Andy Baldwin, Tessa Horst Discuss Their Love, Future Plans Comments (Page 2)
40 Comments
lindy
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
lindy
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
lindy
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
lindy
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
lindy
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
lynn
August 9th, 2007 12:43 PM
Please someone tell me are Andy and Tessa still together?
Norma Reed
June 23rd, 2007 5:30 PM
June 23, 2007 at 4:49pm
I feel like Andy & Tessa truly are meant to be together as husband & wife. They do love one another & it is obvious to most of us that he made the right choice. Bevin was not honest about her divorce. She had plenty of 1 on 1 time with him to tell him the truth. Also there has to be more in a relationship than just the physical attraction. Andy's grandfather gave him good advise about that. I must say though that I am very disappointed that Tessa & Andy are going to move in together without getting married first. Couples do everything backwards in today's world. They meet, date, move in together, have babies & then maybe get married. That is not how God wants us to live. God's word (KJV) says to not commit adultery or fornication. I was happy that Tessa & Andy fell in love. Now that you are engaged, do the honorable thing & get married...if you can live together & sleep together, why not do it the way God wants for you to do it??
Anna
June 18th, 2007 4:25 PM
I have to agree with justme, i think that Andy is not throiugh with Bevin. You could only tell that he obviously still had felings for Bevin and he will always have a place in his heart. I think that he had more or a connection with Bevin instead of Tessa. Tessa was not into him like Bevin was. I mean it was his choice and so be it, if he chooses Tessa then more power to him. I think that Bevin would make a awesome bachelorette.
Elain
June 14th, 2007 12:19 AM
Tessa Handles her self so well. Always said the right thing. I felt anyone in Andy's position would felt in love with Tessa. She is so lovable. She is not direct saying things but always send a right message. I am old enough to be their parent and yet every day I am reading their message board and watch their video. Its better than any love story movie. It certainly brighten my day.
Raina
June 13th, 2007 1:56 AM
I want to say that Andy and Tessa are the so right for each other. I think that Andy fell for Tessa from the very begining. The way he looked at her and the way his face would light up whenever he was talking to her, it was so obvious. I don't think Bevin was fake, but she wasn't right for Andy. I really do think that the other girls were holding a spot until he figured out how Tessa felt. I knew he felt strongly about her when he said that if her family didn't approve of him it was all over. I was like, this is so the girl for him. And when she finally told him that she loved him, he had the same goffy smile that he had when he first saw her. I hope they have a great life together.
SARAH BELL
June 9th, 2007 9:00 PM
HURRY UP ANDY,TESSA
MAKE COUPLES OF BABIES
bing calvert
June 9th, 2007 7:14 AM
First and foremost, I am a disabled veteran who totally enjoyed watching reality T.V. featuring a military person on a top rated show. I was so happy Andy chose Tessa for a couple of reasons. One Tessa was more reserved and did not throw herself all over Andy like some of the women did. The other reason would be that she did not pretend to be so totally in love with someone that she just met. I find that a bit hard to believe that anyone could fall in love not knowing anything about the other person. Hell, some of those girls were in love in a day....Hello!!! Tessa was very reserved and carried herself in such a classy and sophisticated manner. I can't blame Andy for talking her into staying and finding himself working really hard to win her. Had Tessa acted and said the words Andy wanted to hear from her from Day 1, the show would have been over...lol. One other thing was the collage. For someone to take all that time to make something so special speaks a lot. Anyone can buy
Bec
May 28th, 2007 9:08 PM
Congratulations to both of you!!! Like many others, I too had picked Tessa out the first night as 'the one'. You both stayed so true to yourselves and it showed throughout the series. I can imagine that it was tough watching the final episodes when it came down to the last 3 or 2 - the way Andy was with Bevin and Danielle - but you have to remember that you know this is a possibility and the way the show is when you sign up for it in the beginning. It is something that is to be expected. I can understand how Andy could develop such strong feelings for Tessa and Bevin - I just felt Bevin was too needy and emotional. Tessa is the one!!! I wish you both a lifetime of happiness! (And Hawaii is the 'real world' - I've been there and done the Navy wife role also)
cori
May 28th, 2007 2:45 PM
Hawii as it's portrayed on tv may not be "reality",but for those of us who live here Hawaii is definitely "the real world"...i've never flown over a waterfall or volcano in a helicopter...I shop for groceries, work and pay bills....there are a lot of real people living real lives here. I'm sure Andy and Tessa will also once the camera stop rolling.
deb
May 27th, 2007 5:00 PM
I am so happy Andy picked Tessa. I felt Bevin was too "open" and felt it's came on way too much to him. Nothing like getting to know someone before being so touchy... and she wasn't too honest either.
