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I need to see crash into me 2 !
I cant have it ! where can I download it or watch it online?

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Der and Rose
The only scenario I'll accept Rose is if she frees Der from his prison of doubt and insecurity. Unlike Mer Der is bottling everything up â€" there are no friends to dance with, no tequila shots to drown, no chief to serve as a father figure (remember he lost his dad when he was very young), no lover to say all the right things to make him feel better. He has none of that! He's all alone â€" he's drowning and is desperate to find a lifeline (with no one to talk to, no outlet, no escapism so he's trapped â€" stuck in a place and he can't move â€" that's why he's still living in a trailer, has no idea what to do with his land, he came out to Seattle to be chief and now he doesn't know what he wants (he's disillusioned) â€" he's trying to learn from his mistakes but his first reaction is to ask Mer to marry him (even though he's not ready)- he wants to make it all about her not being ready but emotionally â€" he's the one that's just an intern (green, a fetus- he has a lot to learn about giving of oneself- being there (not being absent or using your mate to feed your ego). Not surprisingly when Mer asks for more space to evolve he runs to the first available woman and clings on her (first Lexi, then Sydney and now Rose â€" mind you he doesn't love these women but he needs them to feel good about himself â€" to fill the emptiness inside) He needs to accept that he has a problem, that he's flawed and that's OK (He has an addiction - clinging to women â€" it's like he defines himself based on his romantic relationships- he craves intimacy, attention, love and doesn't think he can live without it). Instead of dealing with his own issues of always needing to be needed, wanted, always taking care of the women in his life, Der is predictably going after the easy fix. (On the contrary, Mer despite all her tragic break downs, embarrassments, suicidal attempts, shameful past, hurt & pain she soldiers on â€" keeps her head high and is still caring and loving and hopeful about the future albeit with a cynical and often less than bright and shiny outlook). She's practical â€" real and honest about who she is and where she needs to be. (Der take a lesson) So if Rose helps him realize that he can want to be with Mer all he wants but until he accepts himself for who he is â€" he will never know what he really wants in life. The fact that Mer is not falling for his McDreaminess is exactly what makes her stronger than him and courageous enough to work on herself before dragging him into her insecurities. So maybe Rose can show him how insecure and shallow he is being in terms of relationships â€" they're not a cure all for everything (some things start from inside). That will make for powerful tv. Hope Shonda has something similar planned.

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Does anyone know the song playing when the paramedic stan dies it starts about 30 mins into the show if it helps :) Thought it was a great episode though.

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"Some Surprise" - the song playing during Alex and Ava's little makeout session - is on iTunes now. It's a duet with The Cake Sale and Bell X1 vocalist Paul Noonan and Lisa Hannigan (known for her collaborations with Damien Rice). Profits from the song go to benefit Oxfam's Make Trade Fair Campaign.

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Debs,
How have you been? You still havent registered on the other forum yet. Anyway, hope you are ok. Talk to you later.

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Kathy,
Lets hope nothing happens. I for one will loose any respect i have for him if he goes kissing strangers just becos they are anti-merdith and are quite clear of what they want. I mean he is old enough to know the consequences that will follow.

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Sorry guys, I hit "enter" on my keypad to quick.....
Anyway, I hope Der does not kiss Rose either......I really would not think he'd do that...I hope not!
The scene just made it look like he was going to and thats why I said maybe Cristina walks in on them or maybe it doesn't happen that way at all and Der doesn't almost kiss Rose! I would not think he would do that to Meredith, you know? I know how misleading previews can be!

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Hafsa and Debs,

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Hey Hafsa I agree with everything you´ve just said as all ways Your right if Derek kisses Rose on the same day an on-call room date with Meredith if would be such a betrayel even though their not together anymore. It´s about having RESPCT for himself & Meredith.

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Kathy,
It will be the ultimate betrayal on derek's side if he kisses rose. Wasnt it only that morning that he was with mer in the uncall room? its still the same day. Plus he doesnt even know this rose at all, apart from her asisting him in surgeries. Like i said on the other forum, if der went ahead and had something to do with rose at this early stage, then he had no right to blame either Mark or Addison in the first place.

Grey's Anatomy Quotes

Did you say it? 'I love you. I don't ever want to live without you. You changed my life.' Did you say it? Make a plan. Set a goal. Work toward it, but every now and then, look around; Drink it in 'cause this is it. It might all be gone tomorrow."

Meredith (closing voiceover)

There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone. It wasn't 'cause I thought I'd be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It's easier to be alone, because what if you learn that you need love and you don't have it? What if you like it and lean on it? What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart? Can you even survive that kind of pain? Losing love is like organ damage. It's like dying. The only difference is death ends. This? It could go on forever.

Meredith
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