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Grey’s Anatomy Season 21 Episode 17’s Jolink Wedding Brings the Romance as Other Ships Crumble

Critic's Rating: 4.1 / 5.0
4.1

Whew, Grey’s Anatomy sure loves itself some messiness!

I don’t know what to say about Grey’s Anatomy Season 21 Episode 17 other than I had envisioned something totally different than what we’ve had, and now a girl’s feelings are all over the place.

Jolink’s wedding was whatever the heck it was, but the other relationships spiraled out of control during this hour.

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Jules Pursuing Her Options is a Wise Choice

It’s no secret by now that some of us are a bit conflicted about what’s going on between Jules and Winston.

They’re simultaneously tossing out the idea of them as a pairing too quickly while trying to operate under the guise of a slow burn, too.

The show’s execution of this arc is a bit all over the place, but what’s interesting is that as Winston quietly grapples with his feelings (and I mean quietly, as we merely have to rely on Anthony Hill’s acting skills to tell us what the series isn’t right now), he’s pushing Jules away.

To be fair, he probably should’ve in some capacity, as she does need to explore more fields before she properly settles on one, and it’s not exactly fair to have one resident on the same attending service all the time.

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In hindsight, Jules recognized this and quickly appreciated that she got to spend time with Webber and took some genuine interest in General.

She performed surgery under Webber’s watchful eye and guidance, and she doesn’t even fully realize how incredible it is to be under his tutelage.

Webber and Jules were a great pairing, and it was nice to see the mentorship angle front and center since the inappropriate but unspoken feelings between her and Winston have overshadowed their mentor dynamic.

Webber and Jules Are a Wonder Team

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Their patient was amusing and was in a rough position. But goodness, that woman may have really found one of the good ones!

Steve was the perfect guy for sticking with her throughout the entire day, even though it was their first date. He genuinely seemed to care about her and showed interest. Never once did her real medical condition or the fact that she initially misled him push him away.

He was a genuinely great guy, and their sweet romance was one of the bright spots of the hour.

Sadly, Jo and Link will never stack up to them regarding Grey’s Anatomy‘s history of epic weddings.

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The fact that it had to battle it out as a plot with at least three other things spoke volumes. And I’ve never been a Jolink fan or cared about where they went.

Grey’s pulling this last minute wedding in four days bit didn’t feel like it served the relationship well and sucked some of the life out of their romance.

But their wedding moments were unexpectedly sweet. Levi’s return was a welcome highlight, and it was great to see him so happy.

The reminders that Jo is the poor orphan who doesn’t understand basic concepts like what having a mother feels like were a bit played out, and it was frustrating that she complained about Maureen so much when it was apparent the woman was excited and wanted to be a part of the moment.

But it worked out in the end when Levi helped Jo have this ephiphany and she could explain herself to Maureen and make amends. They were sweet, and it’s good that she has this extended family now.

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Link’s characterization of struggling with vows was predictable, but his dynamic with Bailey has been one of the season’s underrated gems.

We all could’ve predicted things would result in a song. It’s Chris Carmack, so naturally, Grey’s Anatomy would allow him to sing. It was a bit too long, but the vows were cute enough and effective.

Their wedding didn’t feel like a big Grey’s event, but it turned out better than one could’ve anticipated.

It’s where the buck stops with happy couples, though.

Lucas is Too Attached, But Not Misleading the Family

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Simone and Lucas were not doing well and were still on the Dylan case together, which is a powder keg situation waiting to happen.

The problem I’m having with Lucas and the Dylan case is that they aren’t doing a good job of showing us how he’s overstepping too much or giving the parents too much false hope.

Lucas never crossed that line or told them untrue things. He never seemed misleading or misguided in his attempts to answer questions or reassure them.

Instead, the situation reads as Lucas becoming a bit attached to the case and Dylan genuinely showing empathy and compassion. In contrast, Amelia and Simone read as cold and punishing, criticizing him for it.

We’d see moments when Dylan’s mother asked Amelia questions or wanted explanations. Amelia would just stand there, seemingly cold and a bit out of character, prompting Lucas to respond somehow, and then someone would scold him for it later.

Grey’s Builds Up Finale with Dylan’s Case

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It’s clear that they’re setting us up for the finale and the massive events that may happen due to this case, but it feels a bit contrived.

Things are not looking good for Dylan, as the poor girl suffers from Locked-In Syndrome. Amelia seems to be spiraling and deflated, feeling as if she’s bitten off more than she can chew.

We have a combination of Amelia doubting herself, her impostor syndrome kicking in hard, and Lucas caring too much about this case. Basically, the Shepherd clan is heading down a potentially devastating road.

Lucas’ frustrations have also resulted from the tension between him and Simone, with neither addressing things outright nor having a healthy conversation about what they mean to each other.

Their relationship issues have recently exposed so much about them as individuals.

Simone and Lucas May Be Fractured Beyond Repair

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We’ve always known that Lucas falls fast and hard, and he’s been in love with Siomone since he first met her.

