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Why does all of a sudden nearly everyone hate Elena??? Why does nearly everyone say that she's changed Damon and made Damon boring???? HE'S NOT BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!

Elena hasn't changed Damon. The one that changed Damon was Katherine. Human Damon was sweet and kind and polite and very loveable. Then she faked her death, he and Stefan turned and he turned into this big badass awesome evil vampire that we all love. He turned into this evil vampire that would snap and kill people impulsively. He used this and his humor to create a wall, where he cared for nobody but himself and nobody cared for him. He was heart broken and missed his love. Everything he did was to get his love back.

Elena understood him, she became his only friend, the only one he trusted. And when he found out that Katherine wasn't in the tomb, and that she never loved him, the first person he went to was Elena, cause he saw her as his only true friend. With Elena he let his walls come down. He let her see that he could be sweet and kind and trustworthy. He became the old Damon...the REAL Damon. She didn't change him....he's still the guy that will rip you to bits of his has too, he's still the guy that snaps and kills people impulsively, but now he doesn't do it for himself or to get his love back. He does it cause he cares for others and not just Elena.... He cares for his brother, he cares for Rose, Caroline, Bonnie, Jeremy, Alaric, Jenna, Sheriff Forbes, Carol Lockwood... Mystic Falls is his home, he returned wanting to destroy it and now he finds himself wanting t protect it.... Elena didn't change him, she brought back the old Damon....

And for those who hate the way Elena treats Damon....

I don't like the way she treats Damon, but I don't hate her because of it....I understand her. Yes, the way she treates him gets on my nerves, but how would you treat the guy that turned your mum, killed your brother and tried to hurt everything you love??? Yes, he's changed and now everything he does is to protect her and he's saved her like a 1000 times but still, she's not gonna forget everything he's done, as much as I would love her to forget it.... She's got a long way to go until she realises that she feels something for him and until she's completely forgiven him.

So, what's with all the hating Elena???

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Piikaaboo

Wow

Truth people. Truth.

:)

I don't like the way she treats Damon, but I don't hate her because of it....I understand her. Yes, the way she treates him gets on my nerves, but how would you treat the guy that turned your mum, killed your brother and tried to hurt everything you love??? Yes, he's changed and now everything he does is to protect her and he's saved her like a 1000 times but still, she's not gonna forget everything he's done, as much as I would love her to forget it.... She's got a long way to go until she realises that she feels something for him and until she's completely forgiven him.

^^TA

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Pink

I don't get why people hate Elena tbh...i have no problem with her well, only when she's a bitch to Damon but Damon killed her brother,if someone killed my brother i'd stake them straight away atleast she can stand being in the same room with him later on look at his lips every second. lmao!

To the Delena fans who hate Elena,she's the reason we have Delena and i don't get  how someone can ship a couple when they hate the other half *confused face*

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PsychoticBeach
722 posts
Psychoticbeach

people have diffrent views and opinions about her. they don't see it the way you do, same reason you don't see it the way others do. XD

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again confused i don't know wht the point is since half of the peopel there are the one's he hurt the most ?and i am officialy one of the peopel who hate elena !

Yeah, he's hurt them BEFORE!!! not now......he doesn't try to hurt them anymore, he cares about them whether he admits it or not....

JUST BECAUSE THEY DON'T SAY THEY'RE FEELINGS DOESN'T MEAN THEY HAVE THEM, YOU HAVE TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES PEOPLE.....

is tht what realy happend?not making sense wht i remember is tht he went because he taught she loves him!

Yes, he went to her because he thought she loved him too, but he also did it cause he was heart broken and needed someone to talk too...........he needed his friend.....remember in 1x21 "Isobel" when he said that Elena may qualify as he only friend......he went to here because she's the first person he thinks off when he needs to talk.....

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I meant:

JUST BECAUSE THEY DON'T SAY THEY'RE FEELINGS DOESN'T MEAN THEY DON'T HAVE THEM, YOU HAVE TO READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES PEOPLE.....

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Yeah, he didn't mention Katherine but it doesn't mean that he didn't want too.... Damon's not one to say what he's feeling.....but it doesn't mean that he wasn't gonna talk about it..... He was heartbroken and he probably went there wanting a shoulder to cry on, but then he found himself wanting to feel better, which is why he wanted Elena to realise that she has feelings for him too, so he could feel better....and not feel the pain that he was feeling from getting his heart broken....

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KatherinePierceIsBringingSexyBack
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Sexyback
LMAO. Why blame Elena if Damon is boring? If there`s one thing Damon is a champion of, it`s free will. Elena doesn`t make anyone anything. It`s like Damon can do no wrong. Yeesh. With regards to hating Elena, I dont. I`m not a fan per say, but I`m not an Elena hater at all. I just wish she was more interesting. She`s not an engaging character.
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PsychoticBeach
722 posts
Psychoticbeach

Damon is not boring. Elena is ahaha!! come on guys you have had this debate a million times first about the Bamon thingy now about this. lets just resepct each others opinion and understand why each one of us have it. its no big deal just let it go.

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Deedee
Guest

Didn't know that there were elena haters lol, I think that she's not that interesting as a character. Love her scenes with Damon..but I love almost every Damon scene, he has great chemistry with everyone, even Alaric for god's sake (yes, I kindda really really like Damon)

I think Elena is getting too selfless, I mean, it's great that she wants to save her loved ones and all, but after sometime it gets boring. The one thing that I like about her is that she wants to make her own decisions, and that she had the guts to break up with Stefan when needed.

About the way she's treating Damon..like, I know he's very very hot and is trying to save her life..but he did kill her brother (even if he didn't die). I don't think that's something you can just move on from

 

 

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Vampire Diaries Quotes

You want a love that consumes you. You want passion and adventure, and even a little danger... I want you to get everything you're looking for. But for right now, I want you to forget that this happened. Can't have people knowing I'm in town yet. Goodnight, Elena.

Damon

Damon: You know what they are? Children. Like lighting a candle's going to make everything OK, or even saying a prayer. Or pretending Elena's not going to end up just like the rest of us murdering vampires. Stupid, delusional, exasperating little children. And I know what you're going to say: 'It makes them feel better, Damon.' So what? For how long? A minute, a day? What difference does it make? Because in the end, when you lose somebody, every candle, every prayer is not going to make up for the fact that the only thing you have left is hole in your life where that somebody that you cared about used to be. And a rock with a birthday carved into it that I'm pretty sure is wrong. So thanks, friend. Thanks for leaving me here to babysit. Because I should be long gone by now. I didn't get the girl, remember? I'm just stuck here fighting my brother and taking care of the kids. You owe me big.
Alaric: I miss you too, buddy.

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