I liked what Lala had to say. I am a Stefan fan cause I do love the nice guy type... But Ian (the actor) is a great person too. His character....maybe not so much but him, yes. Because Nina is with Ian in real life, I can actually picture it. I guess I'm ok either way. While I'd never miss an episode cause I love the show, it is still entertainment. At the end of the day, I love that there are so many people feeling strongly one way or the other- it's what will keep the show on the air.
Lala
November 26th, 2012 8:16 PM
However, eventually, he starts thinking maybe he does have feelings for her. You know what? He does. He is going to leave you because of these feelings. Your response? Good for him and my sister. She deserves him. You aren't even mad. After all, he's hurt her several times, so she deserves this.
Not likely! :)
Lala
November 26th, 2012 8:15 PM
To everyone saying, it is Damon's turn and he has been hurt many times as a way to justify being angry at Stefan for his reaction (??? again, his reaction is pretty justified at this point), imagine this scenario:
You finally meet the boy of your dreams when you come home from college for Christmas break. You both fall for each other instantly and you think he might be the one. One week later, your sister comes home from her college. She is also on her christmas break. She begins to fall for him although he is clearly in a relationship with you and you are both committed to one another. Over time, your boyfriend hurts your sister because he loves you. He hurts her several times over the course of a couple years. However, eventually, he starts thinking maybe he does have feelings for her. You know what? He does. He is going to leave you because of these feelings. Your response? Good for him and my sister. She deserves him. You aren't even mad. After all, he's hurt her several times, so
Lala
November 26th, 2012 8:13 PM
Stefan is not a jerk because the girl who loves is interested in his brother. He is probably handling it a lot better than most people would. It isn't like Damon hasnt pursued her or let his interest in her be known. If he hadn't, then it would be a lot easier to use the victim card on him. The situation is not exactly ideal for either of them. To everyone saying, it is Damon's turn and he has been hurt many times as a way to justify being angry at Stefan for his reaction (??? again, his reaction is pretty justified at this point), imagine this scenario:
You finally meet the boy of your dreams when you come home from college for Christmas break. You both fall for each other instantly and you think he might be the one. One week later, your sister comes home from her college. She is also on her christmas break. She begins to fall for him although he is clearly in a relationship with you and you are both committed to one another. Over time, your boyfriend hurts your sister because he lov
Sophia
November 26th, 2012 7:24 PM
So I feel sorry for both of them stefan is pissed he lost the one girl he will ever love & Damon is trying to be supportive & be a big brother but stefan doesn't want that right now he loves stefan regardless of all the crap they go through but he needs to let stefan be alone and deal with this break up I'm team defan all the way I want the brothers to forget about Elena & just be brothers like they once where before women got between them
Anna
November 26th, 2012 7:02 PM
Wow. Damon was being nothing other than a good brother, trying to be there for Stefan, and Stefan is just being a complete asshole. Stefan is the one that broke up with Elena, not the other way around. You reap what you sow, bro. Don't be a dick to your brother, who isn't the one at fault here.
jr.
November 26th, 2012 6:46 PM
and damon was hurted many times, fuck the saint stefan.
lynn
November 26th, 2012 6:36 PM
R I agree with you...."Damon" needs to adress the elephant in the room ...Stefan is acting like any guy who was ditched "for a brother" what's wrong with you people...he is hurting!!!! and for those unfeeling "fans" who don't understand about being rejected by the love of one"s life....then I hope you get to experience it and eat CROW!!!!!!!
mee
November 26th, 2012 6:33 PM
stef is a dick. can't stand him anymore.
elena hurted damon sooo many times and rejected him and damon didn't go to stefan to act like a dick, poor stef i don't wanna see his reaction when elena sleeps with damon.....
Tanner1511 Rank: Recurring Character
November 26th, 2012 6:32 PM
OMG my heart is broken for Stefan right now. I will agree that Damon was being nice and trying to make him feel better but I just cant deal with how sad Stefan is :(
She
November 26th, 2012 6:03 PM
I agree that Damon was nice in this case.
She
November 26th, 2012 6:02 PM
I know what now is going to be. Ealier Damon wanted to be with Elena. Now Damon will say Elena that they can't be together because of Stefan, that it wouldn't be fair and so on. :/ A cat and mouse game... It is unfortunately normal in the serials...
flylife
November 26th, 2012 6:01 PM
Wow, that was so mean of stefan \: I mean, my opinion is not base on the love triangle, but damon in this case was trying to be nice. what do u think guys?
Miss GG
November 26th, 2012 4:21 PM
I agree with R 100%
Lucie
November 26th, 2012 4:18 PM
Poor Damon, he has no idea why it should be the best day of his life :-) He doesn´t know that they broke up because of him....
fayeolivia Rank: Guest Star
November 26th, 2012 4:14 PM
lol Stefan is such a sore loser. You got the majority of 3 seasons dude. Damon was way less stroppy about getting rejected.
R
November 26th, 2012 4:13 PM
I don't care what the majority says, I'll always be a Stefan fan. I'm not so much a Stelena fan because It think that Elena is very selfish and it's so wrong what she's doing. I think people are way too hard on Stefan. He's the good guy and if that's boring, then so be it.
