by Shonda into our favorite characters lives, is making me lose faith. But you give me strenght, you show me that there's still hope for MerDer, so thanks to all of you for posting.
"Que Sera, Sera,
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours, to see
Keep watching Grey's Anatomy"
greyslover
October 24th, 2007 12:21 PM
At first, I watched Grey's because of MerDer. I loved the flirting in season 1, the love triangle in season 2, and the drowning part in season 3. And I loved the first 3 episodes from season 3. How lovely when Der said 'i'm in love with you forever'...
But after a while, from epi 20 or something, they started to have discussions, there was always something wrong. I thought it was gonna change this season, but it's still the same: they are happy, they make love, they doubt, there comes a discussion, Der says he loves Mer, Mer listens to him with tears in her eyes and without saying anything, they break up,...
I want them to be together forever ! A MerDer wedding with MerDermcdreamybabies :D !
Rafe
October 24th, 2007 11:07 AM
How come this one is different than the one on the site? Did someone change this one or that one?
die_lexie_grey
October 24th, 2007 10:56 AM
I forgot that the perfect McDreamy also told her in other words, that she was a whore! So I really love the moment when she reacts and tells him:
"You don't get to call me whore. When I met you I thought I had found the person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I was done, so all the boys and all the bars and all the obvious daddy issues, who cared? Because I was done. You left me! You chose Addison! I'm all glued back together now. I make no apologies for how I chose to repair what you broke. You don't get to call me a whore."
So I should remind you, one of the best things in this show is the writting. I do not care if Derek knows what he wants now. He distroyed her before. She is not ready to trust him. In my opinion, she doesn´t have to because he says nice things. He did wrong thigs. What is more important, what you do or what you say? Think about that, before blaming her for all this mess.
die_lexie_grey
October 24th, 2007 10:35 AM
I actually do not mind that they will bring a new love interest for Derek, since it is obvious, at least to me, that they will end up together. But I do mind all the drama, and the way they are making Meredith suffer!
I mean, Derek lied to her, he chose Addison after she declared her love for him, her mother told her to her face that she shouldn´t have had her in the first place, also that she is mediocre and a bad doctor, her father left her, her mother died, her dog died, she almost dies, her fake mommy died, she realizes out of the blue that she has two sisters (half-sisters, same difference), her father hit her in the hospital humilliating her in front of everybody, tells her that she is not welcome, Derek accuses her of not beeing there as if she had no issues of her own, he leaves her again or gives up on her, then lexie comes and invades her space, she is again accused by lexie of being a bad doctor, she is accused of killing Susan, then she is supposed to be bright and shi
Sarah
October 24th, 2007 10:21 AM
Another triangle will be good for MerDer? Really?
This show is over. If Derek will start to date with this "anti-Meredith" I won't watch this crap again. MerDer deserves to be happy sometimes.
Heather
October 24th, 2007 9:09 AM
Mer/Der are by far my favorite TV romance of all time. I really want to see them together. I love the whole soul mate story line. I promised myself I would stop watching the show if anything ever happened between Der and Lexie. Just agreeing with sophiejinx, that's just gross Mer and Lexie being sisters. And a real person wouldn't go there after her sister did. At least I hope she wouldn't.
The love interest...eh...I love McDreamy's character. He is definitely well, McDreamy. But he just seems to be making the same mistake with Mer over and over again. And that's frustrating. He keeps hurting her. I loved the proposal. It was sweet but I agree with Ann...there's was an ultimatum immediately following it. And that's not romantic. He keeps leaving her every chance he gets and then stands back and wonders why she can't commit to him. He has yet to commit to her. This whole new love interest thing. In real life, it would push a non-trusting person further away. Unless Der does the chang
McDreamys Intern
October 24th, 2007 7:30 AM
While I am getting frustated with all the will they won't they of MerDer, I have to admit that it does make for good TV.
I would like to see get resolved and see Shonda finally give them a REAL shot at a healthy relationship. With all of Mer's issues there will still be plenty to write about relationship wise between them, it doesn't have to be all bright and shiny just because they are together! Give us MerDer together Shonda!!
rentaholic07
October 24th, 2007 6:57 AM
I think that this new person...whatever....will be just the kick in the butt that Meredith needs to tell Derek how she really feels about him....that she loves him too and wants to be with him....Anyone remember the speech she gave him in season 2 about when she met him she was done? MER, REMEMBER THAT!
mchotthott
October 24th, 2007 4:56 AM
kathy, i hope you are right. and that should happen.
