Grey's Anatomy Review: The Right To Know Comments (Page 2)
73 Comments
Andrea
April 15th, 2012 4:50 AM
To the comment about Cristina not able to have babies due to an ectopic pregnancy that burst ONE of her Fallopian tubes. Women have TWO Fallopian tubes and TWO ovaries left and right sides. So if she lost one she still has the other. She can still have babies. I love Cristina and I'm proud if her for standing up for herself and letting Owen go even though I know it hurts. But he needs to know (and all men for that matter) that cheating is a deal breaker. I don't care if you are drunk, high, on whatever drug or medication you know who your wife is and isn't and you should know the consequences of your actions. It's sick. And if he didn't use protection he's putting her at risk too and could have gotten this crazy lady pregnant then what?
Goldie
April 14th, 2012 10:16 PM
I truly hope with all of my being that Shonda doesn't end up letting this "other woman" get pregnant. This whole arc is painful to watch, to endure and it's time for an upswing. Her getting pregnant just seems mean. My first choice would be for Crowen to get back together, but if they don't, I don't want it to be because of a baby with the "hook-up". As much as I want to see what happens with Mark and Lexie, I might just have to be done with GA. This was a painful season and I initially thought seasons 2 and 4 were hard. Jeesh!!!!!
Kyrhyn
April 14th, 2012 8:11 PM
i think its interesting how much of a kickass surgeon Christina is, but when it comes to relationships with men, she apparently has some serious esteem issues. it's like she totally gives herself away to them. i hate it when i see this in women in real life, and i don't hate it any less on tv. get some gumption, girl! maybe if she got some true self-confidence, she wouldn't have to completely shut down when it comes to a discussion.
Diana
April 14th, 2012 3:26 PM
I'm suprised how many women here think Christina is guilty of his cheating just because she got an abortion. I'm aware that when you get married you make compromises, but there are things that are not negotiable. If Owen wouldn't have known from the beggining her stand on children, than I would have said, Ok, they should discuss it, but he knew from the start she didn't want any kids. Being married doesn't mean you stop being the owner of your body and no woman should be forced to have a baby if they don't want one. Just because she doesn't want to be a mother that doesn't make her inmature as he tried to make it looke like.
Kathy
April 14th, 2012 2:14 PM
I honestly think what Christina needs is someone who loves her for exactly who she is. If you re-watch old episodes with Christina and Burke, you'll find that he was trying to change her and mold her into this "wife" figure. She even told Owen at one point that Burke stole pieces of her throughout the relationship and she lost who she was. That's not a real healthy relationship. And now Owen, who knew from the get go she didn't want kids, wants her to become a mother which is again, not what she wants. Christina is a strong, independent character who loves being a surgeon but still has a lot of love to give a husband. And she deserves to be loved and accepted for who she is!
Soraia
April 14th, 2012 7:28 AM
Webber had reason on that situation and Mark just because want to be a Chief, he was leaving the patient died. On the end of the episode Owen told Derek that he had not told to Mark for replace him. So Mark cheated everyone to get along and be a leader and boss of everyone, this is an attitude of a Chief? Deceive the whole hospital? He should be prosecuted for it, but as he is Mark I doubt that they do something, as he always does what he wants and does not lead to any consequences. Mark is not the spectacle that you guys say and disgusting no one saw that.
Go Webber.
Dominique
April 14th, 2012 6:00 AM
I hate this whole Cristina/Owen arc because I feel like they're trying to give people a reason to hate Owen as much as some disliked Yang after she decided to have an abortion, knowing fully well how much Owen wanted a kid. This whole storyline is just one big mess.
Can I say that I HATE Dr. Webber? The man is so full of it, so arrogant. He defies everyone's authority, does what he wants, steals away surgeries from everyone... The man is so pathetic. He doesn't want to be Chief when there are interesting surgeries floating around, but he suddenly does act like the Chief when he wants something done. And then Bailey with her "are you saying no to Dr. Webber?" Please, this man is no better than the rest of the surgeons and shouldn't get any special treatment just because he happened to be Chief. And when he basically humiliated Mark and his authority by telling him to stand down.. ugh.
Tosak
April 14th, 2012 3:47 AM
I'd really love to see Burke back. Even if its for a few episodes...maybe as a patient? A victim of Hit & Run?. Cristina and Burke were great together...that's what got me hooked on the show.
