It is so horrible, that when Derek yelled at Addison Meredith looked at him like she was afraid of him. That all situation about Meredith, Addison and Derek in the same room with all these emotions and issues from the past!It is awesome. I'm sure that Shonda knows that this twisted relation between these 3 people is something what we love in that show.
Maybe he's being so pissy to Addison because he finds out about the abortion before the surgery and he can't confront her in there?
Ilove Burke
February 17th, 2009 2:07 PM
Woah. Dang. I find it interesting that it's just going to be Addison, Derek, and Mer in the room.I'm interested to figure out whose side Mer will take. Derek's girlfriend will take Deriks, but the doctor in Mer obviously knows better
JJ
February 17th, 2009 1:01 PM
Until I see it all in context I don't feel right siding with either Addison or Derek. Trouble is, from what I know, removing the frontal and temporal lobes, wouldn't give that guy his wife back. She wouldn't be even remotely the same. So he would have a new baby, and a shadow to deal with. I know Derek said he could save them both doing the lobotomy, but he wouldn't really be saving them both. So right now I am edging towards Addisons side, at least the husband would have a healthy baby to love and receive love from. There is a slim chance that the wife would even know what love was after she had her brain sliced and diced.
paula
February 17th, 2009 12:57 PM
what`s up with Derek??? has he also a tumor?? he`s acting so angry and he used to be so sweet and understanding..
Najade
February 17th, 2009 12:03 PM
Why is Derek being so rude to Addison? I think Addie was very sweet to him, and she opened up to him, and he completely turned her down. I think Derek is being an ass to her. She doesn't deserve that, she deserves the best.
I think in the past, he was very sweet and caring, but now he's a jerk, an arrogant bastard!
MerDerMadness
February 17th, 2009 8:06 AM
Is it just me or is Derek's behaviour kind of scary!? His temper is his dark side which Addison seems to be good at bringing out - she builds him up to be a "God" and then pulls him right down to make him feel self doubt and worthless! No wonder Derek's mom thought Addison was not right for him, she knows how to manipulate his emotions when it suits her and now when she no longer needs him because her brother will be fine she discards him back into her little box!! I am so glad they are no longer together!
Mer wants Derek to be outstanding and believes in him that why he needs her to stay by his side and support him and hold him up even if he is making a huge mistake. On another note, I am not sure I would be very happy with Derek either if I was Mer - Derek did not even call her to tell her Addison was in town and that he was operating on her brother - she had to find out from the chief - that would not impress me if my boyfriend did that to me especially considering all the past i
jusiak
February 17th, 2009 5:25 AM
It is very interesting to see some parts where there is no all about Mer and there is a lot of about Derek's doubts, probles. I'm sure that this time Meredith will force Derek and make him stronger. I hope that she will understand that they can be a couple like Addison and Derek in the past.
*rachel
February 16th, 2009 10:31 PM
personally i think this has something to do with his old life mixing with the new. he was ready to propose and now he can't. he has this patient who is so inlove, pregnant, and is about to die. him and meredith are in love and the way she dropped the comment about babies had him freaked out. now he is dealing with a dying women with a husband. its just like when meredith almost drowned he was willing to do anything to save her and he couldnt and he probabaly wants to stop jens husband from feeling the same thing he did.
and then the mark-derek-smackdown probably has to deal with the fact he just now started to really rekindle their friendship and mark is sleeping with someone else
dimples61
February 16th, 2009 9:48 PM
He has acted a little weird ever since the serial killer was there. He hasn't been showing his kinder self. Hell if he keeps acting like and ass mer might not even except if he does ask her to marry him. Guessing here: But I figure what has happened between Mark and Derrick is that Lexie went to mer and told her about herself and Mark. And Mer told Der and he went off. I hope this don't cause Mark to lose his job. Although I'de not be upset to see the Mark and Lexie's relationship end. That was kinda yucky.
ILOVEELLENPOMPEO Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 9:41 PM
yea but taking that out would be soo inhumane and she wouldnt be the same mer.
atheart282
February 16th, 2009 9:35 PM
wow. this is gonna be amazing! how do they expect us to wait for 3 more days?!?!?!
I agree with Maddiexoxo, too. And I also think that he feels guilty still for the whole screwing up her first surgery thing. he thought she'd be ok, but now she's falling downhill and fast. and he wants to save her, and he knows how to save her. but it'll take away the woman that calls him by his first name. but at this point he doesn't care-if he can save her, fix his mistake, then it's ok. And it's sad that he's freaking out, second-guessing himself, but he reached out, even in all his ange, to Mer. I love them together, they're just perfect.
and merderdempeo and anuflas, you have a point, too. You could almost see it on his face: would I want Mer's child, or Mer, even if she woudln't recognize me or be the same woman, who would I want? Or maybe the baby didn't even cross his mind. Maybe it was a "Mer or no Mer" moment. Um, Mer?! So he takes out her frontal lobe.
