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"Haunt You Every Day" Preview Clips

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Here's a sneak preview of Thursday's all-new Grey's Anatomy episode, "Haunt You Every Day." In this minute-long clip, Meredith and Derek talk about her mother's ashes... which she has on her person for some reason. Funny stuff. Check out the video below:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngjTO6hkFM8[/youtube]

Follow the jump for another, more intense clip, in which Izzie and Cristina debate a decision that Dr. Hahn has made - and whether Cristina unfairly judges Izzie when Meredith is guilty of similar indiscretions. Looks like another good episode ...

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vYIJ4LF_JU[/youtube]

As always, we'll be watching right along with you and updating our site as the week goes on. You can discuss "Haunt You Every Day" in our forum, as well.

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In the adultery thing, I agree. It´s always wrong to cheat. It doesn´t matter if you love someone else. It is still wrong. And you could compare both and cast equal blame, but not on Meredith and Izzie, but on Derek and Izzie. I know "the dirty mistresses" are supposed to be guilty, but in this speciffic case, Meredith didn´t know he was married, but Derek knew and kept quiet about it. He decided it was not important or not the time to mention it. Just a "I´m married, but she cheated on me and broke my heart into tiny little pieces, so I left her, fled NY and came here. Now I love you and ferry boats. I thought you should know", but NO. He had the opportunity to be fair and square with her, and he didn´t take it. And Izzie was perfectly aware. The sex, ok, drunk sex. I get that. The fact that George didn´t remember, it´s irrelevant. The whole adultery thing could have been a mistake, but they chose, after sleeping together, to start an affair. A "love" affair. They kissed in the elevator, and Izzie pressured him to break things off with Callie. She wanted to break that marriage. Are we supposed to believe, that Izzie is sorry? It´s outrageous. I´m not buying it. That apology was lame. Put yourself in Callie´s shoes. I would have decked her. Izzie never stopped to think about what he was doing. She is not sorry, she is ashamed. She finds herself in public display and it freaks her out. She doesn´t care about doing the right thing, she never cared for Callie and she doesn´t care now. And George? It is a pity. And yes, if cristina and Meredith are a closed circle, so are George and Izzie, in their own way. I agree with you when you say that he is mad at Callie for marrying him, but he is not even man enough to be honest after crashing Callie with the truth. I mean, is there some reason why he chose to tell her that "he slept with Izzie" when he was supposed to tell her "that he was inloved with Izzie"? Of course there is. He wanted her to do the dirty work for him. He wanted her to leave him so he wouldn´t have to be honest. he, in his own mind, is not the bad man, or he never thought he woul be. He is bambi, he enjoys being the victim. He was the "victim" of Meredith, Olivia and even Callie. But in Izzie´s case, he is not a victim. And he has to face the fact that he is to blame. That it is his fault. That he hurt somebody he knows is a great person and always made him feel good about himself. He is now the bad guy. And apparently, that is very hard for him to stomach. So, if you want to compare blame, I think the ones to blame here are Derek, Addie, Izzie and George. But I like the Meredith approach. Not judging is better, because you should NEVER say NEVER, it might come back to bite you in the ass, right Izzie? PS: Derek and Addie were married for eleven years. They had a true relationship. She distroyed him when she cheated on him with his best friend! He wanted to start from scratch. You cannot compare that to a night of drunk sex that leads to a secret affair, when one of them is still married and living with his wife. It is not the same thing! Come on!