Meanwhile, Simone is a bit of a runner and is terrified of getting involved in something serious again, especially after she did that with her ex.

I understand that it’s way too soon for Simone to embark on a serious relationship when it’s apparent that with time, she’s not ready for it. She’s not a bad person for that either, and her fear of moving too quickly with Lucas makes perfect sense.

She has her fair share of issues that spill out in little ways, and we’re seeing that within this relationship, too. I don’t love Simone any less.

But I am exhausted by this relationship that I genuinely used to enjoy. Simone isn’t bad for not being in a place for a relationship right now, but Lucas still deserves better than what he’s getting from this right now.

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Simone’s Poor Decisions Could End Lumone For Good

Simone doesn’t make Lucas a priority, rarely makes the effort to understand his position on anything, and seems to harbor some residual feelings against him for being the “nepo baby,” implying she doesn’t respect him.

These are all things that deeply hurt Lucas, and he’s put up with it all because he loves her and is naturally optimistic and hopeful. But it’s not working right now.

They could be right for one another, but the timing isn’t in their favor.

If it wasn’t already difficult enough to see the two collapse as a pairing, not even an hour later, Simone was having sex with a guy at the bar. It was great seeing Grownish’s Trevor Jackson, but not like that! Goodness!

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Teddy and Owen Can’t Last If He’s In Love with Someone Else

Troubled relationships aren’t reserved for just the younger doctors; Owen and Teddy are still a hot mess and only getting worse.

Nora’s bad turn led to some genuine awkwardness when Teddy took her on as a patient. But to Teddy’s credit, she wasn’t lying or exaggerating when she said that she wouldn’t look at Nora as the woman who slept with her husband and would treat her like any other patient.

Teddy, revitalized from that Hawaiian trip filled with sex and therapy with Owen, was at her best and dove right into trying to perform a risky procedure to save Nora’s life.

And she didn’t stop trying to revive her when she coded on that table, performing a near-impossible task of bringing her back.

Even Teddy was endearing at the wedding, mapping out Nora’s heart and developing an innovative way to operate again. Teddy is at her best when she’s passionate about medicine and helping people.

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She and Winston’s inability to even enjoy the wedding because they’d prefer to take off to figure things out for Nora confirms why they’re the best at what they do.

But this whole time, she’s been blind to Owen’s genuine love for Nora. He’s in love with this woman, even if he won’t bring himself to say it out loud.

Is This the Death of Towen?

Owen doesn’t need to say it because we all see it. He was devastated when he learned her prognosis, and he could barely hide his emotions about it.

Owen went from avoiding her to keeping his feelings in check to staying behind and standing up to Teddy to be with Nora and hold onto her as they processed that this could be her end.

The raw intimacy between them in that room, as he lay beside her in bed and kissed her forehead, was too much. Nora looked up at him with pure love in her eyes, and his actions said more than he ever will with his words.

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For the umpteenth time, I wonder if Teddy and Owen can even get through this. It’s one thing to have sex with another person outside of your marriage, but this is more than sex.

Owen is legitimately in love with another woman — one who is dying at that, and there’s no walking that back or ignoring it.

Teddy is desperate to save the woman who has stolen her husband’s heart. What does she do with that?

Over to you, Grey’s Anatomy Fanatics.

Did you enjoy Jo and Link’s wedding? What are your thoughts on Simone and Lucas breaking up? How do you feel about Owen and Nora? Let’s hear it below!

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Cindy

Sunday 11th of May 2025

I agree with @Kai about Owen. Couldn’t have said it better. I get wanting to be there for Nora but getting in bed with her in full view of the hospital was disrespectful to Teddy. Owen will Owen and I can’t say I’m surprised. My heart broke for Teddy who rushed in ready to get to sorting through this new possibility for Nora.

I am also not a fan of this Winston and Jules’ romantic pairing which now seems inevitable. He needs to just have a life outside the hospital as he already seems miserable every time we see him. Not saying Jules is there yet but can he even sustain another relationship with a doctor more exceptional than himself?

The thing I find with a lot of Greys characters is they/we all know their weaknesses or things they need to work on but the characters aren’t given the opportunity to do any growth.

I agree with you Jasmine about the Lumone of it all. I honestly can’t believe Simone with that comment about getting bailed out and then hooking up with someone else moments later. I hope they find a way back as they are one of the few pairings on this show that I actually like but I just don’t know. Maybe they need to just focus on the work for now.

Really enjoyed Jules and Webber working together.

Loved the scenes between Bailey and Link.

While it was nowhere near the other epic Grey’s Anatomy weddings, Jo and Link’s wedding was sweet.

Jasmine Blu

Sunday 11th of May 2025

@Cindy, I like Lumone. They're just not in the place to benefit from a relationship right now. Clearly.

Webber is so great with interns and residents. I loved him mentoring her.

I enjoyed Jo and Link's wedding more than I expected given that I never have any interest in them as a pairing at all. It was sweet.