I am sick of the mer/der story line. Shonda.. MAKE MEREDITH GROW UP! or do somehing. I hate how Derek gave her 'the" speech. The one EVERY girl wants to hear with the man she loves. And she wants to turn and walk away!
I mean i know meredith is "dark and Twisty".
but derek is her "bright and shining whatever"!!
Majdanek
October 24th, 2007 3:44 AM
I've never been so touched and so frustrated at the same time by any TV show. I'm so fond of MerDer and I so loved Shonda that she was strong enough to get them together and let them be happy. It was so different than other TV love-stories and so admirable. But from the episode 03.19 - it's just a stupid ordinary TV show what gets together and break up all the time and makes couples from everybody without any sence.
sophie
October 24th, 2007 1:17 AM
urgh!!!!hate this spoiler!!!i'm now hatin the new female doc more than lexie grey!!!even though she's not on the show yet!!!
iiluvMcDrEaMy24
October 24th, 2007 12:03 AM
I really don't like the idea of some new SLUT coming to the show...but if it helps Meredith realize what she can have with Derek, and makes her grow... then I can take it for like one episode, but no longer than that!!! But this back and forth crap is getting really annoying!!!
DevilRed9
October 23rd, 2007 11:27 PM
Theres no chance that she'll be a sister, confirmed rumors are usually true. I'm okay with the fact that there is someone come between Mer/Der cause in the end it will all work out. I agree, what fun would it be if we all got what we wanted right from the start? But how many times will Derek have to realize that Meredith is his soulmate. I the first time it was amazing, the second time it was still cute. Its getting a little old now
Mika
October 23rd, 2007 8:53 PM
expect for Bailey(she's has a husband)
Mika
October 23rd, 2007 8:50 PM
I agree with hafsa but at the same time I say bring on the love interest. In fact everyone should have a new love interest this year.
sophiejinx
October 23rd, 2007 8:45 PM
And just to respond to Lacey's comment about Ross and Rachel.... Well, I loved Friends to a point. But by the time that all wound up, at the end, I could've cared less.
Frankly I think Friends is a poster child, so to speak, for characters for whom their creators ran out of inspiration, the same inspiration that made them special to begin with. By the end -- and I never did watch the last episode -- I could've cared less. The characters rang so falsely...that I couldn't bear to watch.
sophiejinx
October 23rd, 2007 8:43 PM
What rings false is the way that the Mer/Der relationship is manipulated for purposes of tv. I say tv because as a viewer (and reader and other sorts of passive yet assertive actions) I do care that they wind up together. I get her being damaged in a different way than he is damaged, I get that they can interlock.
I get that there are roadblocks on the way. What I don't have patience for is bullshit for the sake of drama. Hey, Shonda: good drama is REAL. It touches our hearts. It doesn't make us shake our heads and say, on to "House".
I would love to see Mer/Der have challenges in the relationship but they should ring true.
Am I wrong?
Amanda
October 23rd, 2007 8:07 PM
Here's the thing,
I want Mer and Der together more than anyone I know. Shonda says on her podcast Mer will grow up eventually. But i'm getting fed up and I know a lot of other people are. So what happens when that eventually comes, and she lost a lot of her viewers??? Also does Lauren Stamille relieze she will be one of the most hated actresses on TV???
Meredith: People change, but they don't change.
October 25th, 2007 8:35 PM
I'm fine with the reality that Meredith needs to overcome her "dark and twisty" issues, but why does Shonda have to bring in a love interest for Derek? Remember when his sister Nancy visited and made the comment that Derek had never been alone? Well, why can't he work things out with Mark and do "guy" things in addition to supporting Meredith. I am so sick of this emotional roller coaster. I know, I know, it's just a TV show; but there are so few happy, healthy, sexy relationships depicted on television and this married mom would love to see Derek and Meredith together permanently.
I get that Shonda said she has no interest in MerDer "apart, apart" but bringing another woman into the picture after Mer's dad abandoned her and the Addison thing...what is she thinking?! This will help Meredith grow HOW?
Ok, I'm done. I am just extremely frustrated with my favorite couple's storyline. Wait, one last thing...Derek says I'll wait for you and then with no other interaction (for us to
October 25th, 2007 2:43 PM
ANOTHER WOMAN?
WHY?
isnt igt enough with all the troubles he has with mer? shouldnt they first work out their issues before another girl comes in the map and besides its kind of stupid derek has been in love with mer since like forever... so if they pretend they could make us believe that from one day to another he will just be interest in other girl and be even thinking of leaving mer for someone else they are fooling with us... totally dumb
October 24th, 2007 6:08 PM
if meredith and derek were not together , i will not watch the show anymore.....