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totally, completely agree with your assessment of Izzie. I think Mer and Cristina (and sometimes Alex) just accept each other, faults and all. They are always there, being supportive by just UNDERSTANDING and letting things slide. Those three feel like they can say anything to each other, and the friendship will still be strong. Both Izzie and George have a tendency to take everything personally. When Mer and George had sex (oh, ick!) Izzie RIGHT AWAY says she's on his side. And they both blamed her for "breaking" George, but he knew what he was getting into when he decided to go along with 'sad sex.' they didn't even consider that Mer might have been hurt in that situation too, or even why it happened in the first place (he said things she needed to hear, especially since she had just been figuratively left by her father again).
That would probably make the other three feel like they can't be honest with Izzie or George, because those two would cast blame their way. I've always loved the Mer/Cris and Mer/Alex friendships...ever notice how they blurt out ugly truths and the others just listen, then talk about other things. They don't obsess about what happened. Iz and Geo do obsess. They can harp a subject to death. I wouldn't feel comfortable telling them ugly-truth-type things, so I can see how Iz would feel left out of the "closed circle." She's the one who left herself out, by casting blame, judging, and obsessing. She thinks she's "there" for them, and she is, but only after someone points out things to her (only "forgave" Cris for the tremor thing after Mer mentioned Cris being there for the Denny thing). Iz has a lot of growing up to do...I just hope she doesn't hurt to many more people on the way. As for the comparison thing...IT'S NOT THE SAME! In any way, shape, or form. Okay, adultery is adultery, whatever the reason. Prom...not so good. But Der divorced Addie right away (and Addie had known how he felt about Mer the entire time anyway)...not one of them lied to anyone in this situation. They were all...weirdly...honest about everything. And Mer treated Addie with professional respect the entire time, and even mentioned a few times that she liked Addie (just not the situation). She had nothing to apologize for.
Iz and Geo...yeah, drunk. But that doesn't change the fact that they lied about it for a LONG time afterwards...Geo even agreed to have a BABY with Callie post adulterous sex. How wrong was that? The entire time Geo was dating Callie, Izzie had nothing nice to say to her. She called her weird, and even straight out said she didn't like her. she bashed Callie PERSONALLY all the time (Mer never did that with Addie) and drummed it into George's head over and over that Callie was a mistake. She NEVER supported him in regards to Callie...and she was supposed to be his best friend. And she didn't know she loved him until after sex? Or was she just trying to justify her actions. Like the L-VAD thing...it was okay because she did it for love. What happened to that love? In less than a few months or weeks (GA timeline: 3seasons =1 year) she has a new one? And George isn't taking any responsibility for his marriage...he's angry at CALLIE for marrying him. At least Derek told Addie that he had fault in the breakdown of their marriage, and that it was a sad thing to have happened. George just ranted that Callie was a mistake, and it was mostly her fault. He needs to take responsibilty too. And neither Iz nor Geo were ever honest with Callie about anything. Iz and George have a lot to apologize for. But they should mean it. And I'm not sure they really do.

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what mer did was different...she DIDN'T KNOW that they were together, then at the "prom" that's because they had had feelings before and couldn't stop them..
izzy "fell" for him AFTER he was married, she knew what she was doing

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Meredith slept with George and Izzie slept with George
I think that it was worse when Meredith did because she was fully aware of what she was doing. Izzie and George really weren't. They were drunk. and george didn't even rembember for a while. Do you realize that the first time that we ever saw George tell Callie that he loved her was seconds before he proposed. Don't you think that that is a little rushed. But I get it. George was grieving at that was how he dealed. It would have been understandable if Callie excepted George's proposal. and then they would have been engaged for awhile and made sure that the relationship was right. But no. THey went from having a nonexistant relationship to getting married in about a week. Now thats not right

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It's the same thing! Derek chose Addison, just because he was in love with Mer it doesn't justify sleeping with her while still married to Addison. It's the same situation, Derek tried to fix his marriage but in the he couldn't 'cause he was in love with Mer, George tried to feel in love with Callie but he ended up falling for Izzie. They were both wrong, having history together or being in love are not apologies for cheating. You always have to end a relationship before starting a new one.

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I don´t hate Izzie. I like Izzie, but I love Meredith and Cristina. I think that Izzie is judging herself, and taking it out on Cristina. I was thinking about this a lot, and in the end, I still think it is not the same. I already said why I think that, but I think that I forgot to mention that the main difference between Izzie´s and Meredith "adultery", is the fact that Addison knew, even before Meredith discovered that McDreamy was married, that Derek was seeing someone. That they were a couple! In Izzie´s case, she knew what she was doing (she was drunk, yes, but afterwards) and she did it anyway. And Callie didn´t cheat on George. Addison and Derek´s marriage was broken, Callie and George´s wasn´t (yet). So. But, I repeat. The thing is that Izzie is surprised even disappointed with herself. I want to believe she is ashamed, so she is kind of desperate. But you have to face it, she cares what others think because she judges people, and she does it all the time. She judged Meredith when she found out about Derek, when she slept with George, she judged George for getting married, she judged Alex for cheating on her, she judged Olivia too, she judged Cristina and doesn´t understan her nature (Cristina is cold and unemotional, but she has her reasons!), it´s like her hobby. She judges, because that is who she is. We have to love her for who she is. She even judges Callie for being rich! So, when she is judged, then it is unfair. And I cannot believe she had the nerve to explain her behavior comparing adultery with dating the boss, specially since Burke told the chief of his own free will! And trying to justify her actions with the fact that "Meredith slept with another woman´s husband"! I mean, grow up! I don´t like the Izzie-George thing because, to me, it doesn´t ring true. And now, it is just sad. I never liked Callie a lot, but she grew on me. Just like Addison. I love Addison. Now I love Callie too. Callie deserves better than this, and in my opinion, Izzie and George are not ment to be together. They were very cute best friends, but as lovers, I can´t see it. Izzie and Alex were a great couple, George is just not man enough.

