Jules is shocked to find out that all of her friends are keeping secrets on Cougar Town. "You Tell Me" is the tenth episode of the show's fourth season.
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Cougar Town Season 4 Episode 10 Quotes

Bobby: Well come on Mando, you're married Ellie. You're a seasoned crazy bitch whisperer. No offense.
Laurie: You know, he once bitch whispered me down from choking out a lady from using the handicap stall. Turns out she was handicapped, but, like, barely.

He looks like that nerdy lesbian from Scooby-Boo.

Jules