Blair vs Serena

Oh and word on your comment on men getting away with things while the women are punished.
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I think selfishness to the degree where you hurt people you care about whether you planned to or not is actually worse to me than lashing out in revenge when hurt and wronged, especially when you also strive to help those despite damage to your life when they need you. Just to clarify too..promiscuity is not something I have a problem with. That's not what I'm objecting to. Its getting involved with others who are marriedvor in relationships especially with friends. Hope that made sense. Enjoyed the debate.
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Sorry I should have said not blaming both the woman and the other man. I believe both can be blamed. When kissing Dan when she was with nate, Serena would be in the tripping role. Again I like Serena. I just don't think her actions are less bad because she hurts through neglect or indifference and I didn't think strengths were being adequately treated as well as flaws...and the events leading up to things. Just how different people will arrive at different answers.
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I don't like the habit of the girls on the show for blaming the other woman and not the man either. However that's not what I'm doing, honestly. I do think this is a main flawof Serena's and it is repeated to a degree not seen in others in the show. Anyway I do need to go. :) nice talking to.you.
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See I find 'intent' not that important here because hurting through indifference and selfishness does not strike me as better. Especially when coupled with Blair's flaws are some major strengths in the same vein-going to bat for her friends and sacrificing for them repeatedly. Blair's worst comes when she's under extreme emotional duress which ameliorates things for me but maybe not for you. I'm considering her at her best and worst. I don't remember using the word homewrecker...but I think it means someone who knowingly and unapologetically sleeps with a married man. That is a big flaw to me especially given her attitude about it and the pattern. Again others will see it differently. Coupled with her flaws are strengths as well.
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I think Serena bears more responsibility for the tripping affair than his wife does. I was by no means blaming her instead of Tripp.
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Anyways... I need to get going but blerena ftw.
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Honestly my point was more about how you view and weigh their flaws leading to different answrs for different people. The not caring about her friends when she's interested in a man is a repeated pattern just like expecting people to dropneverything for her is. In the same way, Blair lashes out when threatened.
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Tripp takes primary responsibility of course. I do believe Serena shares in it. Blair when threatened with her two main issues...insecurity about Serena and her love for chuck...can lash out horribly. However Eva was thrown in her face at the party and that was extremely hurtful especially given the support and forgiveness she had given. That was Blair's worst nightmare and she lashed out just like Serena's worst behaviour comes when she is feeling irrelevant I never said Serena was vindictive. Her flaws are different. How you weigh the flaws is going to effect how you see their relative strengths and weaknesses. Blair while vindictive, has also been shown showing great forgiveness and generosity. She's a person of extrenmes. Like I said, I like both girls and was givingvmy personal reasoning for my answer.
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My main answer though is always blerena. Blair is my favorite but the girls friendship should be the most important thing on the show.
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