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Even though I love Izzie (not really the present Izzie but the Izzie of days past) I have to second that AMEN!

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Amen.

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I agree with Arianna, I think that the second clip is about something Hahn told cristina about her relationship with Burke and Izzie got picked instead, even we all know Cristina is the best in that area (cardio). In the discussion that follows, I think Izzie is right. Cristina and Meredith are a closed circle, but it is because they stick together and they don´t judge each other. They take each other as they are because they love each other. They are family. remember Meredith deffending Cristina against her wishes? She was shocked to learn what she was doing, but she didn´t judge her, she tried to help. Izzie is being unfair, because she judged Meredith when she slept with George, she judged Cristina when she lied for Burke. She judges people and takes it personally. But she can´t stand being judged. In the matter or Addison/Derek/Meredith vs. Callie/George/Izzie, I absolutely do not think that it is the same thing. No way. Meredith didn´t know Derek was married. She didn´t even know him, and he persued her, until they became a couple. She never knew he was married. He lied to her. When she found out, she didn´t slept with him again, until the season finale. That was bad, but she didn´t persue him. She forgave him for lying, but he chose his wife. But he couldn´t live with his decision, so he got diverced. George is a moron. He married Callie because he was swimming in pain after losing his father. He made a mistake. But he doesn´t believe in divorce. So he has to live with his mistake. Until along comes Izzie. Whom has since day one (season 2) sabbotaged his relationship with Callie, making fun of her, disrespecting her even though Callie is a resident. When it is convenient for her, she decides she loves George, so that gives her the right to claim him for herself and be happy. It doesn´t matter that she broke up with Alex because he cheated on her (so in that moment, it was wrong), now that she cheats on Callie, it´s ok. Because it´s convenient for her, and it´s what, ment? Addison cheated on Derek and he left her. Many months later she comes along. She knows she wronged him, and she even tells Meredith in front of a judgmental patient that Meredith is the wronged person here. Not Addison. So in my opinion, Meredith doesn´t have to apologize. Maybe for te thing after the prom, but by then, Addison wasn´t kidding herself any longer, I guess, about her future with derek. Callie slept with Mark, but they were broken up. She broke up with him. They were both free. It hurt George, I give you that, but that does not constitute cheating. That is being nasty. So Meredith did wrong, but Izzie did worse. In my opinion, she did it on purpose, and I do not believe that she didn´t mean to hurt Callie, or that she is sorry. She was never sorry, and she has never treated her with respect. Callie should divorce George, like ASAP. He doesn´t deserve her, and the truth is, he tried but never loved her. It was a big mistake. So Izzie should stop judging everybody and stop being so self-centered. And It is totally and incredibly ridiculous when she tried to compare Cristina and Burke relationship with his adultery. Lame. Remember Denny? LVAD wire? Stolen heart? They stuck with her, and she only judges everybody else, about everything they do wrong. Totally unfair and not very friendly.

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Hey guys check out the ctv promo for tonight epi on youtube. It´s kinda simlure to the abc promo but with a few extra clips in it.

Grey's Anatomy Quotes

Did you say it? 'I love you. I don't ever want to live without you. You changed my life.' Did you say it? Make a plan. Set a goal. Work toward it, but every now and then, look around; Drink it in 'cause this is it. It might all be gone tomorrow."

Meredith (closing voiceover)

There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone. It wasn't 'cause I thought I'd be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It's easier to be alone, because what if you learn that you need love and you don't have it? What if you like it and lean on it? What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart? Can you even survive that kind of pain? Losing love is like organ damage. It's like dying. The only difference is death ends. This? It could go on forever.

Meredith
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