Stella Forum Posts

~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

K- thanks for your pep talk for my work situation.

As for your daughter: Maybe she'll come around when she's having her first child.

Posted 5/23/2012 4:45:00 PM #
The horror that was the Season 3 finale of Glee

There was this clip, "Full performance of What a Feeling" on youtube the other day. I hated it. And used to love Glee for Brittany.

Posted 5/23/2012 2:58:48 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

I don't think it is always that clear cut. I think most people would agree that being driven to achieve your goals isn't bad. If you want smoething and you go for it to attain it, than I admire your strength and determination. But it all depends on how you go about it. If you intentionally disregard or hurt others in the process, than that is not admirable, but hard work and determination always is. Sometimes, there are unintentional, but unavoidable, consequences of your actions and that's ok. However, there are some poeple who love a machiavellian attitude and will applaud your ends regardless of your means.
That's the thing: My Bosses, the higher ones, are more than okay with me wanting to reach my goals but my team-leader, as in my direct boss hates me for it since I'm that much more determind to get what I want to work hard and a lot for it while she isn't and doesn't want ppl to see (they can compare, the other bosses) so she talks shit behind my back and points my bad habits out to the bosses.

Posted 5/23/2012 2:57:21 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

Ok, Stella, Lay it on me.

I'm not an expert but I can tell you this: My kind-of-evil grandma took me to live with her in her house which is across the street from my parent's to despite my mother when I was 6. My father who loves his mother a big deal (the talked of mother-son-bond from the page earlier) just let her and my motherw as too young and overwhelmed to fight it.

It took me YEARS to realize what had been going on there and it's also a big reason I had and have arguments with my mother because she didn'T fight for me and she's disappointed that I first ASKED and FOUGHT to move back in my room with my parents to live with them when I was 14. So that's a lot of tension there and a part of me will NEVER forgive my mother for not seeing through the facade and get over herself to stand up for us as family.

If I was you, I'd drive up and confront my daughter, have a talk with her and tell her how her brother feels before she loses the bond to you guys completely. Trust me, it's the one thing she'll never forgive - if my mother wouldn't talk to me in over a year, I think I'd punch her.

Posted 5/23/2012 2:46:58 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

Ok, you are just awesome!! You go gurl!
Well, unfortunately, if you're like that, you're a person that polarise. Either ppl love or loathe you.

Posted 5/23/2012 2:42:45 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

K - are you up for a honest opinion?

Posted 5/23/2012 2:40:14 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

Expensive is not a problem, I think you can't invest money any better than saving a child's life. As for the rest: Stella gets what Stella wants. One way or the other. :-)

Posted 5/23/2012 2:31:12 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

Stella, boys are not that bad. It's not a matter of gender, depends on the child's personality. Many of my friends' sons are cool and I enjoy spending time with them :)

I don't say that boys are bad kids. I guess in many ways they're even easier. But still. K - How old is your daughter? I'll share my maybe-naive plan with you guys now: Having one child myself if God wants me to have one that is, and adopting another one from a poor country like Hungary or Russia.

Posted 5/23/2012 2:23:30 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

Stella - I wouldn't say it's the gender of the child, just their personality - which is evident as early as 6 months of age, if not earlier.
Not sure if that's true, sorry. I saw lots and lots of babies being born in my circles and usually the girls are the better kids. Maybe I'll change my mind about that though.

Posted 5/23/2012 2:16:08 PM #
~ Chuck & Blair ~ 2.0

Hi Stella, how are you? I have a boy and a girl. If anyone has ever noticed, I never talk about my daughter, but always discuss my son. Remember, little girls become teenage girls and they are far far worse than boys at that age.
Hi K. I'm good. Sort of at least. Well, to be downright honest: I hated my mother for my whole teenage years and then I moved out to University and it became better. Today we're quite on good terms. But still, boys bring you awful daugther-in-law in the house. Daughter usually don't do that. :-)

Posted 5/23/2012 2:12:04 PM #