Whatever happens, it's gonna b
ILOVEELLENPOMPEO Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 9:21 PM
aww it was disturbing to see poor mer jump when he yelled shes never seen that scary side of derek before.
anuflas Rank: Regular Character
February 16th, 2009 8:51 PM
I'm not sure on whose side I am but dude, that was rough!
Derek is on the verge of losing it. This is a clear example of what happens once you get emotional involved with a patient. That plus this whole thing with Archer and the serial killer obviously got to him.
I don't think that the fact that Derek is in between lives is a factor here. He has managed to leave his personal life outside the OR. He is about to make another huge change in his life (proposing to Mer) and he's chipper about it. He had to face his former life and he wasn't so chipper about it but he pulled off the surgery.
Also, did you notice that Mer stayed put when Derek told her not to move? She's starting to be on his side more. Although it was disturbing to see her jump at Derek's yells.
PS. merderdempeo, true. I think Derek asked himself what he'd do in the same situation and would prefer to have Mer without frontal lobe but still alive.
omg i cant wait for this episode!!!!! I hope this isn't like the start of a downhill roller coaster!!!! Derek was going to propose and now he is caught up in his past. And Mer is scared she doesn't really know him. I looooove this show grey's is getting soooo good!!!!
ILOVEELLENPOMPEO Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 7:06 PM
personally I'm definitly on Addy's side. Seems like everyone's getting a bit to emotionally invovled with patients this season.
Sammyness
February 16th, 2009 6:13 PM
Thats so wretched! A frontal lobotomy?? thats the same as killing someone!
Hott4McDreamy Rank: Extra
February 16th, 2009 6:06 PM
Wahoo this epi is going to be intense if it follows suit of this preview! I'm excited now!
I agree with you Maddiexoxo...I think Derek is stuck between lives...so to say. The past has come back to haunt him, asked him to be God, he does what he's asked and saves the day and then Addie questions him about his skills with this case, just like he's been questioning himself. We're definitely going to see the darker side of Der and it will be exciting to see what comes of it!
Does anyone else love that Der tells Mer to not move and she doesn't even budge? I know its all in rage, but its like he needs her there to make him confident, to not second guess himself...to make him the Der that'll save this lady's life like he knows he can do. He needs someone by his side he knows believes in him. Yay! MerDer FOREVER!
One other thing...in the preview the husband tells Der/Addie if it comes down to it, save his wife. So, isn't this what Der's trying to do and Addie's questioning
Carla
February 16th, 2009 6:00 PM
Aaaaaah, OMG, I can't wait! This looks so freaking good! Wow. And then I'm guessing next week they'll finally reveal sth.'s wrong with Izzie, what with "I'll follow you into the dark" and stuff. Man, I love Grey's right now.
Mcdreamy Lover
February 16th, 2009 5:51 PM
Did anyone else notice Meredith jump, when he yelled? I don't think I can ever remember him yelling that in front of her before, I'm sure it would alarm her. Personally since Derek treated the serial killer I think Derek's whole demenour has chnaged. His past has been brought up alot, a past that maybe he doesn't want to re-live. Looks like a good episode.=)
ILOVEELLENPOMPEO Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 5:46 PM
such drama!!! ive gotta say it im totally on addisons side on this medical case living with frontal and temporal lobe??!?!?! thats inhumane.
Maddiexoxo Rank: Guest Star
February 16th, 2009 5:39 PM
Yeah. I also think that everyone from his past being there is messing with his head. He wants to live in the now. He wants to propose to Mer. He wants to not be doubted or be put in a little box like Addy did. He wants to be him. All the people from his past expect him to be this perfect Derek... and it's just not possible. The only person who really knows who he is, is Mer. She's even having trouble with being in the back ground watching him with his old friends, and feel like there's this whole part of him she doesn't know. Derek's going to the dark place, and Mer is going to follow him there. Derek is having serious personal and professional doubts at the moment and everything is trialing him more than ever. He's gonna snap... and it's gonna be @ Mark. I'm still assuming that Mark tells him about Lexie and it's the final straw and he just snaps. Mer will be there to pick up the pieces. Maybe he'll end up going to therapy? Hmmmm... MerDer forever :)
February 17th, 2009 5:22 PM
It is so horrible, that when Derek yelled at Addison Meredith looked at him like she was afraid of him. That all situation about Meredith, Addison and Derek in the same room with all these emotions and issues from the past!It is awesome. I'm sure that Shonda knows that this twisted relation between these 3 people is something what we love in that show.