Xirena
April 14th, 2012 2:49 AM
I nearly cried when Owen left and really felt for Cristina. No woman deserves to be cheated on for any reason and the fact that he did it purely to hurt her is so wrong in itself. But then again, it takes two and that other woman to jump in bed with a guy she knows is married makes me question her morals as well. It was nice to see someone other than robot Cristina for once, she showed a lot more of a human side this time around. I really hope that she can get a guy that will actually get her as a person. Still on the fence as to whether or not these two can make it. I think she might actually take him back...but I wouldn't know what to do if it were me. Honestly. Cristina is a character I've been interested in since the show began and it's been great seeing her develop. However, after eight season, she really really needs to be happy.
Mer and Der are have definitely come full circle since the first episode. I would love to see her in a white dress for a wedding receptio
JR
April 14th, 2012 1:54 AM
I wish they would give Patrick Dempsey more than 5 second scenes with a little bit better writing and editing. The Sandra Oh and Kevin McKidd scenes were redundant and dragged on too long. Sandra Oh is a good actress but these scenes were the opposite of her personality. She would have booted him out quickly and got on with it.
Owen & Christina
April 14th, 2012 12:36 AM
Let me start by saying it is NEVER right to cheat. It is just plain wrong and there is no excuse. But when talking about the entire marriage, Christina hurt Owen big time as well. When they enter their marriage she was not even listening to Owen's point of view. I mean if you dont want kids fine but at least listen to your husband express his feelings. Everyone has a dream when they get married of a perfect marriage no one thinks they will have to make sacrifices of things that are dearly close to them. Owen agreed not to have children but he is a human. People change opinions as time passes. He is allowed to think differently and express his wishes. Christina hurt him and pretends like he should just get over it and not even discuss it with him.
I am a girl and do believe that women have rights over their body and can choose to have an abortion if they want but they were married. The least she could do is consult him and treat him like an equal. She makes all the decisons and always
WTF! NO Teddy is the worst! I hate her so much! her & her dead husband of 3 weeks that she knew for like 5 months.
..I want Owen & Christina to get bk together...I think they will.
imani
April 13th, 2012 8:54 PM
I miss Burke SOOO much!! I don't think there's anyone for Cristina but him and I never will.
Filipa Santos
April 13th, 2012 7:02 PM
Bring back Burk!
myfavorite
April 13th, 2012 5:55 PM
No o Burke returning.
sookie00 Rank: Recurring Character
April 13th, 2012 3:51 PM
Liked that episode, it's getting better and better.
Loved the transplantation case, Webber rocks ! He'll always be the real chief, even though Mark was quite good and that was unexpected, and funny !
For once, I was not bored watching Owen and Cristina, but I am so relieved that for a while, they won't talk about this ridiculous storyline anymore. Now we're gonna focus on Cristina as a surgeon, and that's great.
As always, Sandra Oh was just impressive and brilliant.
I laughed a lot with everything related to the ladies night, but I was disappointed. I was expecting something friendly and moving from the promo pics, and there was actually nothing. They all really sucked as friends for Teddy, thank god Arizona rose on time.
Next week epi looks really emotional, can't wait !
Kayte
April 13th, 2012 1:35 PM
As a woman that has been in Christina's shoes, I know her pain and i know why she wanted he wasn't and, as her wife, she does have that right to know. She was hurt and at least knowing the details allowed her know what kind of man she was living with.
Owen was a coward by allowing himself to cheat on Christina and she what she should have done. If he was unhappy, why lie when it is more mature and masculine to admit that it wasn't working.
Sorry, like I said, I know her pain and this episode really struck home with me.
Goldie
April 13th, 2012 1:21 PM
Solid episode but it was incredibly painful to watch Cristina and Owen's pain, and it was both of them hurting. It actually hurt to watch it. I had a husband that cheated so I understand how she felt. I didn't find her laughing about "crying over a boy" insulting. It was vintage Cristina being resurrected. Finally!! Shonda tweeted yesterday that she never said Cristina and Owen were over. Just the storyline. My prediction is that they will end up together, Mark will be with Lexie and Karev will end up with Kepner. Think back to the What If epi. Shonda leaves you clues and bread crumbs if you just look for them.
