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I was just thinking the other day, after I saw the last episode of greys, (Push). Christina, Chief Webber, and other attendings are so busy trying to win the Harper Avery Award, but it is Callie who is the one making ground breaking research, on cartalige in a bottle. She never talks about winning the Avery, that is not her goal. But, I bet she will end up getting it. She is just trying to do what she does best...be the best ortho doctor there is, and she loves what she does! You can see her passion in everything she does. I bet she is going to get the coveted Award...What does everyone else think? Man, I am so excited to see this woman "ON Fire" as she said in the last episode! She is definetly hitting her stride! She is a woman is a mans speciality, and she rocks!
I would love to see the writers take this Latino beauty to great heights, both personally and professionally. It will be so interesting to see everyones reaction, especially christina's, if Callie gets the Award. Tell me your thoughts? And any other thoughts on the lovely Calliope Torres.
Who knows with theses writers?? Even Jessica Capshaw, ( Arizona) said in an interview recently, Callie could go either way, her options are wide open. She finds both sexes appealing.
The difference in this relationship now, than with the others, is that she is falling in love with Arizona. The relationship is moving slowly, and Arizona has just the right temperament and personality for Callie. She is loving and patient with her. Arizona is actually in love with Calliope. She has confessed this to Calliope's father, and also made it known to her.
Unlike with George, I don't think he was ever really IN LOVE with Callie. He liked her very much but he was never in love with her. Mark finds her very sexually appealing. They had a common denominator, SEX! He is also able to talk to her as a true confident. She is like being one of the boys but with benefits! I don't think he is able to give her true love or nurturing of a real relationship. Mark has real baggage! He will need to get into concealing and assess his issues before he can really commit to a true and lasting relationship.
I think Callie knows this, she even called him on it in last weeks episode. She told him to get over his issues and find someone to love and have a baby with. It's time for him to grow up!! She is starting to realize what SHE really wants in a relationship, because she is growing and maturing being with Arizona. If the writers do decide to write Mark back into her life, it will definitely have to be after he gets some help with his issues.
Callie may still have other issues that she has not dealt with yet. She may long to be with a man eventually. She may want a baby and a more uncomplicated life being with a man. Who knows how the writer will go with this. Maybe Mark with get his crap together, wake up and decide that Callie is the girl for him. I mean they started out as friends, the are (Work husband and Work Wife). The writers could write them back in as a couple??
Personally, I feel that she belongs with Arizona. Callie is good with Arizona. Arizona is ready to give love and receive love and that is what Callie wants and needed all along.
She has wanted that ever since she married George! She just got side tracked because she wasn't getting it. Arizona loves her, and Callie can see this. She sees in arizona all the things she has been looking for. I hope the writers will cultivate this relationship. Take their time with this one, cause it is a good one!
I think they are going to have some troubles, but they truly are made for each other! Arizona is all the things that Callie needs in her life, she is the perfect mate for calliope. Arizona is ready to love and receive love. Arizona is ready to commit to a relationship. She is very mature in the area of relationships. She knows that she is attracted to woman. She has never had a sexual encounter with a man, as she said in one of the earlier episodes. So, she doesn't have that battle going on inside her of bi- sexuality.
Callie is just not sure of her sexual identity yet. I think she is very much attracted to men still. She mentally thinks she has a handle on this. She is very bold outwardly, confronting her feelings and facing the fact she likes being with woman. But, I think she still battles with her heart, emotions and attractions with men, especially where Mark is concerned. She is still very much confused! Callie knows who she is as a doctor. She is very confident in that arena, but when it comes to relationships, she is still very much on a quest of self discovery.
It will take something like a break up, or some kind of infidelity for her to really realize where her heart lies. I think callie loves arizona. She see in Arizona all of the things that she lacks in her personality. She admires and respects her very much, and is trying to commit to their relationship. I think Both woman will reach a cross road in their relationship, just like in any other relationship, where they will have to decide if they are ready for the next level? Every relationship goes thru this and they are no exception. Do they love each other enough to see that they truly belong together? That they DO NOT want to be with anyone else? I hope that no matter what hurtles they have to jump, or drama they must endure with callie's family, that they will come out as a couple. They really compliment eachother!