October 24th, 2007 2:57 PM
I think we easily forget that Mer poored her heart out to him in the OR scrub room - pick me, choose me and then he chooses Addison. So she tries to move on and along comes adorable Finn. Then Derek comes back with the I chose wrong when I had to choose. So Mer gives him another chance, but it's kind of always with an ultimatum i.e. the great speech last week - I want to marry you, have kids, live to be 110 and I'll wait, but what if while I'm waiting someone else comes along. I'm sure we'd probably all say yes, if McDreamy asked us to marry him, but this is Mer and she is dark & twisty and keeps getting more twisty with all of what happened in season 3. Derek acts likes he gets it, when he talks to Mark about how Mer thinks these things don't work out - her best friend just got left at the altar. But then he doesn't give her much time to figure everything out. She just needs some room to grow, but it would be nice if he could let her grow with the confidence that he loves h
October 24th, 2007 2:07 PM
where did the at least in the short run.come from?
October 24th, 2007 2:03 PM
can i just say i agree with everyone accept Hafsa for once. Sorry Hafsa i useally i agree with you but this time.
October 24th, 2007 1:52 PM
I love you all, the people posting here (and even the ones just reading the comments). You are the proof that I'm not crazy for still watching GA. I'm a dreamer and a romantic just like you, and I want good things to happen to Meredith, Derek and the rest, but all this drama brought by Shonda into our favorite characters lives, is making me lose faith. But you give me strenght, you show me that there's still hope for MerDer, so thanks to all of you for posting.
"Que Sera, Sera,
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours, to see
Keep watching Grey's Anatomy"
October 24th, 2007 12:21 PM
At first, I watched Grey's because of MerDer. I loved the flirting in season 1, the love triangle in season 2, and the drowning part in season 3. And I loved the first 3 episodes from season 3. How lovely when Der said 'i'm in love with you forever'...
But after a while, from epi 20 or something, they started to have discussions, there was always something wrong. I thought it was gonna change this season, but it's still the same: they are happy, they make love, they doubt, there comes a discussion, Der says he loves Mer, Mer listens to him with tears in her eyes and without saying anything, they break up,...
I want them to be together forever ! A MerDer wedding with MerDermcdreamybabies :D !
October 24th, 2007 11:07 AM
How come this one is different than the one on the site? Did someone change this one or that one?
October 24th, 2007 10:56 AM
I forgot that the perfect McDreamy also told her in other words, that she was a whore! So I really love the moment when she reacts and tells him:
"You don't get to call me whore. When I met you I thought I had found the person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I was done, so all the boys and all the bars and all the obvious daddy issues, who cared? Because I was done. You left me! You chose Addison! I'm all glued back together now. I make no apologies for how I chose to repair what you broke. You don't get to call me a whore."
So I should remind you, one of the best things in this show is the writting. I do not care if Derek knows what he wants now. He distroyed her before. She is not ready to trust him. In my opinion, she doesn´t have to because he says nice things. He did wrong thigs. What is more important, what you do or what you say? Think about that, before blaming her for all this mess.
October 24th, 2007 10:35 AM
I actually do not mind that they will bring a new love interest for Derek, since it is obvious, at least to me, that they will end up together. But I do mind all the drama, and the way they are making Meredith suffer!
I mean, Derek lied to her, he chose Addison after she declared her love for him, her mother told her to her face that she shouldn´t have had her in the first place, also that she is mediocre and a bad doctor, her father left her, her mother died, her dog died, she almost dies, her fake mommy died, she realizes out of the blue that she has two sisters (half-sisters, same difference), her father hit her in the hospital humilliating her in front of everybody, tells her that she is not welcome, Derek accuses her of not beeing there as if she had no issues of her own, he leaves her again or gives up on her, then lexie comes and invades her space, she is again accused by lexie of being a bad doctor, she is accused of killing Susan, then she is supposed to be bright and shi
October 24th, 2007 10:21 AM
Another triangle will be good for MerDer? Really?
This show is over. If Derek will start to date with this "anti-Meredith" I won't watch this crap again. MerDer deserves to be happy sometimes.
October 24th, 2007 9:09 AM
Mer/Der are by far my favorite TV romance of all time. I really want to see them together. I love the whole soul mate story line. I promised myself I would stop watching the show if anything ever happened between Der and Lexie. Just agreeing with sophiejinx, that's just gross Mer and Lexie being sisters. And a real person wouldn't go there after her sister did. At least I hope she wouldn't.
