I've been scrolling through the anti tags on Tumblr and feel like making a large post, mostly to vent and get some feedback too. I'm going to post this on Tumblr later.
I really don't understand the Klaus fans who make posts every time Klaus does something bad to Caroline and Tyler as to why Klaroline "sucks" or is "abusive." They know Klaus and they know he is not the nicest guy. What did they expect? And they constantly mention that Klaus tried to kill Caroline three times, threatened her, slapped Elena around, abused Rebekah, and basically treated a bunch of women like shit. If Klaus was so abusive and misogynistic why are they fans of him? Shouldn't they be disgusted and want him to change that aspect of himself? Obviously they like him the way he is so why complain? Also, if Klaus and Caroline are an abusive relationship (what relationship) why ship him with other women? Do they think Klaus will treat them differently because it's their preferred ship? (Like really?) Basically all Klaus ships are abusive there are NO exceptions unless Klaus does a 180 in character (hahaha).
What really annoys me are the "damned if I do damned if I don't" fans. If Klaus is nice to her and lets her use him and insult him, then he's a pussy. But when he lashes out (stabbing her with a lamp) then they immediately take to their blogs and brag about how abusive Klaroline is and that it sucks. So if they argue and Klaus just stands there he's neuteured. If he yells back and threatens her it's the next Chris Brown/Rihanna. At this point, I don't think they are happy with any version of Klaroline and find reasons to hate.
I ran into some anti Klaroline blogs and what I see makes me frustrated and sad. The Klaus stans wish for Klaus to hurt (and even kill) Caroline and when he does, they laugh and call it abusive. I don't see them gloating like this when he daggered Rebekah and snapped her neck. Majority of the reaction was "WTF? Why Klaus?" In comparison to Klaroline I've seen "Hahah bitch deserved it," and "Klaus doesn't give a shit about Caroline lmao." Even if they hate Klaroline they should feel shocked and pity that he would do that to a woman he claims to care about instead of laughing about it.
I really think the Klaroline and anti Klaroline fandom are the worst fandoms, even worse than DE/SE. Even when Stelena fans hate Delena I've never seen them wish for Damon to hurt Elena to prop up their ship and vice versa. All I see from Klaroline fandom now a days is "OMG Hayley slut should die. I hope Klaus kills her and the baby!!" and from anti Klaroliners "Klaroline sucks! It's abusive. Klaus doesn't give a shit about Caroline. He will kill her the minute they get together." There is no level of respect or maturity. It's just a battle to who gets Klaus at the end and it makes me want to walk away from this fandom.