Tessa is cute,educated and seems very sweet. I think they have a lot more in common than he did with Bevin.
I wish them both the best.
Hope they have a long and happy marriage and enjoy marriage and parenthood.
Rhonda
May 27th, 2007 7:35 AM
I am so happy that Andy choose Tessa altho I have some reservations that warrants a second look at the whole situation. Will it last down the road. Remember romance blooms in Hawaii and that really is not the real world either. Will Tessa wake up one morning and find the bloom gone. Will Andy realize that Tessa is really not the one for him, good cook or not. Am I old fashioned or what that the women of today are sleeping with their guys before marriage. What if there is a breakup....you gave your virginity away on a flim flam. Remember what i said ...Hawaii is not the real world either.
Greg Mathews
May 26th, 2007 11:32 PM
Congrats, you two!! This is the first season my wife and I watched the show and I picked Tessa from the start because she had the qualities I would have wanted. As the show progressed it was clear it was what you wanted also. The world is still looking for genuine, caring, honest men and classy, reserved, confident women who know the value of true love and are willing to let romance build. She is your queen, always treat her that way. And Tessa, he is your King, always honor him. We are looking forward to hearing more about your success in the future.
Helen
May 26th, 2007 11:24 PM
Congratulations Tessa and Andy. Tessa, forgive Andy for his openness with Bevin, Danielle and others. To have a real chance to find a mate, he HAD to jump in the deep end and open himself up. Because of this, of course, he developed serious feelings and love for more than one and he will have to "detox". Do not worry about jumping into the Navy wife role. I did it in 1972 - knew nothing about the military life and ended up 8 years in Hawaii. My two youngest were born there. I really loved it and my husband enjoyed showing me the ropes. I met him in San Diego in Feb, married him in June, was pregnant in August, moved to HI the next Dec with a baby.You WILL NOT lose yourself - I went to the U of H while there and continued my studies. Best Wishes!
justme
May 26th, 2007 1:02 PM
I worry about Tessa. Andy telling Bevin he loved her and will always love her and what's up with all the leg rubbing and hugging. DANGER DANGER Tessa. I believe he only picked Tessa because of Bevin's religious beliefs, and her divorce. Yes Bevin 'played' Andy, by using sex, instead of being upfront and honest from the beginning. BUT I STILL SAY TO TESSA DANGER DANGER = Andy is not through with Bevin. Anday better hurry I think Bevin is going to be the next BACHELORETTE. I don't see a wedding in the future.
Victoria Q.
May 25th, 2007 4:05 PM
Oh my God..I was so addicted to both of you..And i am still addicted now & I don't know when it will end...Tessa..i was rooting for her from the very beginning..Good that Andy chose her..You are so good for each other..i can sense it...May you have a blessed union someday..Please get married soon..
Rhonda Guerry
May 25th, 2007 10:36 AM
Andy and Tessa -
CONGRATULATIONS! This is the first year I've watched the Bachelor. I am old enough to be your mom, and then some. It seemed as if every woman on the show, by their actions, were screaming "pick me; pick me", but Tessa you stood out because by your actions, you were saying, "Will I pick Andy?", and I think you sensed that, Andy, and you saw enough in her to know that she is not needy, knows what she's about and does not compromise herself. You knew she was a keeper from the start (it doesn't hurt that she's beautful either!)I sense you both have strong character, which will get you through many issues throughout your lives together. Remember, falling in love happens, but staying in love is a decision, and your character will get you through the days you don't feel very much in love (happens to all couples), and the feelings of being in love will surely return. Your grandfather gave you very sage advice when he told you to look 5, 10, 15 years down the road. You'
Kimberly Dickert
May 25th, 2007 9:22 AM
Andy & Tessa,
What a gorgeous pair of LOVERS you are--are hearts all throb for the two of you!! Andy you CHOSE the right girl, never doubt it! You saw through all the plots, phoniness, giddiness, and chemistry and true love is none of those. Tessa is a class act and will be a wonderful military wife. Bevin was a lovely girl, but looked too worldly and liberal for you. Your grandfather and sister were very wise counsel for you. I was shocked how your grandma was so enamored of Bevin though on such a short visit. May your love & marriage bloom & prosper. Best wishes for a happy life (though there will be ups and downs--just weather them and ride out the storms; they WILL come) and may you have lovely, healthy children! Can we please be privy to her welcome to Hawaii Luau and the wedding PLEASE?!!!!
