How I Met Your Mother Review: "Hopeless"

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I'm sure there were those who watched tonight's episode "Hopeless" that were left feeling much like Barney did while fishing. It's inevitable as this show is held to a very high standard by its fans, but I felt like Carter and Craig delivered in a number of ways this week.

We saw Barney finally wrap up his daddy issues and were treated to a night of the cast shining in each of their respective roles which have made their characters so loved. There were also a number of clues dropped to help spur on the Mother story line's development.

Barney and Dad Picture

The debate as to what club to take Jerry to was a great nod to the seemingly endless rise and fall of New York City night spots and the corresponding list of singular word names chosen in an attempt to be the freshest and edgiest scene. It reminded me of a fantastically named bar in Mantoloking, New Jersey.

After numerous changes in ownership and name, the current owners finally found a name which stuck when they called the bar Used to Be's.

Marshall and Lily shined as they embraced their roles as swingers. Lily had a comical moment when she got her Meryl Streep characters confused and referenced Julia Child when she had been evoking Anna Wintour from The Devil Wears Prada. I was happy to see that I'm not the only person who unabashedly has an affinity for that film.

Ted and Robin once again danced their Paso Doble of a relationship as they took turns baiting one another with sarcastic taunts. So much so that Ted prevented Robin from rekindling the spark she had once shared with the guy from the clothing store. We were lead to believe though, that we haven't seen the last of Michael Trucco's character. Was this why Robin seemed so happy despite telling Lily somethings just aren't meant to be? This storyline dealt a possible blow to those who contend that the wedding where Ted meets his wife is Barney and Robin's. 

There were, however, a couple moments that seemed to reinforce the exact opposite. The first of which was when Barney let slip that his father would ask him why he wouldn't just marry Robin because he after all, had never been happier than when he was with her. The second of which came when Barney wondered out loud if he had already met the right girl as he and Jerry were driving with Ms. Daisy (Mrs. Perkins) on their way back to Jerry's house. 

John Lithgow delivered his best episode to date. I laughed as he yelled "you're drifting" to Mrs. Perkins. It may or may not have been intentional but it brought to mind the film The Fast and theFurious: Tokyo Drift, where such a driving maneuver was celebrated. His Footloose reference was great as well, when he called Barney a small town preacher from the Midwest.

When he thanked Barney for keeping safe all these years, the button from the Legalize It Fest 1983, I was reminded of the scene from Pulp Fiction where Captain Koons delivered Butch Coolidge his father's watch after keeping it "hidden" for years while in a Vietnam prison camp. I quickly realized Jerry was talking more about Barney holding onto the memory of him, which was a nice moment of closure for those two as well. 

Amidst his usual bevy of comical quotes, N.P.H. once again showed off Barney's serious side as his face and voice dramatically changed when he worried aloud about being too far gone and broken. Crazy Jerry may have been a bust, but Serious Barney has its place in this show for certain. After running in place for a while, How I Met Your Mother took some solid steps with regard to the overall plot and let us all know that our desire to learn the identity of the Mother is not at all hopeless. Until next time, be sure to check out some of the more memorable How I Met Your Mother quotes from this week's episode. 

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Ted cant meet the mother at Punchy's wedding; why would Marshall & Lily (and I presume Barney & Robin) go when they dont know him? I think its Robin's/his sisters wedding where he meets her.


The bar is actually in Brick Township, not Mantoloking.


Just to clarify, Used to Be's is not in Mantoloking. It's in South Mantoloking which is Brick Township.


This episode leaves me completely curious on the future of Barney and Robin. Is Robin going to end up with that guy from the clothing store? Or is she the girl that will make Barney finally settle down? If she doesn't end up with Barney, does that mean there's still hope for Nora or is there another person coming into the picture? So freaking curious!!


Im pretty sure Ted meets his future wife at Punchy's wedding. Because in the first episode of this season, Punchy comes by and asks Ted to be his best man and he also mets Rachel Bilson's character that episode and they say that they will stay in touch, and the mother is/was her room mate. So it would make the most sense if Ted met her at Punchy's wedding. Also, I dont think Barney is gonna be with Robin. I think Barney was talking about Nora, because when you watch the episode where they all get their hearts checked out because of the death of Marshall's dad. He tells Nora he wants to get married and then he says he lied. Lilly slaps him for it because she knew that was the actual truth and he just ran away from it because he was scared. Well...that's just my opinion. But overall, good episode. :)


HIYM has never run in place. just saying

How I Met Your Mother Season 6 Episode 21 Quotes

Robin, no one watches the news unless it's a car chase or a nip slip.


Tonight's gonna be Leden-Jerry!