Sherrythomas
April 13th, 2012 1:06 PM
Okay It was an okay Eps. Mark as Chife was awsome LOVED BEEF WITH THE CHIFE!! Mark wow cleans up veryyyyy NICE!Yeah and I wish Lexie would of gottn to see him like that but I thike they might of had her helping the otheres so she wouldnt had to seen him.I wish they would do and eps threw the eyes of lexie and mark that would be AWSOME!!And I do agree with another comment up her Shonda needs to get it together I am kinda sick of seeing Mark and Lexie only on for like all of 10 minutes!! But there are othere places she (Shonda) needs to adress to. Im sick of hear or seeing Christina and Owen Im really over it!!
Penny
April 13th, 2012 1:00 PM
Oh and McKidd were great last night. The best scene for me was Cristina's hysterical laughter in the bathroom. Her comment was so very Cristina. Her inner surgeon telling her to stop all the emotional crap. After her "boy" comment, Hunt's face became so sad. That scene just said everything about their problems. It's not wrong for her to not want kids and to want to be a great surgeon, but if you're in a partnership where both sides don't feel they have an equal stake, there will be problems. I think in that moment, Owen was reminded again that he will in some ways always come second to surgery. Not that I excuse him for cheating. I just thought he was so sad that night and angry for not being heard during therapy (and he was without a support system), so he acted out of emotion and alcohol. I just hope the chick from the bar doesn't get pregnant.
geelightning Rank: Guest Star
April 13th, 2012 12:13 PM
2/2 Yahoo Sandra Oh! I always think she's a good actress. Cristina... I feel bad for her and no matter what Owen says, what he did has no excuse. But I also feel that she made mistakes too (abortion of their child). They are both responsible for the destruction of their relationship. I don't know, man! They are both so damaged and so is their relationship. Guess nobody really knows what to do in that kind of situation. So it'll be interesting to see how this plays out.
Ah, the boards! I forgot what I read about some spoilers about this but if there is/are someone/some who wouldn't pass, I'll take a guess and say Avery because he never has enough time to study? and Cristina failing and Mer switching results or something so Cristina "passes" haha! I kid. Jeez, I hope Mer is behind all that.
Poor Teddy, everyone's acting awkwardly around her.
And I LOVE that the McFamily are perfect and happy :)
geelightning Rank: Guest Star
April 13th, 2012 12:13 PM
I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING in this review!
Yes, Dr. Sloan! I think it would be awesome if he becomes chief someday :) I was having trouble thinking at first why he was saying NO a lot. I thought he was just letting the power get to him or something but then Webber said Sloan is in Plastics so he's been trained to perfection but in General Surgery, you don't really need perfect and pretty, you just need things to work. And yes, the man cleans up nice except Little Grey shoulda seen it!
That's another one I agree on, Lexie! Seriously, what happened to last week's story?! How can they always neglect the Mark-Lexie story and put them in the background? I mean, they deserve some solid and CONSISTENT recognition. It would have been fun to see some interaction while Mark was chief. Seriously, their storyline is my biggest frustration, STOP NEGLECTING THEM SHONDAAAA! I swear, I'm losing patience. They're my favorite couple and about 70% of the reason why I watch this show religiously.
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sven
April 13th, 2012 12:00 PM
Does anyone know who the actress was who played Owen's "other woman"?
AlexIsAwesome
April 13th, 2012 11:33 AM
I've always hated Owen, but apparently not enough. When he married Cristina, he KNEW she didn't want kids, and vowed fidelity anyway. Cristina never vowed to become his incubator on command. Now, he's throwing tantrums because she's not "growing up," i.e. wanting what he wants. This crap about him being honorable is absurd. He's a coward. An honorable man would divorce her and walk away, not punish his wife for who she has always been.
The rest of this episode was a complete waste. Mark is a joke, always has been, and Teddy's ridiculous grief is beyond tedious. She didn't even know what's his name for as long as this has dragged out. Grey's needs to step it up going into the Finale. Crowen is boring, and nothing else is happening.
Karen Gilbreath
April 13th, 2012 11:25 AM
I feel for both Owen and Christina. In Owen's defense, it is really hard to get over the fact that his wife got rid of their baby! Murder is never right, whether its a grown adult, 17 year old child or a defenseless fetus who cannot fight for his/herself! That would be really difficult to forgive.
In Christina's defense, the man she took her vows with broke those vows to sleep with another woman whom he doesn't even remember her name, so it was nothing more than stranger sex, how do you get past that? How do you allow that person to share your marriage bed with you again? And to emotionally pay her back for getting an abortion? Doesn't he think she is in enough hell going through that abortion? He totally made the wrong decision and now he has to live with the consequences. If I were Christina I would never let him come back. After a few weeks of grieving and trying to compose myself, I would head straight to my lawyers office and begin divorce proceedings.