cristen
May 25th, 2007 9:18 AM
I was very happy to see that Andy chose Tessa. I feel that he did have a connction with Bevin however like his Grandfather asked "will it be hard to always have to live up to that kind of energy. " Relationships go thru many changes and if there is not more than physical attraction things can go sour very quickly. Not everything can be solved by passion, ie financial decions, how to raise children, household duties, etc. I think that Andy and Tessa's passion is strong just more private. There is nothing wrong with that.
Angie Magwili
May 25th, 2007 7:07 AM
To Tessa and Andy,
Just reviewing all your blogs on diff sites; and youtube videos over and over about your love; and i am so happy for you both may your love bloom each day to the rest of your life. and have lots of kids; my teen twin boys think i'm crazy playing your youtube that Valen made for you over and over. but i admire your commitment that you made and hope to see the wedding bells on the horizon before christmas.
Take care and Best for the future.
Jeana Smith
May 24th, 2007 8:17 PM
Andy, Thank you for your service to our Country. Your love and dedication is seen in your actions. You are truly a hero for the USA. Thank you!!!!
Andy and Tessa, I am so happy for you. I do believe and pray that you have a wonderful life together.
Tessa, Thank you for being true to yourself. You approached this journey with sincerity and honesty. I know that your family and friends are very proud of you. You love big; it just takes you a while to get there. You go girl...
Andy, I want to say that I picked Tessa the first night for you because of the muffin joke and the way you sought her out that evening. You love with your eyes. In every episode, your eyes were full of admiration and love for her. Andy, you are the best Bachelor of all. You are compassionate/respectful/ and gentle. Most men would have moved on from Tessa because she was not a forward person. You are a true knight and every ladies dream!! You showed respect to every woman. Thank you for showing us that
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
August 20th, 2007 3:07 AM
Seeing a therapist before marriage is an excellent idea. It might save a trip to the a counselor after they marry.
August 9th, 2007 12:43 PM
Please someone tell me are Andy and Tessa still together?
June 23rd, 2007 5:30 PM
June 23, 2007 at 4:49pm
I feel like Andy & Tessa truly are meant to be together as husband & wife. They do love one another & it is obvious to most of us that he made the right choice. Bevin was not honest about her divorce. She had plenty of 1 on 1 time with him to tell him the truth. Also there has to be more in a relationship than just the physical attraction. Andy's grandfather gave him good advise about that. I must say though that I am very disappointed that Tessa & Andy are going to move in together without getting married first. Couples do everything backwards in today's world. They meet, date, move in together, have babies & then maybe get married. That is not how God wants us to live. God's word (KJV) says to not commit adultery or fornication. I was happy that Tessa & Andy fell in love. Now that you are engaged, do the honorable thing & get married...if you can live together & sleep together, why not do it the way God wants for you to do it??
June 18th, 2007 4:25 PM
I have to agree with justme, i think that Andy is not throiugh with Bevin. You could only tell that he obviously still had felings for Bevin and he will always have a place in his heart. I think that he had more or a connection with Bevin instead of Tessa. Tessa was not into him like Bevin was. I mean it was his choice and so be it, if he chooses Tessa then more power to him. I think that Bevin would make a awesome bachelorette.
June 14th, 2007 12:19 AM
Tessa Handles her self so well. Always said the right thing. I felt anyone in Andy's position would felt in love with Tessa. She is so lovable. She is not direct saying things but always send a right message. I am old enough to be their parent and yet every day I am reading their message board and watch their video. Its better than any love story movie. It certainly brighten my day.
