Grey's Anatomy Clip: Focus on Surgery ... Comments (Page 2)
30 Comments
dasha
September 27th, 2011 7:30 PM
Derek made a mistake and a pregnant woman died because of it. Mer made a choice, not a mistake. And no one died because of it as the person was already dead anyway. So Derek, wtf?!?
How does he not see why Mer switched the drug? She has been overburdened with her mother's wrong doings all her life! She felt responsible for her mother's mistakes - wrongfully, yet she did. Ellis screwed up so many people's lives and Mer felt she should try and pay her dues for her. That's Mer, it's who she is. She genuinely likes Adele and she has a lot of respect for Richard. It was heartbreaking for her to see the two of them finally being a husband and wife in every sense of the word only to have it all messed up with Adele's Alzheimer's. She wanted to give Richard and Adele a chance to make up for all the lost time in the past. How can Derek not understand that?! It's beyond me, really. It was professionally wrong and illegal to tamper with the trail, I agree to that, but no harm was done to anyon
mfcgal
September 27th, 2011 7:25 PM
Derek's attitude is getting old. He needs to snap out of it quick and Mer has to stop trying to talk to him. I guess he will talk to her when he is ready but it may be too late for him.
Ugh. Derek is being such an ass! He should realize now that Zola is gone, that he needs Meredith.
Meredith McDreamy
September 27th, 2011 3:25 PM
I hope Meredith does not beg to save her marriage.
I understand that Derek's anger may stem from the fact that he will no longer have the power to help Meredith should she develop Alzheimers but she's perfectly healthy at the moment and he's wasting the time they do have together being an ASS. I can't say this across the message board enough. Derek was not fired, his medical license was not in question nor revoked and he lost no respect amongst his colleagues. WHY this grudge? More importantly, WHY is no one reminding him that he's not perfect? I could sit here and list all his imperfections but all you loyal Grey's fans know them so I'll spare you. I have no patience for "angry Derek." He broke his post-it vows
Thess
September 27th, 2011 3:15 PM
Derek is so cruel:( I hate how he has changed. Well, he has always had this side with him (think about how he treated Addison sometimes), but never against Mer! I find this development really disturbing!
uklass
September 27th, 2011 1:03 PM
Der doesn't cope when people are less than perfect, he married his opposite, and the sulky behaviour will soon drive away more fans if this SL carries on the way the first two episodes did. MAybe by 8.05 things will have improved?? I can't wait as long as the November sweeps to see Der get over his angst with Mer
Fazou sayed
September 27th, 2011 7:28 AM
i started to browse for other shows and believe me Shonda you will not be missed. fans have enough with the ways you play withMerder. I think you want to end this show.And then say you see it was not my fault.Boohoo.at least take some responsibility in front of your actors who made a name for you .
DG
September 27th, 2011 4:28 AM
I think deep down (very deep) Derek's anger stems from the fact that Meredith messed up something that was as important to him as Mer is and that is finding a cure for alzheimers. The bottom line is he did this trial for her sake, to save her and now it's gone and I think he's scared of the fact that he won't be able to help come the time when she has it.
So I get why he's got an ass attitude. And that's the reasoning I'm going with coz he's being such an intolerable wank at the moment.
Mel
September 27th, 2011 3:57 AM
Derek is such an ass....Com'on, Meredith after all is your wife and you took an oath to be loyal for each other in your wedding remenber? Can't you just be in her shoe for a minute?? He is so from McDreamy to McEvil!!!
Caitlyn Rank: Regular Character
September 27th, 2011 3:32 AM
Derek's being such an ass about this whole thing. Undeniably what Meredith did was wrong but he needs to get over it. Like what the Chief said, when will he start protecting Meredith? It was frustrating to see the Chief do everything that he could to protect Meredith while Derek did nothing. He is losing his McDreamy status. Especially with this situation of them losing Zola. You'd think that he'd be there for Meredith but he couldn't care less. He seriously needs to get over himself.
smileyglen Rank: Regular Character
September 27th, 2011 1:48 AM
I can't understand Derek at all, Meredith bruised his ego at work, there marriage should be fine if you think about it.
Derek obviously can't separate his work life from his home life, Meredith can separate the two. I hope they can work it out.
Qmx
September 27th, 2011 12:57 AM
oh poor Meredith,how freaking strong she is although she is all grey
PJ
September 26th, 2011 11:19 PM
Post-it note vows, to love each other even when we hate each other,no running. Well Derek certainlly knew how to run, maybe he still loves Meredith, sure hope he gets over himself soon. He is not THAT perfect. They had better get back together I have invested nearly 8 years watching doe they to have a happy ending. I mean come on we know they love each other and to have Zola with them great threesome.
