Save the Date: Calzona to Wed May 5 on Grey's Anatomy! Comments (Page 3)
122 Comments
DG
April 3rd, 2011 6:47 PM
@jo_1
You do realise it's not REAL?! If every surgeon was like Hahn (a colossal bitch) that would be boring. The character was extremely unlikable. If you want to see real surgeons, go watch a documentary.
And do you also realise that most troubled children come from father/mother family environments? It does not matter whether children are raised by both sex or of the same sex as long as they are loved and parented correctly.
It's homophobes and religious people that gives these children, who are raised in same-sex families, trouble by bullying and damage their psyche. NOT the parents. Perhaps you should think about that.
GREYZFANATIC Rank: Guest Star
April 3rd, 2011 5:11 PM
OK people i understand that this show has done things that other shows are scared to do. But get over it!! It is a SHOW! Don't watch it if it gets in the way of your "morals". ..
@LadyLove is it ok for children to see a man and a woman rolling around in bed together? Because if it is you need to check yourself and everyone who is preaching the bible and passing judgement is obviously only reading parts of the bible that suit themselves. @MERDER since you want to send a petition to stop the "gayness" on Grey's because it goes against what you believe, are you also sending pentitions to stop the violence on tv or actual violence that is going on in the world. Because the bible also says to love one another. People need to take the time and think before you let foolish things come out of your mouths.BTW The bible is not a literal representation of how ppl should live.
I think the show is going along with the times. And there is nothing wrong with that! You are not going to see them
J
April 3rd, 2011 5:09 PM
@Lesbian - Your comments cracked me the F up!!! Well said! Look the bottomline is homophobs exist and unfortunately they watch the show - which is really interesting in itself. Nonetheless people like @jo_1 come on this site CONSTANTLY just to be NEGATIVE. They have no other agenda than to be that...(Yes, I said it!). So - dismiss them, their comments, and their negativity and let's get excited about the WEDDING of the YEAR! (Yeah...I said that, too.) The only thing that bugs me about this wedding is that Mark is walking Callie down the aisle. Throughout the musical episode not once before the showdown between Arizona and Mark did you even see him show any compassion toward her AT ALL. He didn't console her...or ask her if she was OK when she got off the ambulance. IDK - just ain't buying that yet. It would have been better having the Chief walk her down the aisle.
Biology
April 3rd, 2011 5:01 PM
@ jo_1
What's this research showing that children who are not raised by one mother and one father suffer psychological damage you are talking about? Are you referring to the Religious Right here? Because, actual research, with actual scientists, shows the exact opposite. Children who have been raised in a loving home with supportive parents are the ones who excel, regardless of what the orientation of their parents are. And all studies show that having parents of the same sex does not, in fact, negatively impact children or cause any psychological damage. To say they do is just rhetoric coming from the radical right who have a political agenda on mind.
The reason two people of the same sex cannot biologically procreate in our particular species (homo sapiens) is due to a particular biologic aspect of our species. Other species have hermaphadites that can procreate with either males or females, depending on which role the other organism in their species has at the time, asexual r
greyslover11
April 3rd, 2011 5:00 PM
Really people bringing religion into this and quoting scriptures??? For supper religious people there is a lot of things in Greys that goes against christianity & just watching it would be a sin so really if you believe that strongly about such subjects you wouldn't be watching in the first place. So basically you are a hypocrite. Besides, its called separation of church & state, some people in this country are not christian. Get over it!!
Fyi I am not against region I myself claim a christian religion, but I don't go around pretending to be holier than thou & preachy. I know I'm not a "good Christian" but oh well, we're all sinners anyway, I just try my best to be as good as possible.
GREYZFANATIC Rank: Guest Star
April 3rd, 2011 4:53 PM
@Achel
WELL SAID!!
jo_1
April 3rd, 2011 12:38 PM
to desertroses: also a lot of real surgeons do have personalities but the nature of surgery is that they have to inevitably distance themselves from their patients (even the kids) so that they can treat in an independent manner and deal with the scary crap in their work. like a said, erica hahn was a brilliant potrayal of a surgeon who still had a lot of career/personal issues to deal with and would have been a great character. instead she left and we ended up getting arizona. whats worse is that most of the emphasis of this season has been on arizona and callie which inevitably has led to the ratings decline.
jo_1
April 3rd, 2011 12:33 PM
to desertroses:
first of all arizona acts a like a little child even when she is not working. alex is also in paediatrics and connects and emphasises with children but he himself doesn't act like a child. thats the difference.
