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The Vampire Diaries Exclusive: Ian Somerhalder on Missing Alaric, Loving Elena and Finding Compassion

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Damon Salvatore misses his best friend. That much is evident in this Vampire Diaries clip from tomorrow night's "Memorial."

And the character isn't alone.

"F-ck Damon. I miss Alaric," Ian Somerhalder told me over the phone yesterday. "I miss Matt Davis in my life."

Damon Promo Pic

The second (TERRIFIC!) episode of The Vampire Diaries Season 4 will give viewers multiple opportunities to see how his drinking buddy's passing affects Damon, but Somerhalder says the loss goes beyond a lack of someone to meet at the Grill.

"Losing Alaric signifies something bigger, it raises much bigger questions in Damon's world," the actor explains. "He wonders: 'Why are you dead? What did I do to contribute to it?'"

And it sets Damon off on a dark, lonely path.

"He's missing his best bro, but he's also telling those around him: 'I tried so hard to make you guys see my point of view. And now what's happened? Alaric is dead. Elena is dead.' Damon was right. And now he's saying: 'This is who I am. I tried to play nice and know what? It didn't work.'"

Yes, it's a return to the cynical side ("This is me. Take it or leave it," Somerhalder describes his character's current outlook) of Damon Salvatore, which the star has made clear over the years is his preferred role to play.

"You can't just be a cool lunatic all the time, I understand that. You need to grow and change and evolve," Somerhalder says of the journey Damon has taken. "Still, you are who you are at your core."

And who is that person?

Damon has always had "ill intentions, but he had them for righteous reasons," Somerhalder says. "He believes in what he's doing and he enjoys it so much… whether he's ripping your throat out or saving a kitten from a tree, Damon has that same smile on his face. It's sadistic but true. And the only person he isn't that way around is Elena."

So does that mean Somerhalder is glad he didn't get the girl? Wouldn't a relationship with Elena set Damon down a much lighter path? Somerhalder needed a moment to contemplate that question.

"If you look at why Damon came back to Mystic Falls, it was for love. Even being a sort of maniacal kind of killer at times, he wants what we all want: to be loved."

In his personal life, meanwhile, Somerhalder has found a different sort of love. As most fans know, he's deeply involved in charity work. His latest "ginormous undertaking" is the building of an animal sanctuary in Louisiana.

His goal is to create a safe haven to house neglected animals and introduce them to similarly-mistreated teenagers.

"It's all about compassion," Somerhalder says of his vision to combine troubled animals with young bullies. "I can't sleep at night thinking about all these kids we're losing [to suicide due to bullying]. Aside from them being sons and daughters and nephews and nieces, of course, they could be the next President... It's absolutely insane."

Overall, with the global population over seven billion and resources being stretched thin, Somerhalder believes more than ever that "we need innovators, we need educators and we need compassion. They all go hand in hand."

Visit the Ian Somerhalder Foundation for more information on how you can help.

And tune in to tomorrow night's brand new episode of The Vampire Diaries. It's one of the best in show history.

Matt Richenthal is the Editor in Chief of TV Fanatic. Follow him on Twitter and on Google+.

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I absolutky love Ian, He is a fantastic actor and a wonderfull, beautifull Man.. Damon is the best Character on TV ever, but the reason for that is the great acting Skill of ian Somerhalder.

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1st of all I want to say is that I love this photo it's so great, 2nd of all I feel really sorry for Damon, I knew that he will be sad and will miss Alaric but I never thought that he will be affected that much specially that he was the one who came up with a plan to kill him (as a mercy killing) but after all he was his only friend, only one he trusted after Elena and the only person that he referred to him as a brother so loosing him would be really depressing.
I'm so excited to see what's coming up all along this season.
About Ian Somerhalder: I said it once and I'll say it again Ian Somerhalder is the symbol of great talent, soul and heart. He's an inspiration for me and for many others. Wish him all happiness and success. :)

Matt richenthal

@BL: Nope, Ian wants to bring in the bullies themselves to mingle with these animals and develop a compassion for others.

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Ian is man of many talents, he uses his fame for all the right reasons no wonder we all love him xx

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Hi, commentary on the writing in the article... in the 4th paragraph from the bottom the first sentence reads, "'It's all about compassion,' Somerhalder says of his vision to combine troubled animals with young bullies." I think it's supposed to read "victims of young bullies" or something of the sort...?

Sarah silva

He also sounds like a terrific guy I follow him on Twitter and he is amayzing! Using his fame for good!

Sarah silva

I love the photo and I think that it is cute that Ian misses Matt!
I also totally agree with what he said about Damon:
He's missing his best bro, but he's also telling those around him: 'I tried so hard to make you guys see my point of view. And now what's happened? Alaric is dead. Elena is dead.' Damon was right. And now he's saying: 'This is who I am. I tried to play nice and know what? It didn't work.'" I never looked at it that way and not that I am I like Damon even more now!

Vampire Diaries Quotes

You want a love that consumes you. You want passion and adventure, and even a little danger... I want you to get everything you're looking for. But for right now, I want you to forget that this happened. Can't have people knowing I'm in town yet. Goodnight, Elena.

Damon

I wanna say thank you for giving me everything I always wanted. A love to consume me, and passion, and adventure. There's nothing more I could ever want than for it to last forever, but it can't. This is the last time I'm gonna see you. This is goodbye, Damon.

Elena [to Damon]