Rank: Recurring Character
February 17th, 2009 4:29 PM
ooooohhh, jucy!
February 17th, 2009 3:06 PM
Maybe he's being so pissy to Addison because he finds out about the abortion before the surgery and he can't confront her in there?
February 17th, 2009 2:07 PM
Woah. Dang. I find it interesting that it's just going to be Addison, Derek, and Mer in the room.I'm interested to figure out whose side Mer will take. Derek's girlfriend will take Deriks, but the doctor in Mer obviously knows better
February 17th, 2009 1:01 PM
Until I see it all in context I don't feel right siding with either Addison or Derek. Trouble is, from what I know, removing the frontal and temporal lobes, wouldn't give that guy his wife back. She wouldn't be even remotely the same. So he would have a new baby, and a shadow to deal with. I know Derek said he could save them both doing the lobotomy, but he wouldn't really be saving them both. So right now I am edging towards Addisons side, at least the husband would have a healthy baby to love and receive love from. There is a slim chance that the wife would even know what love was after she had her brain sliced and diced.
February 17th, 2009 12:57 PM
what`s up with Derek??? has he also a tumor?? he`s acting so angry and he used to be so sweet and understanding..
February 17th, 2009 12:03 PM
Why is Derek being so rude to Addison? I think Addie was very sweet to him, and she opened up to him, and he completely turned her down. I think Derek is being an ass to her. She doesn't deserve that, she deserves the best.
I think in the past, he was very sweet and caring, but now he's a jerk, an arrogant bastard!
February 17th, 2009 8:06 AM
Is it just me or is Derek's behaviour kind of scary!? His temper is his dark side which Addison seems to be good at bringing out - she builds him up to be a "God" and then pulls him right down to make him feel self doubt and worthless! No wonder Derek's mom thought Addison was not right for him, she knows how to manipulate his emotions when it suits her and now when she no longer needs him because her brother will be fine she discards him back into her little box!! I am so glad they are no longer together!
Mer wants Derek to be outstanding and believes in him that why he needs her to stay by his side and support him and hold him up even if he is making a huge mistake. On another note, I am not sure I would be very happy with Derek either if I was Mer - Derek did not even call her to tell her Addison was in town and that he was operating on her brother - she had to find out from the chief - that would not impress me if my boyfriend did that to me especially considering all the past i
February 17th, 2009 5:25 AM
It is very interesting to see some parts where there is no all about Mer and there is a lot of about Derek's doubts, probles. I'm sure that this time Meredith will force Derek and make him stronger. I hope that she will understand that they can be a couple like Addison and Derek in the past.
February 16th, 2009 10:31 PM
personally i think this has something to do with his old life mixing with the new. he was ready to propose and now he can't. he has this patient who is so inlove, pregnant, and is about to die. him and meredith are in love and the way she dropped the comment about babies had him freaked out. now he is dealing with a dying women with a husband. its just like when meredith almost drowned he was willing to do anything to save her and he couldnt and he probabaly wants to stop jens husband from feeling the same thing he did.
and then the mark-derek-smackdown probably has to deal with the fact he just now started to really rekindle their friendship and mark is sleeping with someone else
February 16th, 2009 9:48 PM
He has acted a little weird ever since the serial killer was there. He hasn't been showing his kinder self. Hell if he keeps acting like and ass mer might not even except if he does ask her to marry him. Guessing here: But I figure what has happened between Mark and Derrick is that Lexie went to mer and told her about herself and Mark. And Mer told Der and he went off. I hope this don't cause Mark to lose his job. Although I'de not be upset to see the Mark and Lexie's relationship end. That was kinda yucky.
Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 9:41 PM
yea but taking that out would be soo inhumane and she wouldnt be the same mer.
February 16th, 2009 9:35 PM
wow. this is gonna be amazing! how do they expect us to wait for 3 more days?!?!?!
I agree with Maddiexoxo, too. And I also think that he feels guilty still for the whole screwing up her first surgery thing. he thought she'd be ok, but now she's falling downhill and fast. and he wants to save her, and he knows how to save her. but it'll take away the woman that calls him by his first name. but at this point he doesn't care-if he can save her, fix his mistake, then it's ok. And it's sad that he's freaking out, second-guessing himself, but he reached out, even in all his ange, to Mer. I love them together, they're just perfect.
and merderdempeo and anuflas, you have a point, too. You could almost see it on his face: would I want Mer's child, or Mer, even if she woudln't recognize me or be the same woman, who would I want? Or maybe the baby didn't even cross his mind. Maybe it was a "Mer or no Mer" moment. Um, Mer?! So he takes out her frontal lobe.
