Cocktail Wins For the Love of Ray J, Speaks on Her Man

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After weeks of cat fighting, crying and kissing, Cocktail has come out on top. She is the first-ever winner of For the Love of Ray J.

She also hopes to be the last.

In her first post-show interview, Ray J's new squeeze talks about the status of her relationship with the aspiring singer....

What’s the status of your relationship?
He’s my boyfriend, and the fact that I’m not seeing my boyfriend as much as I’d like to is different from what I’m used to. I would love to see him everyday and have him come home to me every night. But that’s not what it is, and I have to take it for what it is. I’m patiently learning his lifestyle. I expected this, but I’m sad now that I’m going through it. But it just makes the times I see him even more special.

Cocktail Pic

Do you love him?
I do. I’m in love with him. I’m head over heels. When I tell my girlfriends that they’re like, “Are you kidding me?” No, this is the only man in my life right now that can say anything to me and make me fall into tears. It takes someone that I care about to go through with that emotion and show my vulnerability. I know I cried every three seconds on the show, but I care about him so much that he can say anything, the sweetest thing, the most horrible thing, and I burst into tears. I’m so overwhelmed.

So where do you go from here with Ray?
We’re going to try to make it work. We take things as they come. We’re regular people. I know people are like, “He’s this big R&B artist, this big star,” but he’s just like me and you. He’s a regular person with regular feelings. We’re gonna make the best of this and if it works out, it’s better for me and him. We found what we always wanted, and it’s love.

  • Cocktail and Kid
  • Cocktail Cries
  • Cocktail and Ray J

Click on the pics above to relive Cocktail's time on For the Love of Ray J.

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Yeah he should ve pick danger...cocktail is a ho..unique is manipulater...chardanay is cool...danger is real...

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for the ones who said they were happy that cocktail won! you guys are out of your mind shes a gold digger! She doesn't have a back bone shes weak! and she cant deal with his life style!!!! she wouldn't know how to deal with the rumors and shit! she cries way to much and its not because of what he is saying its because she wants someone to cater to her fake sorrow! every time she cried she did it in front of ray j so he could be all over her but ray j didn't really care hes a nice and genuine person and that's how he is he doesn't want anybody crying and shit so hes gonna comfort them.... Danger omg i love her she knew how to deal with the bull shit she let shit roll off her shoulders people don't understand that people aren't crazy they just have their own ways of handling things and when they hit the final straw people are clawing down there backs! danger wasn't there to make friends she was there for ray j point blank that's why she didn't fuck with them girls there the girls in that house said a whole bunch of shit but never did a damn thing about it! also the lie detector test is NEVER 100% accurate! someone could have committed a murder but weren't nervous so they passed it its all about your heart rate the machine will think that you are lying if you start to panic! most of the time people who didn't commit the murder will do time for it because of them being nervous and their heart rate is racing! so the question they were asking danger some of her answers mite have been true and others false but she was scared after the questions ray j wouldn't want her there so her heart rate began to speed uh=p which made the needle on the lie detector to jump! and you guys cant never call anyone psycho that you haven't met you seen her on t.v. and the bull shit that went around her that made her seem crazy cause she had a different way of handling her shit!

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"#22 DON'T HATE "
LMAO that is the dumbest post i've ever read and you're complaining about Ray J staying with a Mex girl and not Danger but danger is half mexican and your grammar is horrible lmao

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I THINK THAT COCKTAIL IS A FAKE ASS GOLDDIGGIN BITCH HE SHOULD OF PICKED DANGER SHE WAS REAL N PRETTIER THEN ALL OF DEM. I NO HE STILL B FUCKIN WIT HER LIKE SHE SAID...LMFAO

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I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU PICKED COCKTAIL BECAUSE SHE IS PRETTY AND SHE WAS THE REALIEST ONE THERE AND SHE WAS THERE FOR YOU TO FALL AND LOVE WITH I HOPE YOU AND COCKTAIL STAY TOGETHER FOREVER AND GOOD LUCK TO THE BOTH OF YOU AND I REALLY THINK DANGER IS PREGANET FOR THE HAERING OF IT AND IM GLAD U DIDNT PICK NO OTHER GURL BESIDES COCKTAIL AND I THINK YOU SHOULDNT DO ANY OTHER SEASON YOU SHOULD JUST STAY WTH COCKTAIL BECAUSE SHE REALLY LOVE YOU AND YOU LOVE HER AND YOU AND HER ARE MEANT TO BE DONT LISTEN WAT NO OTHER PERSON SAY ABOUT YOU AND HER THEY ARE JUST HATIN AND JELOUS THAT YOU AND HER ARE TOGETHER I WISH YOU TO THE BEST OF LUCK ......GOOOOD LUCK TOOOOOOOO *RAY J&COCKTAIL*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I WISH THE BEST

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im glad that he picked cocktail...danger is fuckin crazy and i dont like her...and unique is cool i always knew it was gonna come down to them...in the end i like cocktail...good luck cocktail&ray j

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i think all these people talking s*** are stupid and so stupid that they dont have a life and r mad that their not with them also they all need to shut up! LET THEM BE HAPPY!!!!!!!

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woww. all of you need tah hop off her kock
com'onn now.
she won its her and Ray's feelings
yoou cant help who you love!

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First of I don't like that bitch cocktail she's a hella fake ass bitch. Trying to hard too be black and something she ain't, Stay your race u ugly looking haffa cocktail. Ain't got no booty and chest. So damn flat with bones. If Ray J wasn't famous she wouldn't want his ass, she just using him to get famous, so her mexican ass can be on a mexican sopa opera show. Saying all that crap about she love him and shit. Bitch please!!! stop acting, u cocktail is such a damn fucking drama queen. Ray J you hella, hella, hella dumb and stupid for picking this lookin ugly boney hoe cocktail ain't got shit. Ray you should of pick Danger or Unique and you would of been happy, I can see it in your eye at the reunion u ain't happy with that haffa. I hope you and that haffa cocktail don't work out and I mean it!!!! Ray J you are Mexican wash and I use to love you before you start liking mexican people. Don't you know that mexican people is killing all the people in america do the diease that is going around, because they brought it into america and there hella mexican people in usa... Watch out ray J you might be next!

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This shit is humorous to me. Just because DANGER kept it 'real' dont mean ray j should have picked her.
a.) he has expectations & I dont think a psycho ass whore fits one of them
b.) shes busted as hell
c.) talk about being real, she made up being pregnant. Good job tramp way to stay in the lime light wit "cha man" & did anyone watch the episode w/ his momma? Pretty sure her servin up the food like that wasnt her just showing true colors, bitch was frontin.
d.) Shes obviously not his type-just because he picked cocktail doesnt mean hes not over his ex Kim, maybe thats just his type of woman. I think ray J picked the most suitable girl for him on the show, although i dont think theyll last either. Best part of the season hands down:
DANGER! She Smashed The Homies!! bahaha
good job with that one Tom Green.