Ramona Robinson

Saturday 10th of May 2025

I really did enjoy Jo and Link’s wedding. I like that they’re so happy Jo deserves after the way things ended with Alex. I think the reason the marriage/wedding doesn’t live up to the hype of the other iconic Grey’s couples is because these two got together last season and we’ve seen them have more problems then actually being in love/ building a relationship. Anywho super great to see Levi.

I also liked that Jules got to be on Webber’s service. He’s always been a great mentor and whatever is happening between her and Winston I feel will derail her career because the work relationship will suffer if the personal does. I also would like to know how Winston feels about her because he looked kinda sad when she said she’d be on other services. Gosh I wish this show would get this man a friend, a dog, a journal something. I just want to know how he feels about anything lol.

Now on to Simone and Lucas🙄my god those two. Classic case of an optimist vs. a pessimist. I don’t think either one is right or wrong. I actually like that Lucas is an optimist. I feel that’s what makes him a good doctor. But I think Simone who has been through so much already knows all too well that things don’t always work out the way you plan. I don’t think she means to be so jaded. But how could she not be? The writing was on the wall for the breakup. The only thing I hated about the argument was her implying Lucas was reckless because he’s a Shepard. The “nepo baby” storyline is the one trope I hate on these medical shows because imagine being mad at someone for being born into a family they didn’t ask to be born in. I didn’t like Simone throwing that in his face. I also feel so bad for Dylan and her parents. As a parent I couldn’t imagine. Amelia bit off way more than she can chew. She annoyed taking things out on Lucas. She decided to take the case and she’s the attending. She needs to own her decisions.

Lastly Towen. I haven’t cared for either one this season but damn I felt bad for Teddy watching Owen and Nora embrace. I commended her for putting her personal feelings to the side to give Nora the best care possible but now this woman is in love with her husband and the feelings are clearly reciprocated. At this point I’m not sure what Teddy gets out of this marriage. She loves Owen more than he loves her and it shows in her inability to be with Cass/ and Owen jumping at the chance to be with Nora. Overall not a bad episode. Can’t wait for the finale.

Jasmine Blu

Sunday 11th of May 2025

@Ramona Robinson, Winston is such an odd character because he's just ... there. We don't really have any access to him in any capacity. I was shocked that he's lasted this long. He's so inaccessible.

I love Simone and I do understand that she's been through too much. She probably shouldn't have gotten into a relationship so soon after that mess with her ex-fiance. But, yeah. She's just not in the best place to be a romantic partner.

She knew how insecure he was about that, his connection to the Shepherd name and always feeling like he fell short of it, and it was just such garbage for her to throw it in his face like that as if it even meant anything or was true. His being a "nepo-baby" sure as heck didn't convince Catherine to put him back with his class. Hell, it didn't keep him from facing the brunt of the punishment for losing that patient.

I see so much criticism of Lucas when it comes to Simone and how he was on this case, but I too feel that the Dylan situation fell on Amelia. She chose this and bit off way too much. She's inwardly spiraling which has her distancing herself from the patient's mother and causing communication issues.

I don't know what to even say about Towen anymore. They're such a mess. They've been a mess for a long time. I wish they'd just divorce and put everyone out of their misery.

Kai

Friday 9th of May 2025

I enjoyed Jo & Link's wedding even though Jo was in the story! I liked Link's song; I thought it was sweet, and I enjoyed him reading his surgery notes version of his vows to Bailey. That was funny. However, Jo was her annoying self, spiraling and fretting when a simple conversation would resolve the whole problem, which it did.

Towen: well, it's no secret how I feel about this couple, Owen most of all. I hate speaking up for Owen, but the heart is a complicated place. I can imagine loving my spouse and still having feelings about the fact that someone I've known almost my entire life, someone I care about and whom I just slept with, is imminently dying. Not only that, but they're alone in their hospital bed, family on the way but not there yet, faced with a long night of thinking about dying. I would sit with them and keep them company. I would not leave that person alone while I went to a party with my friends. However, I would also NOT get into bed with them at my spouse's place of work and cuddle with them in full view of any hospital staff or passersby to see and comment on. Owen's selfishness was in full flower that night, and he gave no thought to how his actions would blow back on Teddy and how much gossip there will be about him and their marriage.

I imagine if Teddy says something about it, his self righteousness will come out, too, and he will play the victim on behalf of him and Nora and cast Teddy as the villain unwilling to let him comfort a dying woman. I sure hope Towen is done.

Jasmine Blu

Friday 9th of May 2025

@Kai, Yeah, their wedding wasn't that bad. I didn't have high expectations or any real investment in it, but it turned out sweeter than I imagined. Jo is always going to Jo, though.

Yeah, I get sticking with Nora to comfort her, but they were purely intimate like a full-blown couple in that bed. I was shocked to see how he must've forgotten about literally everyone else around because they were in plain sight! He's definitely going to get self-righteous and messy about this!

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