The love interest...eh...I love McDreamy's character. He is definitely well, McDreamy. But he just seems to be making the same mistake with Mer over and over again. And that's frustrating. He keeps hurting her. I loved the proposal. It was sweet but I agree with Ann...there's was an ultimatum immediately following it. And that's not romantic. He keeps leaving her every chance he gets and then stands back and wonders why she can't commit to him. He has yet to commit to her. This whole new love interest thing. In real life, it would push a non-trusting person further away. Unless Der does the chang
October 24th, 2007 7:30 AM
While I am getting frustated with all the will they won't they of MerDer, I have to admit that it does make for good TV.
I would like to see get resolved and see Shonda finally give them a REAL shot at a healthy relationship. With all of Mer's issues there will still be plenty to write about relationship wise between them, it doesn't have to be all bright and shiny just because they are together! Give us MerDer together Shonda!!
October 24th, 2007 6:57 AM
I think that this new person...whatever....will be just the kick in the butt that Meredith needs to tell Derek how she really feels about him....that she loves him too and wants to be with him....Anyone remember the speech she gave him in season 2 about when she met him she was done? MER, REMEMBER THAT!
October 24th, 2007 4:56 AM
kathy, i hope you are right. and that should happen.
I am sick of the mer/der story line. Shonda.. MAKE MEREDITH GROW UP! or do somehing. I hate how Derek gave her 'the" speech. The one EVERY girl wants to hear with the man she loves. And she wants to turn and walk away!
I mean i know meredith is "dark and Twisty".
but derek is her "bright and shining whatever"!!
October 24th, 2007 3:44 AM
I've never been so touched and so frustrated at the same time by any TV show. I'm so fond of MerDer and I so loved Shonda that she was strong enough to get them together and let them be happy. It was so different than other TV love-stories and so admirable. But from the episode 03.19 - it's just a stupid ordinary TV show what gets together and break up all the time and makes couples from everybody without any sence.
October 24th, 2007 1:17 AM
urgh!!!!hate this spoiler!!!i'm now hatin the new female doc more than lexie grey!!!even though she's not on the show yet!!!
October 24th, 2007 12:03 AM
I really don't like the idea of some new SLUT coming to the show...but if it helps Meredith realize what she can have with Derek, and makes her grow... then I can take it for like one episode, but no longer than that!!! But this back and forth crap is getting really annoying!!!
October 23rd, 2007 11:27 PM
Theres no chance that she'll be a sister, confirmed rumors are usually true. I'm okay with the fact that there is someone come between Mer/Der cause in the end it will all work out. I agree, what fun would it be if we all got what we wanted right from the start? But how many times will Derek have to realize that Meredith is his soulmate. I the first time it was amazing, the second time it was still cute. Its getting a little old now
October 23rd, 2007 8:53 PM
expect for Bailey(she's has a husband)
October 23rd, 2007 8:50 PM
I agree with hafsa but at the same time I say bring on the love interest. In fact everyone should have a new love interest this year.
October 23rd, 2007 8:45 PM
And just to respond to Lacey's comment about Ross and Rachel.... Well, I loved Friends to a point. But by the time that all wound up, at the end, I could've cared less.
Frankly I think Friends is a poster child, so to speak, for characters for whom their creators ran out of inspiration, the same inspiration that made them special to begin with. By the end -- and I never did watch the last episode -- I could've cared less. The characters rang so falsely...that I couldn't bear to watch.
October 23rd, 2007 8:43 PM
What rings false is the way that the Mer/Der relationship is manipulated for purposes of tv. I say tv because as a viewer (and reader and other sorts of passive yet assertive actions) I do care that they wind up together. I get her being damaged in a different way than he is damaged, I get that they can interlock.
I get that there are roadblocks on the way. What I don't have patience for is bullshit for the sake of drama. Hey, Shonda: good drama is REAL. It touches our hearts. It doesn't make us shake our heads and say, on to "House".
I would love to see Mer/Der have challenges in the relationship but they should ring true.
Am I wrong?
October 23rd, 2007 8:07 PM
Here's the thing,
I want Mer and Der together more than anyone I know. Shonda says on her podcast Mer will grow up eventually. But i'm getting fed up and I know a lot of other people are. So what happens when that eventually comes, and she lost a lot of her viewers??? Also does Lauren Stamille relieze she will be one of the most hated actresses on TV???