@Liza:not suprised that DEx made it to the top list on E!ugh have you seen wetpaint and Hollywoodlife,they are the most biased DE shippers I've ever come across,atleast wetpaint some how like Stefan and they try to give SE some credit but Hollywoodlife is the worst coz Damon is the best thing ever,he is never wrong,Delena is the best couple ever blah blah blah.
@Flora:thanks. You know I still couldn't stop thinking about the Halloween episode of PLL,God that is the best episode so far in this season I absolutely love everything. Things are getting worse.My main question here is why "A" is trying to kill the girls coz really what did they actually do to deserve that kind of torture God did you Spence if it wasn't for Paige she would have been dead and for once I felt bad for Aria.
About shipping Stelena,right now I don't ship them not even the slightest not really sure if I'm ever going to coz as much as i know half of Elena's behaviour towards stef is due to the sire bond i think Stefan deserves better,he's had enough and i think that's even the point if breaking up with her coz really he can't put up with her drama anymore,in s3 he gave her the choice of choosing between him and Damon and he was ready to accept it if she choose Damon but now that she's made her choice why is she going back and forth between them. I don't think Stefan can't accept Elena having feelings for Damon i think he doesn't want history to repeat itself aka 1864 so its either him or Damon but not both. But i will always have a soft spot for SE and when ever it comes to the triangle i will always support/choose them after all they are the reason why I'm so hooked up with this show in the first place but now i have Klaus and I'm content with him alone.
@Gayatri:I still refuse to believe that Elena is alot more like Damon as a vampire he is the the one that is forcing that belief on her "You are alot more like me than U R like him" "she already is like me " "you don't wanna be like" "so much for someone who doesn't wanna be like me" so the fact that she is sired to him will easily make her believe everything he said and that she is like him.About Damon being cool with Vamp Elena I think deep down he secretly wants her to be a vampire atleast an eternity will make her change her mind about Stefan,I didn't even buy that crap of "I'm fine with her either way" if we are going to be honest he enjoyed her more as a vampire coz way she behaves around him is alot different than the way she does as human.
@Heather:Can I just hug U for all your wonderful posts today.U R absolutely right,I think the writers are trying to show us whether Stefan will go the same length to fight for Elena just like she did to him in s3.
I think the main reason Stefan is so hellbent on finding the cure is because he still feels guilty. I think he still blames himself for Elena's vampirism to an extend and he wants to make things right. But while he's being single minded about it he has overlooked some things like Elena probably making peace with being a vampire. I think to some extend he also feels helpless because he cnt be there for her either since he has trouble with being a vampire himself. So I think these are some of the reasons he wants to find that cure. But at some point I think he's going to come to terms with that. That maybe the cure doesn't matter after allTHIS SO MUCH.
it looks like he can't love her as a vampire and it makes him seem really hypocritical and ungrateful when she accepted him with all of his flaws.That is what i have been saying for the last 2 weeks his obsession over finding this cure is making him look stupid and like he couldnt accept her as a vampire.
Exactly!that is why I want Stefan to stop being this obsessive over finding this damn cure I get why he is doing it he loves her and all but honestly it seems like she doesn't want the cure,she likes how she is right now can believe the episode she broke up with Stef she was telling him that she wants nothing morethan to get her old self back but the next day she was telling him "this is who i'm now the old elena died let her go" I still can't believe how easily she adjusted to being a vampire while month ago she was crying on Stefan's shoulder telling him how much she doesn't want to be a vampire that she never wanted to be one.