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Grey's Anatomy Reaction: Discuss "Not Responsible"

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Derek, Mark and Owen were playing golf on the roof. Where do the balls go?

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waaah accidently clicked submit before being done... I actually wanted to delete the last sentence and wanted to say that the SL mainly shows that Mer is not over her trauma and is reverting to old habits of not talking about her problems or downplaying them. Thereby keeping people from being able to look after her. Especially Derek, who in my opinion had every right to be angry at her, but also Cristina and Alex. How are they supposed to know how bad it is, if Mer keeps joking about it. I'm also a bit worried how obssessed Mer has become with the idea that she needs a baby and puts it before her own health. She seems to believe that getting pregnant again is necessary to overcome her trauma of the miscarriage.

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This episode was ok, but I`m so annoyed I fell into Shonda's sneak peek and promo trap again. I had high epectations of the Merder storyline... when clearly I should have known better. The blindness storyline played out in a totally different light than I expected and I'm a bit disappointed. Mer is losing her eyesight from the medication, but hey... it's really no big deal, let's make fun about it. Cristina doesn't seem to care, because she's busy being glad she doesn't have to deal with this baby crap. Alex makes a bit of an effort to help, although we can argue about whether he just needed a reason to chat up Gyno-Barbie again. Derek doesn't worry about her for most of the day, simply because Meredith hasn't told him. So apparently the SL served the purpose of highlighting the communication problems of Merder's marriage.

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@Smriti yea i completely agree with you and i love that about derek too but my point was that her being in her OR without saying anything is not the main reason he should be mad at her, and maybe you are right that he was keeping in mind the miscarriage thing although he has no right to be still upset about it anyway i am sure we won't know anything further and that we will move on with the SL as if nothing happened as usual!!

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@i_am_a_fan can it be possible Derek might be referring to the miscarriage here? I mean Mer did omit that big an info and kept it a secret for months even if she did that for Derek's sake but still u know what I mean? Maybe he is remembering that and I get it he has a right to be mad not only did she not tell him she was even about to drill holes into someone's brains in that condition and I fel he was mad not just coz she almost endangered a patient's life but also coz this foolishnes could have endangered her own credibility And I personally love this thing about them you know specially about Derek just coz she is his wife doesn't mean she woul get special treatment He would set her straight when she is out of line at work and this really reflects Derek's character and also the maturity of their relationship. So ya I get Derek but like you said something so was not right I mean they were talking about something as big as Mer's eye sight right? Or am I seriously missing something? From what I gathered it was not something big and it didn't even mean Mer can't ever be pregnant coz if that was IT then Mer should have been shattered and she was NOT she was completely fine and even HAPPY for that matter so ya I guess it was not that big a deal and was just created to frustrate them even more

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I can not say i was thrilled with the episode i felt shipped about the whole merder SL that was not what we expected, and it is not about the sl it self it is about how it was displayed, i really dunno what was it but something was not right. Like for example the meredith humor about the whole thing why was she so freak-in happy? and it was so out of charcter of her t leave derek out of it for so long i thought the secretive meredith was in the past? and as for derek i understand his frustration and that fact that he is angry but really "how did u want in my OR and did not say anything??" WTH?! is that what most matter now? i know that was reckless of her but really?? I think the most important thing was that she really can not see!! and not that she was in your OR and did not tell you, so if she was not in the OR would it be all ok?
And one more thing i loved the roof scene they all looked so hot!! and it did not bother me maybe he went there after he made sure she was ok and apparently the eye doctor had checked her already but i did not like his comment about that she always leave him out of everything if she did not want him to have a say because it is not fair , i know that she had just done that but like i said that was out of character and mer has been a very good wife and shared everything , remember when she wanted to get tested for Alzheimer gene? Didn't he just have a voe he did not let her do it!! so i duuno i did not like his comment and i did not like her attitude and like i said something was really wrong!! and i hope the coming episode is much better but i am done with the expectations thing.

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And mind you here am not cribbing abt ST or blah I don't care abt the length of scenes as long as it has depth I am just HUGELY disappointed by the damn casual way something as serious as Ner's eye sight was dealt with while something as pathetically ridiculous as Callie's caffeine needs was dealt with the utmost of time effort and dedication.
I mean if the parallels have gone down to this eye sight v coffee and Sr and CO actually choose coffee then I seirously don't know what else is left to be said.
All I know is they are letting beautiful story lines like Mer's miscarriage and now this just slip out of their hands. they could have done so much, shown so much of intensity, but nope they won't, what a waste of story line what a waste of unbelievable talent like EP PD

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@ Tamara Go ahead and copy whatever you want to am so glad you came and spoke coz I was feeling a loner i know most MD fans r disappointed but I guess now they have reached a point where they just don't care a damn anymore
I am more disappointed in myself that I let that MD promo coax me into believing that this Mer going blind thing wld be a real major and intense SL I mean go watch that promo again it felt soooo freaking heart breaking Did we see any of those emotions? Yes in one scene for seconds we did saw sadness on MD and thats thanx to EP PD's brilliant acting But thats about it thats all we get? After weeks of hype that was created over Mer going blind thats ALL we get
And as for MerDer talking it out I don't think thats going to happen The whole talking bit is reserved for the Bermuda Triangle i am sick of CAM I seriously AM More than CAM am sick of it being the ONLY sl every epi. Every other sl specially if it involves MD is shadowed by it
I jav realized this show is depressing, its beyond repair, worrying abt it is pointless and most importantly HOPING for it specially for MD is just meaningless, I think we all should just get our act together and move on, I know its hard coz we all have bene loving MD for far too long, but this show gives a crap about us. I just wish the producers and he channel had the guts to promote the show as it is with promos of CAM and April and Teddy and Avery and blah blah and NOT coax the audience b giving them MD promos but they can't do that can they? Because they freaking know its MD's faces that really sells the show. Its manuplative and pathetic and I seriously am disappoint in myself for being stupid enouh to have believed them and their promo tricks

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@Smriti AMEN!! WELL SAID!! COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER I COPY SOME OF YOUR TEXT AND POST IT ON ANOTHER FORUM HOPE IT'S OKAY!! I'M REALLY PISSED THAT ONCE AGAIN MD ARE PLAYING SECOND FIDDLE I WAS HOPING AFTER READING THE PRESS REALEASE MER EYE'S PROBLEM WAS THE MAJOR SUBJECT LAST NIGHT!! NEVER AND I MEAN REALLY NEVER!!! DO WE GET TO SEE MD TALK ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM WHAT THE HELL! WAS DEREK DOING ON THE ROOF WHEN HE JUST KNOW WHAT HAPPENS TO HIS WIFE! WE SEE MER TALKING WITH CRIS AND DEREK WITH THE BOY'S REAL MATURE! HATE! HATE! HATE! THIS DAMN! CALM BABY STORYLINE! GREY'S IS SO OVER FOR ME!!! OR DO I HAVE TO SAY CALZONA ANATOMY! BUT WHATEVER!I'M DONE!!!!

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Did you say it? 'I love you. I don't ever want to live without you. You changed my life.' Did you say it? Make a plan. Set a goal. Work toward it, but every now and then, look around; Drink it in 'cause this is it. It might all be gone tomorrow."

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There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone. It wasn't 'cause I thought I'd be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It's easier to be alone, because what if you learn that you need love and you don't have it? What if you like it and lean on it? What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart? Can you even survive that kind of pain? Losing love is like organ damage. It's like dying. The only difference is death ends. This? It could go on forever.

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