DesertRoses
April 3rd, 2011 12:13 PM
Jo_1 You so realise Arizona is a PEDS Surgeon, right? Her character is very in touch with children and has extraordinary bedside manner with them. A lot of real surgeons out there, that have no personalities, should watch her and take note.
LoveCalzona83
April 3rd, 2011 12:07 PM
This is great! These two lovely, talented ladies are making it easier for a lot of people to feel comfortable with themselves. They are helping in the war against bullying, hatred and close mindedness. You people who are against this may know someone very well, that you love very much, who is in a dark place right now, because they can't be free to feel the way they feel. Someone who has been bullied to death or tormented all because of this hatred. Wake up! Sara Ramirez, Jessica Capshaw and the Grey's Anatomy writers are making it a lot easier for some of your loved ones to feel happiness, and not feel alone for once in their lives.
jo_1
April 3rd, 2011 12:05 PM
callie and arizona are generally a poor representation of surgeons and gay people. i'm sorry but surgeons are not like arizona. arizona acts like a little child sometimes. i thought erica hahn was generally better because she was more hard core. callie can't seem to decide whether she likes men or women and sleeps with mark immediately after arizona leaves. the whole situation (i.e the tri parenting, callie having mark's baby, arizona wanting to be involved, callie unable to set boundaries with mark etc) potrays gay people in a horrible way, shows the problems that arise from gay people having children, emphasises the huge psychological research showing children do best with a loving father and mother together and lastly also reminds people that simply only a man and woman can reproduce and have a child together biologically. I mean there must be a reason for why gay people can't reproduce together biologically and have to go through other methods(i.e.sperm/egg donor, adoptions) which
LeeDee87
April 3rd, 2011 11:47 AM
The funny thing is, a lot of the people commenting negatively towards Callie and Arizona, were probably rooting for Callie and George to get married at some point, even after he cheated on her. It's ok to be treated like shit, as long as your with a man, right? You people need to stop living your lives in a box and realise, love is what makes the world go around, not hate.
Achel
April 3rd, 2011 11:02 AM
Anyone who sites Leviticus as a reason why homosexuality is "abominable", but eats pork, shell fish, shrimp, or lobster, or wears poly-cotton blends, or doesn't sacrifice a cow, or a lamb, or a turtle dove when they sin is a hypocrite. Anyone who thinks the US is a "Christian nation" needs to go read the first ammendment.
n@ncy
April 3rd, 2011 10:45 AM
ok, lets calm down guys... I like the show, I love Callie and i adore Arizona! I'm very happy about the wedding... I wish something special for MerDer fans too!
DG
April 3rd, 2011 10:44 AM
@MerDer
Like I said, I do NOT like to be preached to. If you like to preach then get ordained and buy a pulpit! I don't want to get into a religious debate with you. But like you said, Jesus is YOUR master, so who are YOU to pass judgement? YOU are NOT the freakin' messiah! Hate is like cancer and YOU are spreading it.
Lesbian
April 3rd, 2011 10:29 AM
Anyone who judges anyone who says they are a Christian is full of shit.
Casting the first stone and what not.
And whoever else wants to quit watching the show please for the love of the Flying Spaghetti Monster stop watching it.
(R-amen)
And stop whining about the wedding, too. Y'all who want a big white wedding for MerDer...you're fucking retarded. Its so not in character for them, especially Meredith. They're happy, stfu.
Izzie is not coming back, Burke is not coming back, George is not coming back. They were the cancer that was killing Grey's, now they're gone. Get over it.
All that said, sit back enjoy the show, or GET THE FUCK OUT.
n
April 3rd, 2011 10:27 AM
Dear MerDer as a gay person, i only have to say... YOU CAN'T PRAY AWAY GAY! I didn't choose that! I didn't wake up one day and I said, "ok! Let's try something new now!" I tried very hard not to be gay actually... but i'm not into men! what should I do?
As Callie said...
Jesus--"A new commandment that I give unto you... That you love one another."
Jesus--"he who is without sin among you,Let him cast the first stone."
Jesus is our savior, MerDer,not you...And jesus would be ashamed
of you for judging us!
Tobie
April 3rd, 2011 10:17 AM
@MerDer - These are just fictional characters. You are overreacting. Keep it cool.
rose
April 3rd, 2011 10:13 AM
@merder Realy youre pethetic!! I truely hope that someday you will realize that you are!
Oh Please!
