Cam doesn't handle it well when Mitchell's ex spends time with the family on Modern Family. "My Hero" is the 22nd episode of the show's fourth season.
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Modern Family Season 4 Episode 22 Quotes

You've just gotta tell him man to man, woman to man, you're very shapely.

Phil

Aww time to heal more, that's so sweet and sensitive. Why did you kill that part of yourself?

Cam [to Mitchell]