June 13th, 2007 1:56 AM
I want to say that Andy and Tessa are the so right for each other. I think that Andy fell for Tessa from the very begining. The way he looked at her and the way his face would light up whenever he was talking to her, it was so obvious. I don't think Bevin was fake, but she wasn't right for Andy. I really do think that the other girls were holding a spot until he figured out how Tessa felt. I knew he felt strongly about her when he said that if her family didn't approve of him it was all over. I was like, this is so the girl for him. And when she finally told him that she loved him, he had the same goffy smile that he had when he first saw her. I hope they have a great life together.
June 9th, 2007 9:00 PM
HURRY UP ANDY,TESSA
MAKE COUPLES OF BABIES
June 9th, 2007 7:14 AM
First and foremost, I am a disabled veteran who totally enjoyed watching reality T.V. featuring a military person on a top rated show. I was so happy Andy chose Tessa for a couple of reasons. One Tessa was more reserved and did not throw herself all over Andy like some of the women did. The other reason would be that she did not pretend to be so totally in love with someone that she just met. I find that a bit hard to believe that anyone could fall in love not knowing anything about the other person. Hell, some of those girls were in love in a day....Hello!!! Tessa was very reserved and carried herself in such a classy and sophisticated manner. I can't blame Andy for talking her into staying and finding himself working really hard to win her. Had Tessa acted and said the words Andy wanted to hear from her from Day 1, the show would have been over...lol. One other thing was the collage. For someone to take all that time to make something so special speaks a lot. Anyone can buy
May 28th, 2007 9:08 PM
Congratulations to both of you!!! Like many others, I too had picked Tessa out the first night as 'the one'. You both stayed so true to yourselves and it showed throughout the series. I can imagine that it was tough watching the final episodes when it came down to the last 3 or 2 - the way Andy was with Bevin and Danielle - but you have to remember that you know this is a possibility and the way the show is when you sign up for it in the beginning. It is something that is to be expected. I can understand how Andy could develop such strong feelings for Tessa and Bevin - I just felt Bevin was too needy and emotional. Tessa is the one!!! I wish you both a lifetime of happiness! (And Hawaii is the 'real world' - I've been there and done the Navy wife role also)
May 28th, 2007 2:45 PM
Hawii as it's portrayed on tv may not be "reality",but for those of us who live here Hawaii is definitely "the real world"...i've never flown over a waterfall or volcano in a helicopter...I shop for groceries, work and pay bills....there are a lot of real people living real lives here. I'm sure Andy and Tessa will also once the camera stop rolling.
May 27th, 2007 5:00 PM
I am so happy Andy picked Tessa. I felt Bevin was too "open" and felt it's came on way too much to him. Nothing like getting to know someone before being so touchy... and she wasn't too honest either.
Tessa is cute,educated and seems very sweet. I think they have a lot more in common than he did with Bevin.
I wish them both the best.
Hope they have a long and happy marriage and enjoy marriage and parenthood.
May 27th, 2007 7:35 AM
I am so happy that Andy choose Tessa altho I have some reservations that warrants a second look at the whole situation. Will it last down the road. Remember romance blooms in Hawaii and that really is not the real world either. Will Tessa wake up one morning and find the bloom gone. Will Andy realize that Tessa is really not the one for him, good cook or not. Am I old fashioned or what that the women of today are sleeping with their guys before marriage. What if there is a breakup....you gave your virginity away on a flim flam. Remember what i said ...Hawaii is not the real world either.
May 26th, 2007 11:32 PM
Congrats, you two!! This is the first season my wife and I watched the show and I picked Tessa from the start because she had the qualities I would have wanted. As the show progressed it was clear it was what you wanted also. The world is still looking for genuine, caring, honest men and classy, reserved, confident women who know the value of true love and are willing to let romance build. She is your queen, always treat her that way. And Tessa, he is your King, always honor him. We are looking forward to hearing more about your success in the future.
May 26th, 2007 11:24 PM
Congratulations Tessa and Andy. Tessa, forgive Andy for his openness with Bevin, Danielle and others. To have a real chance to find a mate, he HAD to jump in the deep end and open himself up. Because of this, of course, he developed serious feelings and love for more than one and he will have to "detox". Do not worry about jumping into the Navy wife role. I did it in 1972 - knew nothing about the military life and ended up 8 years in Hawaii. My two youngest were born there. I really loved it and my husband enjoyed showing me the ropes. I met him in San Diego in Feb, married him in June, was pregnant in August, moved to HI the next Dec with a baby.You WILL NOT lose yourself - I went to the U of H while there and continued my studies. Best Wishes!
