GGFAN76
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Ggfan76

Well If Blair does choose this route , then is is a bit OOC in my opinion. These twoi were so close and really the core of the show , if anything it's now Blair being the selfish one and Serena being the sweet one. If they do DB - then I hope B is prepared for the consequences

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GGFAN76
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Ggfan76

Also I don;t think her saying " Why didn't you tell Serena" was all a charade , it resulted in an argument between the two of them ?

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Dairisflawless
Not saying that was a charade, but Blouis wedding, you should've read my post carefully. Her face before she walked away from the reception was pretty much like "Hey Serena everything is fine! I'm feeling great" and she was extremely unhappy. She chose to share it with Dan not her.
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Ggfan76

I apologise if I read that incorrectly :-)

Yeah I agree she could have told Serena - to me this proves how apart the girls are right now, I think we need to see some more girl power on the show , these two are BF's and need to stand strong together , would love to see Serena help Blair get out of the sham marraige

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Dairisflawless
Yes, and that proves my point. Dan was there for Blair through anything, while Serena was not. That's why she trusts Dan, even more than Serena at this point. That's why she chose to run away with him not Serena or Chuck. I firmly believe that SB friendship is not about "let's give them a scene where they hug to show how much they love each other", because it's plain stupid. In this show people usually think it's more about what you say and that if you say I love you, or You're my best friend, that really means it's correct and legit automatically. I disagree, and even irl it's been proven wrong so many times. Actions are way more important, and while Serena wasn't there to support her through everything with the baby, Chuck and Louis, Dan was even though he had a good reason to stay away from her. Heck If I were Dan I think I'd stay away. Chuck thought she was having an affair and wanted to help Louis by hiring Dan to follow Blair which he automatically refused because the idea itself was ridic. I am sure that even if B wasn't hiding in his loft he'd rebuff the offer immediately.
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Dairisflawless
Plus I don't see Blair had issues with Serena and Dan coming in between when it comes to 4x17 and 4x19. If they kissed to see if there was something between them, fine, and let's say she thoughti there wasn't, that doesn't explain why she wanted to kiss Dan to protect Louis. She could have asked anyone else, literally speaking. Chuck, yeah, why not Chuck? That was also selfish, especially if Dan meant nothing to her back in time. Why would she choose HIM for a kiss knowing he was Serena's boyfriend and that she'll have issues with it?
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GGFAN76
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Ggfan76

I think the reason Blair couldn't choose Chuck at that point was because of their history , she didn't want to give him false hope that something would happen when she knew a kiss would mean he would think there was something . Also when Blair kissed Dan to protect Louis,  she did it because it was something she didn't think had anything to it , she said after the kiss made her realise she wanted to be with Chuck. Also Serena was by Blairs side when she was told she had lost the baby and was holding her hand , so she was there in the moment when Blair found out. It was Blair pushing her away and running to Dan. And if B chooses to be with Dan then she has to know the risk that things will change between herself and Serena and Chuck . I am excited to see how it goes !

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Ggfan76

Don't get me wrong - I do actually like the character of Dan , I do think though he has changed dramatically in character as has Rufus - I loved that they were the outsiders who found themselves in this unknown UES world - now its like thwy have always been a part of it. I would like the writers to keep some consistency because at tha moment all of the characters are not being true to their real characters !

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Dairisflawless
But she had many other options, since kissing Dan would also be wrong and hurt Serena, wouldn't it? Well I mean Serena was just mean back then, but she had more reasons to act mean then. IF the kiss made Blair realise she doesn't want anything with Dan she should've back off completely and stop giving him false hope too by initiating another kiss. Even worse if it meant nothing to her when she knew Dan is Serena's ex. Don't tell me she couldn't have just said "oh hey Dorota find me a decent looking guy to kiss him because I need to save Louis"... She'd get it in a blink of an eye. And all that feedback she got from Dan is actually important. I feel like she's constantly trying to make him say something, hoping there IS something but Dan never gives it to her, really. In 4x18; when explaining the kiss to Chuck she said "It meant nothing, less than nothing, right?" and he said "Yeah, that's right"..., "I'm on a date, you can handle that, right?" "We're JUST FRIENDS, date away","I just wanted to make sure that kiss meant nothing to me like it did to you." "Oh.",...then in s5 "What possible reason could you have" he doesn't say anything again. And finally "I also know you wrote those vows..." and INSTEAD of admitting everything he just said something stupid in "it meant nothing" style.
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Ggfan76

Well I suppose we interpret the scenes differently , but I think regardless there will be Dair and also Chair at some point , we do have a season and a half ( hopefully) so anything could happen really. There is a lot of time left and in Gossip Girl things change every few episodes so God knows what storyline we will be in this time next year - I just hope they give the characters the respect they deserve and stay true to who tat character is .

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