Joan Rivers makes her presence felt on this episode of Drop Dead Diva. It's a scene from the episode "Ashes to Ashes."
Pictured in this Drop Dead Diva scene: Josh Stamberg, Margaret Cho, April Bowlby, Kate Levering and Carter MacIntyre.

Drop Dead Diva Season 4 Episode 9 Quotes

Jane: I think you're mixing up ghosts and vampires.
Stacy: I know, but vampires are so much sexier.

A funeral represents closure and since you never got closure from Owen in real life, your subconscious is working it out for you.