But she's even more thankful for her fiance, Tailor Made.
"Oh, my George," Pollard sighed to People magazine in a recent interview. "I told him what happened and he said, â€˜I stand by you.' He didn't question me. He helped me relax about it."
That's an impressive feat, considering she "blew a gasket" when she learned about the tape.
"I was floored," Pollard said. "I thought, â€˜I have to clear this up.' It saddened me as a woman and as a black woman... I feel violated because it's not me. If that were me, I would stand by it. They crossed the line."
But you can't keep New York down!
"I'm not going to let this (put) me in a state of being sad or feeling beaten up. I'm gonna be a big girl about it. I'm gonna stay strong."
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