Dhan's Husband: What feelings does Zeke bring up for you? Clearly, his childhood trauma and resulting agoraphobia are triggering something that makes you so unwilling to see him.
Dhan: He's weak. Zeke's condition is mind over matter, but he'd rather sit in it than fight it. That offends me.
Dhan's Husband: You realize that's what you used to say about yourself when you were found and brought home?
Dhan: Zeke's too pathetic to fight.
Dhan's Husband: Zeke reminds you of you when you were at your worst, and for that reason you shut him down at every turn. I had to teach you how to show yourself grace as part of your healing. Learning to show that to others like you is also a necessary part of your healing.