Former Bachelorette Jen Schefft is Engaged Steve Marsi at September 25, 2008 8:25 am. Comments Jen Schefft, the girl who starred on both The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, but ended up with a successful relationship from neither, has finally gotten engaged. The lucky guy is a random, nice-looking fella named Joe Waterman. Edit Delete Steve Marsi is the Managing Editor of TV Fanatic. Follow him on Google+ or email him here.