Meredith: People change, but they don't change.
April 15th, 2012 4:50 AM
To the comment about Cristina not able to have babies due to an ectopic pregnancy that burst ONE of her Fallopian tubes. Women have TWO Fallopian tubes and TWO ovaries left and right sides. So if she lost one she still has the other. She can still have babies. I love Cristina and I'm proud if her for standing up for herself and letting Owen go even though I know it hurts. But he needs to know (and all men for that matter) that cheating is a deal breaker. I don't care if you are drunk, high, on whatever drug or medication you know who your wife is and isn't and you should know the consequences of your actions. It's sick. And if he didn't use protection he's putting her at risk too and could have gotten this crazy lady pregnant then what?
April 14th, 2012 10:16 PM
I truly hope with all of my being that Shonda doesn't end up letting this "other woman" get pregnant. This whole arc is painful to watch, to endure and it's time for an upswing. Her getting pregnant just seems mean. My first choice would be for Crowen to get back together, but if they don't, I don't want it to be because of a baby with the "hook-up". As much as I want to see what happens with Mark and Lexie, I might just have to be done with GA. This was a painful season and I initially thought seasons 2 and 4 were hard. Jeesh!!!!!
April 14th, 2012 8:11 PM
i think its interesting how much of a kickass surgeon Christina is, but when it comes to relationships with men, she apparently has some serious esteem issues. it's like she totally gives herself away to them. i hate it when i see this in women in real life, and i don't hate it any less on tv. get some gumption, girl! maybe if she got some true self-confidence, she wouldn't have to completely shut down when it comes to a discussion.
April 14th, 2012 3:26 PM
I'm suprised how many women here think Christina is guilty of his cheating just because she got an abortion. I'm aware that when you get married you make compromises, but there are things that are not negotiable. If Owen wouldn't have known from the beggining her stand on children, than I would have said, Ok, they should discuss it, but he knew from the start she didn't want any kids. Being married doesn't mean you stop being the owner of your body and no woman should be forced to have a baby if they don't want one. Just because she doesn't want to be a mother that doesn't make her inmature as he tried to make it looke like.
April 14th, 2012 2:14 PM
I honestly think what Christina needs is someone who loves her for exactly who she is. If you re-watch old episodes with Christina and Burke, you'll find that he was trying to change her and mold her into this "wife" figure. She even told Owen at one point that Burke stole pieces of her throughout the relationship and she lost who she was. That's not a real healthy relationship. And now Owen, who knew from the get go she didn't want kids, wants her to become a mother which is again, not what she wants. Christina is a strong, independent character who loves being a surgeon but still has a lot of love to give a husband. And she deserves to be loved and accepted for who she is!
April 14th, 2012 7:28 AM
Webber had reason on that situation and Mark just because want to be a Chief, he was leaving the patient died. On the end of the episode Owen told Derek that he had not told to Mark for replace him. So Mark cheated everyone to get along and be a leader and boss of everyone, this is an attitude of a Chief? Deceive the whole hospital? He should be prosecuted for it, but as he is Mark I doubt that they do something, as he always does what he wants and does not lead to any consequences. Mark is not the spectacle that you guys say and disgusting no one saw that.
Go Webber.
April 14th, 2012 6:00 AM
I hate this whole Cristina/Owen arc because I feel like they're trying to give people a reason to hate Owen as much as some disliked Yang after she decided to have an abortion, knowing fully well how much Owen wanted a kid. This whole storyline is just one big mess.
Can I say that I HATE Dr. Webber? The man is so full of it, so arrogant. He defies everyone's authority, does what he wants, steals away surgeries from everyone... The man is so pathetic. He doesn't want to be Chief when there are interesting surgeries floating around, but he suddenly does act like the Chief when he wants something done. And then Bailey with her "are you saying no to Dr. Webber?" Please, this man is no better than the rest of the surgeons and shouldn't get any special treatment just because he happened to be Chief. And when he basically humiliated Mark and his authority by telling him to stand down.. ugh.
April 14th, 2012 3:47 AM
I'd really love to see Burke back. Even if its for a few episodes...maybe as a patient? A victim of Hit & Run?. Cristina and Burke were great together...that's what got me hooked on the show.