Elena : I just want to kill her. It's that simple.
Rank: Extra
November 26th, 2012 8:27 PM
I liked what Lala had to say. I am a Stefan fan cause I do love the nice guy type... But Ian (the actor) is a great person too. His character....maybe not so much but him, yes. Because Nina is with Ian in real life, I can actually picture it. I guess I'm ok either way. While I'd never miss an episode cause I love the show, it is still entertainment. At the end of the day, I love that there are so many people feeling strongly one way or the other- it's what will keep the show on the air.
November 26th, 2012 8:16 PM
However, eventually, he starts thinking maybe he does have feelings for her. You know what? He does. He is going to leave you because of these feelings. Your response? Good for him and my sister. She deserves him. You aren't even mad. After all, he's hurt her several times, so she deserves this.
Not likely! :)
November 26th, 2012 8:15 PM
To everyone saying, it is Damon's turn and he has been hurt many times as a way to justify being angry at Stefan for his reaction (??? again, his reaction is pretty justified at this point), imagine this scenario:
You finally meet the boy of your dreams when you come home from college for Christmas break. You both fall for each other instantly and you think he might be the one. One week later, your sister comes home from her college. She is also on her christmas break. She begins to fall for him although he is clearly in a relationship with you and you are both committed to one another. Over time, your boyfriend hurts your sister because he loves you. He hurts her several times over the course of a couple years. However, eventually, he starts thinking maybe he does have feelings for her. You know what? He does. He is going to leave you because of these feelings. Your response? Good for him and my sister. She deserves him. You aren't even mad. After all, he's hurt her several times, so
November 26th, 2012 8:13 PM
Stefan is not a jerk because the girl who loves is interested in his brother. He is probably handling it a lot better than most people would. It isn't like Damon hasnt pursued her or let his interest in her be known. If he hadn't, then it would be a lot easier to use the victim card on him. The situation is not exactly ideal for either of them. To everyone saying, it is Damon's turn and he has been hurt many times as a way to justify being angry at Stefan for his reaction (??? again, his reaction is pretty justified at this point), imagine this scenario:
You finally meet the boy of your dreams when you come home from college for Christmas break. You both fall for each other instantly and you think he might be the one. One week later, your sister comes home from her college. She is also on her christmas break. She begins to fall for him although he is clearly in a relationship with you and you are both committed to one another. Over time, your boyfriend hurts your sister because he lov
November 26th, 2012 7:24 PM
So I feel sorry for both of them stefan is pissed he lost the one girl he will ever love & Damon is trying to be supportive & be a big brother but stefan doesn't want that right now he loves stefan regardless of all the crap they go through but he needs to let stefan be alone and deal with this break up I'm team defan all the way I want the brothers to forget about Elena & just be brothers like they once where before women got between them
November 26th, 2012 7:02 PM
Wow. Damon was being nothing other than a good brother, trying to be there for Stefan, and Stefan is just being a complete asshole. Stefan is the one that broke up with Elena, not the other way around. You reap what you sow, bro. Don't be a dick to your brother, who isn't the one at fault here.
November 26th, 2012 6:46 PM
and damon was hurted many times, fuck the saint stefan.
November 26th, 2012 6:36 PM
R I agree with you...."Damon" needs to adress the elephant in the room ...Stefan is acting like any guy who was ditched "for a brother" what's wrong with you people...he is hurting!!!! and for those unfeeling "fans" who don't understand about being rejected by the love of one"s life....then I hope you get to experience it and eat CROW!!!!!!!
November 26th, 2012 6:33 PM
stef is a dick. can't stand him anymore.
elena hurted damon sooo many times and rejected him and damon didn't go to stefan to act like a dick, poor stef i don't wanna see his reaction when elena sleeps with damon.....
Rank: Recurring Character
November 26th, 2012 6:32 PM
OMG my heart is broken for Stefan right now. I will agree that Damon was being nice and trying to make him feel better but I just cant deal with how sad Stefan is :(
November 26th, 2012 6:03 PM
I agree that Damon was nice in this case.
November 26th, 2012 6:02 PM
I know what now is going to be. Ealier Damon wanted to be with Elena. Now Damon will say Elena that they can't be together because of Stefan, that it wouldn't be fair and so on. :/ A cat and mouse game... It is unfortunately normal in the serials...
November 26th, 2012 6:01 PM
Wow, that was so mean of stefan \: I mean, my opinion is not base on the love triangle, but damon in this case was trying to be nice. what do u think guys?
November 26th, 2012 4:21 PM
I agree with R 100%
November 26th, 2012 4:18 PM
Poor Damon, he has no idea why it should be the best day of his life :-) He doesn´t know that they broke up because of him....
Rank: Guest Star
November 26th, 2012 4:14 PM
lol Stefan is such a sore loser. You got the majority of 3 seasons dude. Damon was way less stroppy about getting rejected.
November 26th, 2012 4:13 PM
I don't care what the majority says, I'll always be a Stefan fan. I'm not so much a Stelena fan because It think that Elena is very selfish and it's so wrong what she's doing. I think people are way too hard on Stefan. He's the good guy and if that's boring, then so be it.