Jules is shocked to find out that all of her friends are keeping secrets on Cougar Town. "You Tell Me" is the tenth episode of the show's fourth season.

Cougar Town Season 4 Episode 10 Quotes

Bobby: Well come on Mando, you're married Ellie. You're a seasoned crazy bitch whisperer. No offense.
Laurie: You know, he once bitch whispered me down from choking out a lady from using the handicap stall. Turns out she was handicapped, but, like, barely.

He looks like that nerdy lesbian from Scooby-Boo.