April 14th, 2012 2:49 AM
I nearly cried when Owen left and really felt for Cristina. No woman deserves to be cheated on for any reason and the fact that he did it purely to hurt her is so wrong in itself. But then again, it takes two and that other woman to jump in bed with a guy she knows is married makes me question her morals as well. It was nice to see someone other than robot Cristina for once, she showed a lot more of a human side this time around. I really hope that she can get a guy that will actually get her as a person. Still on the fence as to whether or not these two can make it. I think she might actually take him back...but I wouldn't know what to do if it were me. Honestly. Cristina is a character I've been interested in since the show began and it's been great seeing her develop. However, after eight season, she really really needs to be happy.
Mer and Der are have definitely come full circle since the first episode. I would love to see her in a white dress for a wedding receptio
April 14th, 2012 1:54 AM
I wish they would give Patrick Dempsey more than 5 second scenes with a little bit better writing and editing. The Sandra Oh and Kevin McKidd scenes were redundant and dragged on too long. Sandra Oh is a good actress but these scenes were the opposite of her personality. She would have booted him out quickly and got on with it.
April 14th, 2012 12:36 AM
Let me start by saying it is NEVER right to cheat. It is just plain wrong and there is no excuse. But when talking about the entire marriage, Christina hurt Owen big time as well. When they enter their marriage she was not even listening to Owen's point of view. I mean if you dont want kids fine but at least listen to your husband express his feelings. Everyone has a dream when they get married of a perfect marriage no one thinks they will have to make sacrifices of things that are dearly close to them. Owen agreed not to have children but he is a human. People change opinions as time passes. He is allowed to think differently and express his wishes. Christina hurt him and pretends like he should just get over it and not even discuss it with him.
I am a girl and do believe that women have rights over their body and can choose to have an abortion if they want but they were married. The least she could do is consult him and treat him like an equal. She makes all the decisons and always
Rank: Guest Star
April 13th, 2012 9:29 PM
WTF! NO Teddy is the worst! I hate her so much! her & her dead husband of 3 weeks that she knew for like 5 months.
..I want Owen & Christina to get bk together...I think they will.
April 13th, 2012 8:54 PM
I miss Burke SOOO much!! I don't think there's anyone for Cristina but him and I never will.
April 13th, 2012 7:02 PM
Bring back Burk!
April 13th, 2012 5:55 PM
No o Burke returning.
Rank: Recurring Character
April 13th, 2012 3:51 PM
Liked that episode, it's getting better and better.
Loved the transplantation case, Webber rocks ! He'll always be the real chief, even though Mark was quite good and that was unexpected, and funny !
For once, I was not bored watching Owen and Cristina, but I am so relieved that for a while, they won't talk about this ridiculous storyline anymore. Now we're gonna focus on Cristina as a surgeon, and that's great.
As always, Sandra Oh was just impressive and brilliant.
I laughed a lot with everything related to the ladies night, but I was disappointed. I was expecting something friendly and moving from the promo pics, and there was actually nothing. They all really sucked as friends for Teddy, thank god Arizona rose on time.
Next week epi looks really emotional, can't wait !
April 13th, 2012 1:35 PM
As a woman that has been in Christina's shoes, I know her pain and i know why she wanted he wasn't and, as her wife, she does have that right to know. She was hurt and at least knowing the details allowed her know what kind of man she was living with.
Owen was a coward by allowing himself to cheat on Christina and she what she should have done. If he was unhappy, why lie when it is more mature and masculine to admit that it wasn't working.
Sorry, like I said, I know her pain and this episode really struck home with me.
April 13th, 2012 1:21 PM
Solid episode but it was incredibly painful to watch Cristina and Owen's pain, and it was both of them hurting. It actually hurt to watch it. I had a husband that cheated so I understand how she felt. I didn't find her laughing about "crying over a boy" insulting. It was vintage Cristina being resurrected. Finally!! Shonda tweeted yesterday that she never said Cristina and Owen were over. Just the storyline. My prediction is that they will end up together, Mark will be with Lexie and Karev will end up with Kepner. Think back to the What If epi. Shonda leaves you clues and bread crumbs if you just look for them.
