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Jojobobo

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I finally caught up. Had some other stuff to take care of. Did anyone catch Helen saying you knew about Leon when he was confessing. Did Helen have an affair way back when? Could the confessing set off rampant cheating with everyone?

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You can use it with Sojourner but not generally with all men based on the way I think. I go along with everything you've said about woman being subjugated.
Now let me clear this up. Men will become more enlightened but they won't change. They have no desire to become care givers. Women want more equal status but they are their own worst enemies. They don't vote for woman's candidates. Oprah is a big women's issue supporter, but who did she support in the presidential race?
I don't like what Grace did in Satisfaction not a fan of Simon. In the Affair I dislike Noah and not a fan of Allison. Although I think Noah is a jerk and Allison is just messed up mentally.
Plus, I don't think like sojourner at all. He makes some good points but I generally disagree with his main points. @Golfingdoc and I are more on the same page.

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What a spouse does before marriage sexually shouldn't be an issue today. When you say that it would bother you knowing that your spouse was sexually satisfied by another is intriguing. Not on your spouse's part but on yours. . There is more to marriage then sex. It is a big part of it but, there is so much more, and you should look at it as she picked you. I understand your situation is hypothetical but this is the spin you should think of.I believe the reason people live together is lack of commitment. They get to play marriage without commitment. It favors the man way more than the woman.