Aly
September 26th, 2011 10:56 PM
They had better get back together or I wont watch. He needs to get over himself and talk to her because that is what a marriage is about. Talking and making it work when stuff gets hard and so far thats not what he is doing and I DONT like it...
sydneeee
September 26th, 2011 10:04 PM
i know that derek is being a mcass but they better have some steamy make up sex because of this time apart! haha come on greys i know you can give me one hell of a kissing scene! anyone at least excited for the reunion??
maggie37
September 26th, 2011 8:04 PM
Derek's need for perfection may cost him another marriage. He left Addison and was unforgiving and now Mer. Mustn't forget his sister. I don't know that I'd want him back.It would be too hard trying to meet his expectations and sill be yourself. He's certainly had practice at walking away from situations that displease him.
Boo...
September 26th, 2011 4:59 PM
I thought that we were done with the whole Mer and Der being together and then not the together again. Its really starting to ride my nerves. I remember when this show was romantic and dramatic. Now its just depressing and sad. Makes me not want to watch the show to be honest.
bookwizard Rank: Extra
September 26th, 2011 4:57 PM
I agree with the below comments... Derek does have a god-complex and he does seem to have issues with committing to a marriage, especially if his wife makes a mistake. I agree with what Mer did and was surprised that she was fired, but from Dereks point of view, Mer did say he had to treat her as a fellow colleague. And that is where it gets difficult. Mer is still a resident, therefore lower on the surgical food-chain than Derek. Derek is still her boss. So it really makes things difficult. Who knows what would have happened if Mer had been an attending when this happened, but I think Derek is pissed, has a right to but really needs to get over it and accept that Mer did this to help Adele without thinking and without caring whether it hurt her career or not.
A Greys Lover
September 26th, 2011 4:39 PM
True. Derek is seriously starting to piss me off. Whatever happened to the part in the vowes that state "for better or worse"??? Hello......So his trial got screwed up BIG DEAL! At least he still practicing..Meredith on the other hand, did what she did for someone else's benefit not her own. Now she's dealing with her job, her baby being possible being taken away, Derek being an major A$$****. Derek needs to get over himself. STAT!
Doe-Rae-Me
September 26th, 2011 4:26 PM
Derek has a serious God-Complex because he must think he is perfect. I don't think Derek is a person who has any idea how to truly commit to a marriage. If his wife makes a mistake, he leaves them. It is what happened with his marriage to Addison, and it is happening now in his marriage to Merideth. Derek isn't willing to accept the fact that his wife is human, and she makes mistakes. When she makes a mistake he walks away.
Meredith: People change, but they don't change.
September 27th, 2011 7:30 PM
Derek made a mistake and a pregnant woman died because of it. Mer made a choice, not a mistake. And no one died because of it as the person was already dead anyway. So Derek, wtf?!?
How does he not see why Mer switched the drug? She has been overburdened with her mother's wrong doings all her life! She felt responsible for her mother's mistakes - wrongfully, yet she did. Ellis screwed up so many people's lives and Mer felt she should try and pay her dues for her. That's Mer, it's who she is. She genuinely likes Adele and she has a lot of respect for Richard. It was heartbreaking for her to see the two of them finally being a husband and wife in every sense of the word only to have it all messed up with Adele's Alzheimer's. She wanted to give Richard and Adele a chance to make up for all the lost time in the past. How can Derek not understand that?! It's beyond me, really. It was professionally wrong and illegal to tamper with the trail, I agree to that, but no harm was done to anyon
September 27th, 2011 7:25 PM
Derek's attitude is getting old. He needs to snap out of it quick and Mer has to stop trying to talk to him. I guess he will talk to her when he is ready but it may be too late for him.
Rank: Guest Star
September 27th, 2011 6:38 PM
Ugh. Derek is being such an ass! He should realize now that Zola is gone, that he needs Meredith.
September 27th, 2011 3:25 PM
I hope Meredith does not beg to save her marriage.
I understand that Derek's anger may stem from the fact that he will no longer have the power to help Meredith should she develop Alzheimers but she's perfectly healthy at the moment and he's wasting the time they do have together being an ASS. I can't say this across the message board enough. Derek was not fired, his medical license was not in question nor revoked and he lost no respect amongst his colleagues. WHY this grudge? More importantly, WHY is no one reminding him that he's not perfect? I could sit here and list all his imperfections but all you loyal Grey's fans know them so I'll spare you. I have no patience for "angry Derek." He broke his post-it vows
September 27th, 2011 3:15 PM
Derek is so cruel:( I hate how he has changed. Well, he has always had this side with him (think about how he treated Addison sometimes), but never against Mer! I find this development really disturbing!