April 3rd, 2011 10:10 AM
This is a fictional t.v. show. let's tone down the hate. I'm not for the homomsexual lifestyle, absolutely against it, and am a Christian, but I do believe that we should love everyone regardless of their sexual orientation. Hate is uncalled for. So, if you don't like what you see on this show, don't watch. However don't put your moral values on others. Express and share your feelings in another way. Use that 'petition" to garner more help for Japan, that would probably be a better use of your time. BTW, my brother is gay
MerDer
April 3rd, 2011 9:02 AM
Has anyone ever heard the Biblical account of Sodom and Gommorah? The LORD rained down sulfuric acid from the sky destroying the entire city. WHY? Because the people in the city were wicked....most of them having "sex" with the same sex. This is where the term "Sodomy" comes from. God has spoken very clearly on the subject of homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22, Leviticus 20:13, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10.
The Lord has spoken about this....more than once! Are you listening? Not only am I going to quit watching the show, but I am also going to get a petition together of people who will not be viewing the May 5th episode and send it to the ABC network. It is time to take a stand.
Matthew 6:24 says "No one can serve two masters. Either he will love one and hate the other or be devoted to one and despise the other."
Jesus Christ is my Master. He should be yours, too.
OMG
April 3rd, 2011 7:23 AM
@LadyLove
Look at your nickname pal! Are you serious? I don't see much love in your comment so maybe you should change your name...
Mensen
April 3rd, 2011 7:18 AM
@ ladylove Really people like you make me sick! You don't wake up one day and decide I'm gay en I'm gonna make my life more difficult. Youre not the one that gets to judged people. Love is love deal with it!
Saints Fan Rank: Guest Star
April 3rd, 2011 3:42 AM
@ladylove wow their are a lot of things wrong with your post so many im not even going to bother to be specific. dont b so offensive as someone else said greys isnt aimed at kids its aimed at adults who should be mature enough to watch a show without complaining wen 2 women share an on screen kiss heck im 14 and i dont complain also religion is not a big part of the show, the only religious character is callie! calzona are the best couple on this show and thier here to stay so deal with it
DG
April 3rd, 2011 12:18 AM
@ladylove
I can see you don't like it or understand it. But at least have a little bit of respect. This show isn't aimed at children anyway. Besides Calzona sex scenes (if you can even call it that) are completely tamed compared to what Cristina was doing to Owen on the chair during the sunshine song. Heck, most of the time we see Calzona they are either four feet away or are chapparoned by Mark.
P.S no one likes to be preached to. If I did I would attend church.
Meredith: Get this baby out of me safely and you can have whatever you want.
April 3rd, 2011 6:47 PM
@jo_1
You do realise it's not REAL?! If every surgeon was like Hahn (a colossal bitch) that would be boring. The character was extremely unlikable. If you want to see real surgeons, go watch a documentary.
And do you also realise that most troubled children come from father/mother family environments? It does not matter whether children are raised by both sex or of the same sex as long as they are loved and parented correctly.
It's homophobes and religious people that gives these children, who are raised in same-sex families, trouble by bullying and damage their psyche. NOT the parents. Perhaps you should think about that.
Rank: Guest Star
April 3rd, 2011 5:11 PM
OK people i understand that this show has done things that other shows are scared to do. But get over it!! It is a SHOW! Don't watch it if it gets in the way of your "morals". ..
@LadyLove is it ok for children to see a man and a woman rolling around in bed together? Because if it is you need to check yourself and everyone who is preaching the bible and passing judgement is obviously only reading parts of the bible that suit themselves. @MERDER since you want to send a petition to stop the "gayness" on Grey's because it goes against what you believe, are you also sending pentitions to stop the violence on tv or actual violence that is going on in the world. Because the bible also says to love one another. People need to take the time and think before you let foolish things come out of your mouths.BTW The bible is not a literal representation of how ppl should live.
I think the show is going along with the times. And there is nothing wrong with that! You are not going to see them
April 3rd, 2011 5:09 PM
@Lesbian - Your comments cracked me the F up!!! Well said! Look the bottomline is homophobs exist and unfortunately they watch the show - which is really interesting in itself. Nonetheless people like @jo_1 come on this site CONSTANTLY just to be NEGATIVE. They have no other agenda than to be that...(Yes, I said it!). So - dismiss them, their comments, and their negativity and let's get excited about the WEDDING of the YEAR! (Yeah...I said that, too.) The only thing that bugs me about this wedding is that Mark is walking Callie down the aisle. Throughout the musical episode not once before the showdown between Arizona and Mark did you even see him show any compassion toward her AT ALL. He didn't console her...or ask her if she was OK when she got off the ambulance. IDK - just ain't buying that yet. It would have been better having the Chief walk her down the aisle.