April 13th, 2012 1:06 PM
Okay It was an okay Eps. Mark as Chife was awsome LOVED BEEF WITH THE CHIFE!! Mark wow cleans up veryyyyy NICE!Yeah and I wish Lexie would of gottn to see him like that but I thike they might of had her helping the otheres so she wouldnt had to seen him.I wish they would do and eps threw the eyes of lexie and mark that would be AWSOME!!And I do agree with another comment up her Shonda needs to get it together I am kinda sick of seeing Mark and Lexie only on for like all of 10 minutes!! But there are othere places she (Shonda) needs to adress to. Im sick of hear or seeing Christina and Owen Im really over it!!
April 13th, 2012 1:00 PM
Oh and McKidd were great last night. The best scene for me was Cristina's hysterical laughter in the bathroom. Her comment was so very Cristina. Her inner surgeon telling her to stop all the emotional crap. After her "boy" comment, Hunt's face became so sad. That scene just said everything about their problems. It's not wrong for her to not want kids and to want to be a great surgeon, but if you're in a partnership where both sides don't feel they have an equal stake, there will be problems. I think in that moment, Owen was reminded again that he will in some ways always come second to surgery. Not that I excuse him for cheating. I just thought he was so sad that night and angry for not being heard during therapy (and he was without a support system), so he acted out of emotion and alcohol. I just hope the chick from the bar doesn't get pregnant.
Rank: Guest Star
April 13th, 2012 12:13 PM
2/2 Yahoo Sandra Oh! I always think she's a good actress. Cristina... I feel bad for her and no matter what Owen says, what he did has no excuse. But I also feel that she made mistakes too (abortion of their child). They are both responsible for the destruction of their relationship. I don't know, man! They are both so damaged and so is their relationship. Guess nobody really knows what to do in that kind of situation. So it'll be interesting to see how this plays out.
Ah, the boards! I forgot what I read about some spoilers about this but if there is/are someone/some who wouldn't pass, I'll take a guess and say Avery because he never has enough time to study? and Cristina failing and Mer switching results or something so Cristina "passes" haha! I kid. Jeez, I hope Mer is behind all that.
Poor Teddy, everyone's acting awkwardly around her.
And I LOVE that the McFamily are perfect and happy :)
Rank: Guest Star
April 13th, 2012 12:13 PM
I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING in this review!
Yes, Dr. Sloan! I think it would be awesome if he becomes chief someday :) I was having trouble thinking at first why he was saying NO a lot. I thought he was just letting the power get to him or something but then Webber said Sloan is in Plastics so he's been trained to perfection but in General Surgery, you don't really need perfect and pretty, you just need things to work. And yes, the man cleans up nice except Little Grey shoulda seen it!
That's another one I agree on, Lexie! Seriously, what happened to last week's story?! How can they always neglect the Mark-Lexie story and put them in the background? I mean, they deserve some solid and CONSISTENT recognition. It would have been fun to see some interaction while Mark was chief. Seriously, their storyline is my biggest frustration, STOP NEGLECTING THEM SHONDAAAA! I swear, I'm losing patience. They're my favorite couple and about 70% of the reason why I watch this show religiously.
Y
April 13th, 2012 12:00 PM
Does anyone know who the actress was who played Owen's "other woman"?
April 13th, 2012 11:33 AM
I've always hated Owen, but apparently not enough. When he married Cristina, he KNEW she didn't want kids, and vowed fidelity anyway. Cristina never vowed to become his incubator on command. Now, he's throwing tantrums because she's not "growing up," i.e. wanting what he wants. This crap about him being honorable is absurd. He's a coward. An honorable man would divorce her and walk away, not punish his wife for who she has always been.
The rest of this episode was a complete waste. Mark is a joke, always has been, and Teddy's ridiculous grief is beyond tedious. She didn't even know what's his name for as long as this has dragged out. Grey's needs to step it up going into the Finale. Crowen is boring, and nothing else is happening.
April 13th, 2012 11:25 AM
I feel for both Owen and Christina. In Owen's defense, it is really hard to get over the fact that his wife got rid of their baby! Murder is never right, whether its a grown adult, 17 year old child or a defenseless fetus who cannot fight for his/herself! That would be really difficult to forgive.
In Christina's defense, the man she took her vows with broke those vows to sleep with another woman whom he doesn't even remember her name, so it was nothing more than stranger sex, how do you get past that? How do you allow that person to share your marriage bed with you again? And to emotionally pay her back for getting an abortion? Doesn't he think she is in enough hell going through that abortion? He totally made the wrong decision and now he has to live with the consequences. If I were Christina I would never let him come back. After a few weeks of grieving and trying to compose myself, I would head straight to my lawyers office and begin divorce proceedings.
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