September 27th, 2011 1:03 PM
Der doesn't cope when people are less than perfect, he married his opposite, and the sulky behaviour will soon drive away more fans if this SL carries on the way the first two episodes did. MAybe by 8.05 things will have improved?? I can't wait as long as the November sweeps to see Der get over his angst with Mer
September 27th, 2011 7:28 AM
i started to browse for other shows and believe me Shonda you will not be missed. fans have enough with the ways you play withMerder. I think you want to end this show.And then say you see it was not my fault.Boohoo.at least take some responsibility in front of your actors who made a name for you .
September 27th, 2011 4:28 AM
I think deep down (very deep) Derek's anger stems from the fact that Meredith messed up something that was as important to him as Mer is and that is finding a cure for alzheimers. The bottom line is he did this trial for her sake, to save her and now it's gone and I think he's scared of the fact that he won't be able to help come the time when she has it.
So I get why he's got an ass attitude. And that's the reasoning I'm going with coz he's being such an intolerable wank at the moment.
September 27th, 2011 3:57 AM
Derek is such an ass....Com'on, Meredith after all is your wife and you took an oath to be loyal for each other in your wedding remenber? Can't you just be in her shoe for a minute?? He is so from McDreamy to McEvil!!!
Rank: Regular Character
September 27th, 2011 3:32 AM
Derek's being such an ass about this whole thing. Undeniably what Meredith did was wrong but he needs to get over it. Like what the Chief said, when will he start protecting Meredith? It was frustrating to see the Chief do everything that he could to protect Meredith while Derek did nothing. He is losing his McDreamy status. Especially with this situation of them losing Zola. You'd think that he'd be there for Meredith but he couldn't care less. He seriously needs to get over himself.
Rank: Regular Character
September 27th, 2011 1:48 AM
I can't understand Derek at all, Meredith bruised his ego at work, there marriage should be fine if you think about it.
Derek obviously can't separate his work life from his home life, Meredith can separate the two. I hope they can work it out.
September 27th, 2011 12:57 AM
oh poor Meredith,how freaking strong she is although she is all grey
September 26th, 2011 11:19 PM
Post-it note vows, to love each other even when we hate each other,no running. Well Derek certainlly knew how to run, maybe he still loves Meredith, sure hope he gets over himself soon. He is not THAT perfect. They had better get back together I have invested nearly 8 years watching doe they to have a happy ending. I mean come on we know they love each other and to have Zola with them great threesome.
September 26th, 2011 10:56 PM
They had better get back together or I wont watch. He needs to get over himself and talk to her because that is what a marriage is about. Talking and making it work when stuff gets hard and so far thats not what he is doing and I DONT like it...
September 26th, 2011 10:04 PM
i know that derek is being a mcass but they better have some steamy make up sex because of this time apart! haha come on greys i know you can give me one hell of a kissing scene! anyone at least excited for the reunion??
September 26th, 2011 8:04 PM
Derek's need for perfection may cost him another marriage. He left Addison and was unforgiving and now Mer. Mustn't forget his sister. I don't know that I'd want him back.It would be too hard trying to meet his expectations and sill be yourself. He's certainly had practice at walking away from situations that displease him.
September 26th, 2011 4:59 PM
I thought that we were done with the whole Mer and Der being together and then not the together again. Its really starting to ride my nerves. I remember when this show was romantic and dramatic. Now its just depressing and sad. Makes me not want to watch the show to be honest.
Rank: Extra
September 26th, 2011 4:57 PM
I agree with the below comments... Derek does have a god-complex and he does seem to have issues with committing to a marriage, especially if his wife makes a mistake. I agree with what Mer did and was surprised that she was fired, but from Dereks point of view, Mer did say he had to treat her as a fellow colleague. And that is where it gets difficult. Mer is still a resident, therefore lower on the surgical food-chain than Derek. Derek is still her boss. So it really makes things difficult. Who knows what would have happened if Mer had been an attending when this happened, but I think Derek is pissed, has a right to but really needs to get over it and accept that Mer did this to help Adele without thinking and without caring whether it hurt her career or not.
September 26th, 2011 4:39 PM
True. Derek is seriously starting to piss me off. Whatever happened to the part in the vowes that state "for better or worse"??? Hello......So his trial got screwed up BIG DEAL! At least he still practicing..Meredith on the other hand, did what she did for someone else's benefit not her own. Now she's dealing with her job, her baby being possible being taken away, Derek being an major A$$****. Derek needs to get over himself. STAT!
September 26th, 2011 4:26 PM
Derek has a serious God-Complex because he must think he is perfect. I don't think Derek is a person who has any idea how to truly commit to a marriage. If his wife makes a mistake, he leaves them. It is what happened with his marriage to Addison, and it is happening now in his marriage to Merideth. Derek isn't willing to accept the fact that his wife is human, and she makes mistakes. When she makes a mistake he walks away.