April 3rd, 2011 5:01 PM
@ jo_1
What's this research showing that children who are not raised by one mother and one father suffer psychological damage you are talking about? Are you referring to the Religious Right here? Because, actual research, with actual scientists, shows the exact opposite. Children who have been raised in a loving home with supportive parents are the ones who excel, regardless of what the orientation of their parents are. And all studies show that having parents of the same sex does not, in fact, negatively impact children or cause any psychological damage. To say they do is just rhetoric coming from the radical right who have a political agenda on mind.
The reason two people of the same sex cannot biologically procreate in our particular species (homo sapiens) is due to a particular biologic aspect of our species. Other species have hermaphadites that can procreate with either males or females, depending on which role the other organism in their species has at the time, asexual r
April 3rd, 2011 5:00 PM
Really people bringing religion into this and quoting scriptures??? For supper religious people there is a lot of things in Greys that goes against christianity & just watching it would be a sin so really if you believe that strongly about such subjects you wouldn't be watching in the first place. So basically you are a hypocrite. Besides, its called separation of church & state, some people in this country are not christian. Get over it!!
Fyi I am not against region I myself claim a christian religion, but I don't go around pretending to be holier than thou & preachy. I know I'm not a "good Christian" but oh well, we're all sinners anyway, I just try my best to be as good as possible.
Rank: Guest Star
April 3rd, 2011 4:53 PM
@Achel
WELL SAID!!
April 3rd, 2011 12:38 PM
to desertroses: also a lot of real surgeons do have personalities but the nature of surgery is that they have to inevitably distance themselves from their patients (even the kids) so that they can treat in an independent manner and deal with the scary crap in their work. like a said, erica hahn was a brilliant potrayal of a surgeon who still had a lot of career/personal issues to deal with and would have been a great character. instead she left and we ended up getting arizona. whats worse is that most of the emphasis of this season has been on arizona and callie which inevitably has led to the ratings decline.
April 3rd, 2011 12:33 PM
to desertroses:
first of all arizona acts a like a little child even when she is not working. alex is also in paediatrics and connects and emphasises with children but he himself doesn't act like a child. thats the difference.
April 3rd, 2011 12:13 PM
Jo_1 You so realise Arizona is a PEDS Surgeon, right? Her character is very in touch with children and has extraordinary bedside manner with them. A lot of real surgeons out there, that have no personalities, should watch her and take note.
April 3rd, 2011 12:07 PM
This is great! These two lovely, talented ladies are making it easier for a lot of people to feel comfortable with themselves. They are helping in the war against bullying, hatred and close mindedness. You people who are against this may know someone very well, that you love very much, who is in a dark place right now, because they can't be free to feel the way they feel. Someone who has been bullied to death or tormented all because of this hatred. Wake up! Sara Ramirez, Jessica Capshaw and the Grey's Anatomy writers are making it a lot easier for some of your loved ones to feel happiness, and not feel alone for once in their lives.
April 3rd, 2011 12:05 PM
callie and arizona are generally a poor representation of surgeons and gay people. i'm sorry but surgeons are not like arizona. arizona acts like a little child sometimes. i thought erica hahn was generally better because she was more hard core. callie can't seem to decide whether she likes men or women and sleeps with mark immediately after arizona leaves. the whole situation (i.e the tri parenting, callie having mark's baby, arizona wanting to be involved, callie unable to set boundaries with mark etc) potrays gay people in a horrible way, shows the problems that arise from gay people having children, emphasises the huge psychological research showing children do best with a loving father and mother together and lastly also reminds people that simply only a man and woman can reproduce and have a child together biologically. I mean there must be a reason for why gay people can't reproduce together biologically and have to go through other methods(i.e.sperm/egg donor, adoptions) which
April 3rd, 2011 11:47 AM
The funny thing is, a lot of the people commenting negatively towards Callie and Arizona, were probably rooting for Callie and George to get married at some point, even after he cheated on her. It's ok to be treated like shit, as long as your with a man, right? You people need to stop living your lives in a box and realise, love is what makes the world go around, not hate.
April 3rd, 2011 11:02 AM
Anyone who sites Leviticus as a reason why homosexuality is "abominable", but eats pork, shell fish, shrimp, or lobster, or wears poly-cotton blends, or doesn't sacrifice a cow, or a lamb, or a turtle dove when they sin is a hypocrite. Anyone who thinks the US is a "Christian nation" needs to go read the first ammendment.
