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i recently watched the episode in season 4 when Chuck and Blair have hate sex, and blair said to someone; i have to do this to keep away from the best sex of my life.. and she just kept making him out to be the best she's ever had, like she was eating loads of sugar to distract herself it was hysterical!! compare that to Dan and Blair, and i think we all have our answer.
If this is true, it makes sense. Because if Dan refuses to go to Rome, and sacrifice his career for her, and Blair spend more time helping Chuck, Dan will get angry. He will come to expressed his negative side, he still does not trust Blair about Chuck, and to judge prematurely. Thus it turns out that Dan is in love with the illusion of what Blair is not. Dan is stray and needs to return to Serena, while not to be late.
New obstacle Dan breaks up with Blair??.....I WILL SERIOUSLY LAUGH MY ASS OFF..."Queen B gets dumped by lonely boy"
You're right when it comes to Chuck and Blair. Blair is not ready to return now to Chuck because of nearly divorced and is not ready to finally re-attached to someone. That is why, when Dan said that he is in love to Blair, she would not respond to him in the same way. You're right, as far as Dan, he's really the image of his father. But in my opinion, Serena and Dan deserve each other. Serena is the best person for Dan, and Dan is the best man for Serena. Simply Dan is the love of her life, and Serena is the love of his life.
(my phone hates me). Dan will want a girl like his mom. I think it is a nice transitional relationship, but untimately, their backgrounds and preferred lifestyles will pull them apart. plus Blair to chuck "I just can't love you the way you need me to right now."
...of the day, I think Blair is going to want to be with a more powerful man (whom she also happens to love, and who also happens to need her) and Dan will want a more carefree and artistic girl like h
I think the reason that Dair is happening is because they both need it to happen. Blair knows that if she goes to Chuck, it is endgame. She just got divorced and can't handle the weight of getting into a relationship with Chuck that will end up in marriage...and also one where she is the least powerful of the two. Dan is just like his dad. he is an artist (writer) and seems to like letting powerful women control him, but at the end
I know what you mean. The writers should have ditched the royal wedding debacle and developed Dair better so that we could have had more time to buy into it and believe that is a true alternative to Chair. I'm not convinced the writers have managed to do that which is a shame as I'd like to see Dair given a fair shot.
As much as I love Dair, I would much rather they not be happening this season. Fifth season Dair was hurried, seemed pushed and is not entertaining. It should have happened in the 4th Season or in a legitimate way, instead of making Blair love a different man every other week. While she's married, by the way.
The only thing that is keeping me watching GG is Serena as Gossip Girl, though her poker face is, we have to assume ridiculous.
I know you're a big fan of Derena and I admire your constancy! :-)
And thats absolutely fine you think that. I have just seen alot of pro Dair stuff too. I am not disputing that the other ships have a major fan base too. All I'm saying is it's not as clear cut as is often made out.
you say that you dont agree with the majority not liking dair..and i disagree. I think a great majority dont like dair. Most forums and reviews show negative comments towards dair. Thats fine you like dair as we all have different likes and opinions..but in my opinión from what iv read they dont seem very popular.
Now we probably understand. You like action in the series, whatever that is - I respect that. I'm glad you're not against change these bad stories in the series. I'm sorry if you're insulted what I have said, it was not intentional. As for the open mind, I for myself never said that I was open or closed mind. I said that was the best season 1 and 2, and why change what was good. And to emphasize that I remain a big fan of Serena and Dan!
So to be open minded I have to change what I'm enjoying at the moment. I liked the young, sweet love that Derena had early on, I liked the churning passion of Chair, I even liked Serenate and the possibility of Nate and Jenny (not sure if that ship had an abbreviated name) and I like the touching realism of Dair's more adult relationship. I am not averse to things changing in the future and I won't be ticked off and ranting if Dair don't last etc. I am not the one on here that is constantly harping on about the past and never wanting things to change. Now that's being closed minded.
im sorry Dair shippers but they really don't appeal much as a couple for me. They have a great relationship though. They can exchange their ideas and have intellectual conversations like best friends. Only like best friends.
We did not understand. My point is that if Blair and Dan are together, then break down a story that has lasted over the past 4.5 seasons. Producers are keeping the story of Dan and Serena almost 4 seasons, and Chuck and Blair almost 4.5 seasons. It is necessary to finish the story properly, and not break up couples. Then what is the point for the story of this couples that so much last? If they wanted to break up them, then they should not have so long maintained their story. You say you have an open view, but again you would not change anything as far. Meaning that you are still a cheer for Dan and Blair! Because this change is now completely damaged the series!
An incredible propaganda is carried out for Dan and Blair. Two months ago you could only read about Chuck and Blair, and now only hear the opposite. If the producers think they can do whatever they want with a series that viewers would accept that, then they are terribly mistaken. Information of rating that indicate. Does not change the team during the game, if there is another Half time (for Chuck and Blair fans)!
Again you are putting words into my mouth. I never said sex wasn't important, I just said that there has to be more to a relationship than that for it to last long term. And I never claimed that Blair was over Chuck as I still think proper closure is needed there for that to be wholly true and we haven't seen that yet. I don't agree that the majority don't like Dan and Blair either. All ships have their merits and at the moment we have Dair which for me is a nice change but I'm not averse to things changing again in the future. Me - I'm open minded.
Of course the problem is Dan and Blair. But if I am to watch the series or not, I will still choose that myself!
Y is daiir a problem while derena isnt!
If u dnt like the show stop watching n fighting over thngs watch the show whn its exactly as u want it n expect it to be!
Rare are young people in the 20 years that in addition to sex and something else more important in their lives. I think we will not agree, because as I read, to you it is not important of any a couple. Or maybe I'm wrong! But my point is about why Dan and Blair are now a it-couple, when others in my opinion were much better and had more to do. I think it is obvious that most viewers do not want to watch Dan and Blair. Also, I think what Dan and Blair have in common is not enough for a relationship. After all this is a TV series, which is expected drama and a steady stream of action. This is not a reality show in which we see two young intellectuals. You think that the Blair get over Chuck, this is not true. On the other hand, if it is true, then the series is over and there is nothing more to be seen. For if the producers decided that Dan and Blair are a couple that will end at the end of the series, then we have nothing more to see.
At no point did I say Dan and Blair were perfect because unlike most shippers I don't watch the show with blinkers on. All I was pointing out was your erroneous comment regarding them having nothing in common. I am sorry that you think that just because they are in their 20s that sex is the be all and end all because I think two intelligent people, regardless of age, would realise that a relationship needs to be built on more than that. The fact that the first time they had sex wasn't great means very little in the long term. Looks like they're over that hurdle now and the fact that the show isn't showing us them at it like rabbits is because they're attempting to show us something different with the relationships. As stated previously I have enjoyed all the ships for varying reasons but I also want to see the characters change. Also I think it would only be natural for dan to be concerned about chuck given chairs history but I dont think the reverse can be said about Bla
Serena and Dan are not brother and sister. They have no blood ties. Just because Lily and Rufus in their youth were naughty does not mean that they are brother and sister, but there is always someone finds a clever. Very pathetic!
I agree with you. And I will remain a fan of Serena and Dan. They are the most beautiful couple in love in the series! Of course, Dan and Blair should be just friends, like Chuck and Serena. But the question remains as who are the two guys that Serena will be in a relationship until the end of this season? It would be good to have Nate and Dan, but I think that writers are not so favor for that option.
I love them as friends there more brother and sister then anything but least we forget this is The Joshie Show :)
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