On the third episode of the 20th season (!) of The Simpsons, Bart somehow changes roles with another man and as he arrives at his new home (among McMansions) he catches a brief glimpse of our very own McDreamy and McSteamy ... animated of course.
Vulnerability isn't the opposite of strength. It's a necessary part. You have to force yourselves to open up, to expose ourselves, to offer everything we have and just pray that it's good enough. Otherwise, we'll never succeed.