April 3rd, 2011 10:45 AM
ok, lets calm down guys... I like the show, I love Callie and i adore Arizona! I'm very happy about the wedding... I wish something special for MerDer fans too!
April 3rd, 2011 10:44 AM
@MerDer
Like I said, I do NOT like to be preached to. If you like to preach then get ordained and buy a pulpit! I don't want to get into a religious debate with you. But like you said, Jesus is YOUR master, so who are YOU to pass judgement? YOU are NOT the freakin' messiah! Hate is like cancer and YOU are spreading it.
April 3rd, 2011 10:29 AM
Anyone who judges anyone who says they are a Christian is full of shit.
Casting the first stone and what not.
And whoever else wants to quit watching the show please for the love of the Flying Spaghetti Monster stop watching it.
(R-amen)
And stop whining about the wedding, too. Y'all who want a big white wedding for MerDer...you're fucking retarded. Its so not in character for them, especially Meredith. They're happy, stfu.
Izzie is not coming back, Burke is not coming back, George is not coming back. They were the cancer that was killing Grey's, now they're gone. Get over it.
All that said, sit back enjoy the show, or GET THE FUCK OUT.
April 3rd, 2011 10:27 AM
Dear MerDer as a gay person, i only have to say... YOU CAN'T PRAY AWAY GAY! I didn't choose that! I didn't wake up one day and I said, "ok! Let's try something new now!" I tried very hard not to be gay actually... but i'm not into men! what should I do?
As Callie said...
Jesus--"A new commandment that I give unto you... That you love one another."
Jesus--"he who is without sin among you,Let him cast the first stone."
Jesus is our savior, MerDer,not you...And jesus would be ashamed
of you for judging us!
April 3rd, 2011 10:17 AM
@MerDer - These are just fictional characters. You are overreacting. Keep it cool.
April 3rd, 2011 10:13 AM
@merder Realy youre pethetic!! I truely hope that someday you will realize that you are!
April 3rd, 2011 10:10 AM
This is a fictional t.v. show. let's tone down the hate. I'm not for the homomsexual lifestyle, absolutely against it, and am a Christian, but I do believe that we should love everyone regardless of their sexual orientation. Hate is uncalled for. So, if you don't like what you see on this show, don't watch. However don't put your moral values on others. Express and share your feelings in another way. Use that 'petition" to garner more help for Japan, that would probably be a better use of your time. BTW, my brother is gay
April 3rd, 2011 9:02 AM
Has anyone ever heard the Biblical account of Sodom and Gommorah? The LORD rained down sulfuric acid from the sky destroying the entire city. WHY? Because the people in the city were wicked....most of them having "sex" with the same sex. This is where the term "Sodomy" comes from. God has spoken very clearly on the subject of homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22, Leviticus 20:13, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10.
The Lord has spoken about this....more than once! Are you listening? Not only am I going to quit watching the show, but I am also going to get a petition together of people who will not be viewing the May 5th episode and send it to the ABC network. It is time to take a stand.
Matthew 6:24 says "No one can serve two masters. Either he will love one and hate the other or be devoted to one and despise the other."
Jesus Christ is my Master. He should be yours, too.
April 3rd, 2011 7:23 AM
@LadyLove
Look at your nickname pal! Are you serious? I don't see much love in your comment so maybe you should change your name...
April 3rd, 2011 7:18 AM
@ ladylove Really people like you make me sick! You don't wake up one day and decide I'm gay en I'm gonna make my life more difficult. Youre not the one that gets to judged people. Love is love deal with it!
Rank: Guest Star
April 3rd, 2011 3:42 AM
@ladylove wow their are a lot of things wrong with your post so many im not even going to bother to be specific. dont b so offensive as someone else said greys isnt aimed at kids its aimed at adults who should be mature enough to watch a show without complaining wen 2 women share an on screen kiss heck im 14 and i dont complain also religion is not a big part of the show, the only religious character is callie! calzona are the best couple on this show and thier here to stay so deal with it
April 3rd, 2011 12:18 AM
@ladylove
I can see you don't like it or understand it. But at least have a little bit of respect. This show isn't aimed at children anyway. Besides Calzona sex scenes (if you can even call it that) are completely tamed compared to what Cristina was doing to Owen on the chair during the sunshine song. Heck, most of the time we see Calzona they are either four feet away or are chapparoned by Mark.
P.S no one likes to be preached to. If I did I would attend church.