Whatever happens, it's gonna b
Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 9:21 PM
aww it was disturbing to see poor mer jump when he yelled shes never seen that scary side of derek before.
Rank: Regular Character
February 16th, 2009 8:51 PM
I'm not sure on whose side I am but dude, that was rough!
Derek is on the verge of losing it. This is a clear example of what happens once you get emotional involved with a patient. That plus this whole thing with Archer and the serial killer obviously got to him.
I don't think that the fact that Derek is in between lives is a factor here. He has managed to leave his personal life outside the OR. He is about to make another huge change in his life (proposing to Mer) and he's chipper about it. He had to face his former life and he wasn't so chipper about it but he pulled off the surgery.
Also, did you notice that Mer stayed put when Derek told her not to move? She's starting to be on his side more. Although it was disturbing to see her jump at Derek's yells.
PS. merderdempeo, true. I think Derek asked himself what he'd do in the same situation and would prefer to have Mer without frontal lobe but still alive.
Rank: Extra
February 16th, 2009 8:42 PM
omg i cant wait for this episode!!!!! I hope this isn't like the start of a downhill roller coaster!!!! Derek was going to propose and now he is caught up in his past. And Mer is scared she doesn't really know him. I looooove this show grey's is getting soooo good!!!!
Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 7:06 PM
what?!
February 16th, 2009 6:45 PM
he prefers mer without frontal lobe but alive!
Rank: Extra
February 16th, 2009 6:28 PM
personally I'm definitly on Addy's side. Seems like everyone's getting a bit to emotionally invovled with patients this season.
February 16th, 2009 6:13 PM
Thats so wretched! A frontal lobotomy?? thats the same as killing someone!
Rank: Extra
February 16th, 2009 6:06 PM
Wahoo this epi is going to be intense if it follows suit of this preview! I'm excited now!
I agree with you Maddiexoxo...I think Derek is stuck between lives...so to say. The past has come back to haunt him, asked him to be God, he does what he's asked and saves the day and then Addie questions him about his skills with this case, just like he's been questioning himself. We're definitely going to see the darker side of Der and it will be exciting to see what comes of it!
Does anyone else love that Der tells Mer to not move and she doesn't even budge? I know its all in rage, but its like he needs her there to make him confident, to not second guess himself...to make him the Der that'll save this lady's life like he knows he can do. He needs someone by his side he knows believes in him. Yay! MerDer FOREVER!
One other thing...in the preview the husband tells Der/Addie if it comes down to it, save his wife. So, isn't this what Der's trying to do and Addie's questioning
February 16th, 2009 6:00 PM
Aaaaaah, OMG, I can't wait! This looks so freaking good! Wow. And then I'm guessing next week they'll finally reveal sth.'s wrong with Izzie, what with "I'll follow you into the dark" and stuff. Man, I love Grey's right now.
February 16th, 2009 5:51 PM
Did anyone else notice Meredith jump, when he yelled? I don't think I can ever remember him yelling that in front of her before, I'm sure it would alarm her. Personally since Derek treated the serial killer I think Derek's whole demenour has chnaged. His past has been brought up alot, a past that maybe he doesn't want to re-live. Looks like a good episode.=)
Rank: Recurring Character
February 16th, 2009 5:46 PM
such drama!!! ive gotta say it im totally on addisons side on this medical case living with frontal and temporal lobe??!?!?! thats inhumane.
Rank: Guest Star
February 16th, 2009 5:39 PM
Yeah. I also think that everyone from his past being there is messing with his head. He wants to live in the now. He wants to propose to Mer. He wants to not be doubted or be put in a little box like Addy did. He wants to be him. All the people from his past expect him to be this perfect Derek... and it's just not possible. The only person who really knows who he is, is Mer. She's even having trouble with being in the back ground watching him with his old friends, and feel like there's this whole part of him she doesn't know. Derek's going to the dark place, and Mer is going to follow him there. Derek is having serious personal and professional doubts at the moment and everything is trialing him more than ever. He's gonna snap... and it's gonna be @ Mark. I'm still assuming that Mark tells him about Lexie and it's the final straw and he just snaps. Mer will be there to pick up the pieces. Maybe he'll end up going to therapy? Hmmmm... MerDer forever :)