May 26th, 2007 1:02 PM
I worry about Tessa. Andy telling Bevin he loved her and will always love her and what's up with all the leg rubbing and hugging. DANGER DANGER Tessa. I believe he only picked Tessa because of Bevin's religious beliefs, and her divorce. Yes Bevin 'played' Andy, by using sex, instead of being upfront and honest from the beginning. BUT I STILL SAY TO TESSA DANGER DANGER = Andy is not through with Bevin. Anday better hurry I think Bevin is going to be the next BACHELORETTE. I don't see a wedding in the future.
May 25th, 2007 4:05 PM
Oh my God..I was so addicted to both of you..And i am still addicted now & I don't know when it will end...Tessa..i was rooting for her from the very beginning..Good that Andy chose her..You are so good for each other..i can sense it...May you have a blessed union someday..Please get married soon..
May 25th, 2007 10:36 AM
Andy and Tessa -
CONGRATULATIONS! This is the first year I've watched the Bachelor. I am old enough to be your mom, and then some. It seemed as if every woman on the show, by their actions, were screaming "pick me; pick me", but Tessa you stood out because by your actions, you were saying, "Will I pick Andy?", and I think you sensed that, Andy, and you saw enough in her to know that she is not needy, knows what she's about and does not compromise herself. You knew she was a keeper from the start (it doesn't hurt that she's beautful either!)I sense you both have strong character, which will get you through many issues throughout your lives together. Remember, falling in love happens, but staying in love is a decision, and your character will get you through the days you don't feel very much in love (happens to all couples), and the feelings of being in love will surely return. Your grandfather gave you very sage advice when he told you to look 5, 10, 15 years down the road. You'
May 25th, 2007 9:22 AM
Andy & Tessa,
What a gorgeous pair of LOVERS you are--are hearts all throb for the two of you!! Andy you CHOSE the right girl, never doubt it! You saw through all the plots, phoniness, giddiness, and chemistry and true love is none of those. Tessa is a class act and will be a wonderful military wife. Bevin was a lovely girl, but looked too worldly and liberal for you. Your grandfather and sister were very wise counsel for you. I was shocked how your grandma was so enamored of Bevin though on such a short visit. May your love & marriage bloom & prosper. Best wishes for a happy life (though there will be ups and downs--just weather them and ride out the storms; they WILL come) and may you have lovely, healthy children! Can we please be privy to her welcome to Hawaii Luau and the wedding PLEASE?!!!!
May 25th, 2007 9:18 AM
I was very happy to see that Andy chose Tessa. I feel that he did have a connction with Bevin however like his Grandfather asked "will it be hard to always have to live up to that kind of energy. " Relationships go thru many changes and if there is not more than physical attraction things can go sour very quickly. Not everything can be solved by passion, ie financial decions, how to raise children, household duties, etc. I think that Andy and Tessa's passion is strong just more private. There is nothing wrong with that.
May 25th, 2007 7:07 AM
To Tessa and Andy,
Just reviewing all your blogs on diff sites; and youtube videos over and over about your love; and i am so happy for you both may your love bloom each day to the rest of your life. and have lots of kids; my teen twin boys think i'm crazy playing your youtube that Valen made for you over and over. but i admire your commitment that you made and hope to see the wedding bells on the horizon before christmas.
Take care and Best for the future.
May 24th, 2007 8:17 PM
Andy, Thank you for your service to our Country. Your love and dedication is seen in your actions. You are truly a hero for the USA. Thank you!!!!
Andy and Tessa, I am so happy for you. I do believe and pray that you have a wonderful life together.
Tessa, Thank you for being true to yourself. You approached this journey with sincerity and honesty. I know that your family and friends are very proud of you. You love big; it just takes you a while to get there. You go girl...
Andy, I want to say that I picked Tessa the first night for you because of the muffin joke and the way you sought her out that evening. You love with your eyes. In every episode, your eyes were full of admiration and love for her. Andy, you are the best Bachelor of all. You are compassionate/respectful/ and gentle. Most men would have moved on from Tessa because she was not a forward person. You are a true knight and every ladies dream!! You showed respect to every woman. Thank you for showing us that