i dont see why people dont like stefan !
well i'm for delena but i like stefan's character. hell yes, i would loveeeee to have a boyfriend like stefan, and nice damon would be awsome too ;)
but this ISNT real life. :)
yes, i find stelena a tad boring sometimes but i can appreciate their cute moments, like last episode at the very beginning- adorable!
and no one knows how or when delena will happen, i'm sure the producers won't make it some lame reason. the point is we all have opinions and everyone needs to respect them. besides, stelena already have their couple , so let us delena fans have our moment when it comes! :P
at first i like damon (hot bad boy), but after rewatching all the episode i fell in love w/ stefan, he so much mature, caring. i love the way he helped caroline (helped her for hunting and after caroline got tortured by brady). damon is a dick!!! even katherine chose stefan
As much as Stelena/Team Stefan fans don't like to admit it, Stefan is selfish; if you look back through the series as well as elements in the books you will see that. obviously, we all know Damon is a cocky, arrogant so and so; but I've always been a sucker for a tortured soul and understand Damon's actions completely. Stefan's, not so much. Idk,. the brothers obviously have different takes on things, and I don't like it when peopele characterize Damon as simply 'a dick'. Becasue he's not. He's a very multi-layered character and anyone who would call him that is narrowed-minded. As it someone who calls Stefan merely 'selfish'. I can see both elements of the two brothers, and honestly? I love them both; but as I said previously - my heart belongs to Damon. (:
I seriously love Damon. But that does not mean i hate Stefan but I don't like Stefan that well., I mean, it's just ok for me that he's there in action or not..To Be honest, i won't miss him that much if he wasn't included at some episode (which is I know definetly not going to happen since he's a main character).
I dont know but I can feel for Damon more than i try to like Stefan...My love for Damon's character is unexplainable...Maybe because, i can relate sometimes to him in the sense that in my life, i don't get most of the things i like..
But Stefan.., I dont hate him (including his attitude,his kindness and everything..,i actually find it cute when he help others like Caroline).., but the thing is I just don't like the idea that he can have everything he wants,..I atleast want the two brothers to be equal at some point..
That's all just my opinion.Just sharing what's on my mind. :)
As much as Stelena/Team Stefan fans don't like to admit it, Stefan is selfish; if you look back through the series as well as elements in the books you will see that.
I'd like that elaborated please as I do not agree at all. Everything Stefan (in the show - leave the books out of it) has done that does not include flashblacks of 1864 has been for a reason.
Damon (who's my favourite character on the show, don't get me wrong) is doing rather impulsive and unnecessary things, but we don't even need to discuss that since that box has already been opened in another thread.
because he's boring lol it's like angel when he has a soul
don't you remember that scene in Lost girls? where he told Elena he only wanted Katherine for the sake of it? and he didn't care how in lvoe with Katherine Damon was?! That's pretty awful, honestly, and that is NOT simply down to Katherine's compulsion. Since Katherine claimed she didn't compel him to fall for her. (And I actually believe her.) Let's face it, Katherine is beautiful and v.alluring, it wouldn't be hard to fall for her naturally. And also, the way he told Damon in season 1, that history woudldn't be repeating itself. Surely it's Elena's choice who she wants in the end?! Granted, Stefan has become less selfish and brooding in the second season. Yes, Damon's far from perfect - and I do love Stefan also. But as I said. Team Damon. :)
don't you remember that scene in Lost girls? where he told Elena he only wanted Katherine for the sake of it?
I actually don't, guess I have to see that episode again if he says it straight out like that and it's not just you interpreting it that way (not saying that you are wrong, just don't remember it)
I do however remember this quote by Stefan: "I hadn't cared I had gotten something my brother wanted. I didn't even care if it hurt him. I only knew that I wanted her." - That's is a bit mean, but not directly selfish more lustful as he was in love with Katherine (I don't think he was compelled to love her either) and technically Stefan 'saw' her first, though I don't think you can judge it that way.
And also, the way he told Damon in season 1, that history woudldn't be repeating itself. Surely it's Elena's choice who she wants in the end?!
It doesn't necessarily have to be interpreted as in Stefan not seeing Elena falling for Damon or that Elena someday needs to choose. I see it as Stefan saying that he does not want to fight over a girl/let a girl come between them again (though they were enemies when he said that, I think). It can also just be seeing as Stefan being rational and knowing that Elena is not Katherine, who put the boys up against each other and fooled around with both of them.
as well as elements in the books you will see that.
When in the books was he selfish?? o.O
I've read every book and sorry, I don't remember anything.
But I remember that Damon let some Demon torture Stefan, and that Damon killed Elena's teacher because then everyone would think Stefan did it. And he hurted him, many times.
Sorry, I'm not a Damon hater in the show, but D's annoying in the books some times! xD
I agree, I don't particularly remember anything selfish form the books either...
Btw, aren't your picture from "Låt den rätte komma in" (Let the Right One in, swedish film)? Are you from Scandinavia? :)